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Mechanical vs Sensual?
lungman 10 Reviews 1734 reads
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1 / 22

I have been very fortunate with the ladies I've chosen. They were all VERY sensual and not rehearsed or mechanical.
I think that says alot about the TER ladies. I personally, would not look anywhere else.
Hope u all have been as lucky.
For us 55+ yr old guys that are single, , man, these ladies are a God Send. IMHO. ( even if it is, P 4 P )

butterflydust See my TER Reviews 611 reads
posted
2 / 22

i consider myself a bit of a sensual artist... anyone who is sensitive to gentle touch, or likes to be teased, is basically doomed in my presence, LOL.  but some aspects of sensuality have a rhythmic quality to them.  i gather that rhythmic and mechanical are not synonymous... but what's mechanical?  is it rhythmic, but stiff?  or rhythmic, but without passion?  can't say i've ever had a lover whose behavior i would describe as 'mechanical', so i'm just curious.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 602 reads
posted
3 / 22

Most define "Mechanical" as simply going through the motions and lacking interest of passion...or, at least not ACTING like you are interested. A gal who has a script of things to do per se, vs. treating every encounter as unique. There are certain things I will always do on a date, and then there are things that I only do with certain guys. I normally do have a pattern of doing an introduction over wine and cheese, but on my PSE type dates, that is bypassed at the beginning, and resumed during break time.

There are women who say they will do certain acronyms, and do just that, but they lack enthusiasm whilst doing them. That's what most guys mean by "Mechanical." It was as if she promised to do a set of activities, but that's it. Doing the bare min. to get by, if you will but with no desire to actually be there.

lungman 10 Reviews 568 reads
posted
4 / 22

Mechanical for me means, rehearsed. A quick kiss, drop your drawers for your bbbj, next, put condom on and stick it in, bypassing the heavy petting before intercourse. Lots of hot kissing and rubbing is very sensual. Hey, maybe all escorts are sensual, I don't know, since all my experiences have been. (sensual, that is)
Just wanted to hear how things have gone for others.

butterflydust See my TER Reviews 502 reads
posted
5 / 22

lungman, the scenario you described sounds awful.  LOL!  if anything, i'm usually the one encouraging more foreplay, so i guess this doesn't apply to me!  yes, kissing, touching, embracing, while lying next to each other minimally clothed or nude -- all of those things are damned near critical to a good experience, for me.  i am super tactile and love the feel of things!

sympathyforthedevil 57 Reviews 480 reads
posted
6 / 22

It seems to me the asian agency ladies have a script they are following.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 402 reads
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7 / 22
mrfisher 115 Reviews 531 reads
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8 / 22
connrogue2 12 Reviews 489 reads
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9 / 22

All the JAP jokes.

What is the difference between a JAP and a bowl of jello?

Jello wiggles when you eat it

Nolklylu 58 Reviews 474 reads
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10 / 22
lungman 10 Reviews 462 reads
posted
11 / 22

Keep up the good work, BD.
I like your attitude.

laurensummerhill See my TER Reviews 517 reads
posted
12 / 22

I'm so pleased to hear you have had so many good experiences. However, many have also been very frustrated by bad experiences with ladies on this website.  You will find good and bad on every single directory for companionship.

What your good experiences suggest is that you are a good judge of character based on looking over websites, ads and reviews. It is possible to spot a lady of quality using these tools, and not everyone is good at it.  

What you have is an invaluable skill that will ensure your continued pleasure as you meet ladies.

lungman 10 Reviews 467 reads
posted
15 / 22

I know it's P 4 P, but what really blows me away is, an average joe like me, has acsess to such beautiful women....it's unbelievable.

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 411 reads
posted
16 / 22

You can still be mechanical while being sensual. You can fake enthusiasm that is either believable or not.  
I would say mechanical in the hobby would be doing the same things in the same order everytime. Now only repeat customers may notice that, so just switch things up with someone you have seen before.

Mechanical with a SO is when the sex has no passion and is only done because you don't want your partner mad because it has been a while since last done. Most often the same position that just becomes boring and this is where role play spices things up.

In either scenario changing the order things are done or changing where its done  will make things less mechanical. For example sex does not only have to  take place in the bedroom does it?  

The basics are always the same, in the hobby it's the variety that makes it appear less mechanical for the guys.  Some providers are better actresses than others.

I have had mechanical in marriages, and it sucks.

MM

case321 31 Reviews 432 reads
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17 / 22
LovetoDaty 7 Reviews 429 reads
posted
18 / 22

In a GFE settings I've been in I have never noticed anything "mechanical". The ladies have always
responded in a very real or genuine fashion. My opinion is if you approach her and treat her like a "girlfriend" she will most probably respond the same way. Don't focus on looking for the "mechanics"
(i.e. BBBJ, etc) from her and I think the sensual will come naturally. Just my experience and 2 cents.

3mdssa 498 reads
posted
19 / 22

Ditto to that ;)

Posted By: LovetoDaty
In a GFE settings I've been in I have never noticed anything "mechanical". The ladies have always  
 responded in a very real or genuine fashion. My opinion is if you approach her and treat her like a "girlfriend" she will most probably respond the same way. Don't focus on looking for the "mechanics"  
 (i.e. BBBJ, etc) from her and I think the sensual will come naturally. Just my experience and 2 cents.

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 478 reads
posted
20 / 22

Dancing to Brass Monkey by the Beastie Boys! :D
Really!

MaximusSeximus 432 reads
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21 / 22
SoftlySarah See my TER Reviews 407 reads
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22 / 22

appreciate the women you meet here. So many men seem to be so ungrateful and entitled. It's so much nicer when we can all appreciate each other and what we bring to each others' worlds. :)

xoxoxo

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