You had a hot session with a provider then you later find out (with proof).

1. She had a pimp.

2. She is a drug user.

If you wrote a review would you have your review pulled or would you update your review with the info from points 1 and 2 ?

You aren't the one who forced her to choose the path she decided to take.  If you don't take credit for helping to pay for a Bday bicycle for a child of an indy, you shouldn't feel blame for your situation.

Bottom line, we all live our own lives.  We owe it to be clean, courteous and respectful.  We can't shape anybody's life.

you have no right to change the review.

i would however, look very closely at the person who showed you this "proof" because whatever they are up to, is really so much worse.


you review the time you pay for, what she does with the rest of her time is really not your concern.  

do you let your boss judge your behavior when you're not on the clock ?

For another thing, neither is a legit reason to pull a review that is otherwise truthful.

what does 1 or 2 have anything to do with it...stay focused on the Fun...and why should You feel bad...when You should be feeling soooo good

#1 - If you expect an indy, and she advertises as an indy, then you should NOT have to deal with an agency.  IMO, a pimp, male or female, is a form of agency.  At a minimum, the TER profile should be updated to reflect agency.

#2 - Depending upon what kind of drugs, it may be a health consideration for the next hobbyist.

Hell no, I couldn't care less.  The pimp part would probably keep me from repeating.
If she had looked and acted like a total stoner when I walked in, I would have walked out.

If the pimp or the drug use did not enter into your date, I don't think they belong in a review.
If you have access to the reviewers only board you can bring it up there.

Didn't know till after the fact she had a pimp, but knew she was into 420. No big deal on the second, but wish I knew about the first.

Basically it's all water under the bridge now.

Just giving an honest answer to an honest question.

You never truly know until it's too late. Then, what's done is done.

Know what I'm sayin'?

Its best you don't know a lot of things about some providers. They are human and have problems like the rest of us. If you had prior knowledge of drug use, pimps, medical, etc., you'd never make the call. The only problem I can't get past is abuse of alcohol that is obvious when you hit the door.

update the review and alert the community.

who has a problem with substance abuse, and would hope that she somehow gets the help and support that she needs.

If having a pimp, or her drug use had any bearing on my review, it would have been included in the first place. There would be no reason to change it.

but the bottom line is that playing this game, you are supposed to take the lady at "face value" and not probe, not violate boundaries

Whatever her issues may be (or whatever *our* issues may be lol) we should play the game and stay out of one another's business....

It's a fantasy.

in MANY cases, if we knew the reality (in either or both directions lol) we would not be able to enjoy it....

First, IMHO neither of these issues has anything to do with the review of the session. Once you give your money to a lady is it realistic to expect her to spend it an a manner that you approve of? Once it changes hands its HER money, to do with as she pleases.

Second, make sure your 'proof' is 100% accurate and reliable before you 'out' the girls private life. She's 'innocent til proven guilty' right?

Also you need to define your terms: What is a pimp? Some guy she gives her money to, an organized 'ring' or an agency? Did you actually see the money passed off? Maybe what appears to be a 'pimp' is simply a friend holding the bank?

What drugs? So many substances are categorized as drugs these days I think that begs to be clarified. And once again, you better be sure before you go there!

you paid for a fantasy and you got what you paid for. Now back off of her private life..

If the situation was reversed and she felt bad because you are married and fucking around on your wife...Should she out you to your wife?? HELL FUCKING NO!

So mind your own business, you got what you paid for. Move on!

These girls aren't angels. Some do it for fun, most for money. It goes back to the reason why we are paying them. We wouldn't normally have access to such beautiful women.