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can someone define 'mechanical' for me?red_smile
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i consider myself a bit of a sensual artist... anyone who is sensitive to gentle touch, or likes to be teased, is basically doomed in my presence, LOL.  but some aspects of sensuality have a rhythmic quality to them.  i gather that rhythmic and mechanical are not synonymous... but what's mechanical?  is it rhythmic, but stiff?  or rhythmic, but without passion?  can't say i've ever had a lover whose behavior i would describe as 'mechanical', so i'm just curious.

I have been very fortunate with the ladies I've chosen. They were all VERY sensual and not rehearsed or mechanical.
I think that says alot about the TER ladies. I personally, would not look anywhere else.
Hope u all have been as lucky.
For us 55+ yr old guys that are single, , man, these ladies are a God Send. IMHO. ( even if it is, P 4 P )

i consider myself a bit of a sensual artist... anyone who is sensitive to gentle touch, or likes to be teased, is basically doomed in my presence, LOL.  but some aspects of sensuality have a rhythmic quality to them.  i gather that rhythmic and mechanical are not synonymous... but what's mechanical?  is it rhythmic, but stiff?  or rhythmic, but without passion?  can't say i've ever had a lover whose behavior i would describe as 'mechanical', so i'm just curious.

Most define "Mechanical" as simply going through the motions and lacking interest of passion...or, at least not ACTING like you are interested. A gal who has a script of things to do per se, vs. treating every encounter as unique. There are certain things I will always do on a date, and then there are things that I only do with certain guys. I normally do have a pattern of doing an introduction over wine and cheese, but on my PSE type dates, that is bypassed at the beginning, and resumed during break time.

There are women who say they will do certain acronyms, and do just that, but they lack enthusiasm whilst doing them. That's what most guys mean by "Mechanical." It was as if she promised to do a set of activities, but that's it. Doing the bare min. to get by, if you will but with no desire to actually be there.

Mechanical for me means, rehearsed. A quick kiss, drop your drawers for your bbbj, next, put condom on and stick it in, bypassing the heavy petting before intercourse. Lots of hot kissing and rubbing is very sensual. Hey, maybe all escorts are sensual, I don't know, since all my experiences have been. (sensual, that is)
Just wanted to hear how things have gone for others.

lungman, the scenario you described sounds awful.  LOL!  if anything, i'm usually the one encouraging more foreplay, so i guess this doesn't apply to me!  yes, kissing, touching, embracing, while lying next to each other minimally clothed or nude -- all of those things are damned near critical to a good experience, for me.  i am super tactile and love the feel of things!

Keep up the good work, BD.
I like your attitude.

You can still be mechanical while being sensual. You can fake enthusiasm that is either believable or not.  
I would say mechanical in the hobby would be doing the same things in the same order everytime. Now only repeat customers may notice that, so just switch things up with someone you have seen before.

Mechanical with a SO is when the sex has no passion and is only done because you don't want your partner mad because it has been a while since last done. Most often the same position that just becomes boring and this is where role play spices things up.

In either scenario changing the order things are done or changing where its done  will make things less mechanical. For example sex does not only have to  take place in the bedroom does it?  

The basics are always the same, in the hobby it's the variety that makes it appear less mechanical for the guys.  Some providers are better actresses than others.

I have had mechanical in marriages, and it sucks.

MM

It seems to me the asian agency ladies have a script they are following.

All the JAP jokes.

What is the difference between a JAP and a bowl of jello?

Jello wiggles when you eat it

I'm so pleased to hear you have had so many good experiences. However, many have also been very frustrated by bad experiences with ladies on this website.  You will find good and bad on every single directory for companionship.

What your good experiences suggest is that you are a good judge of character based on looking over websites, ads and reviews. It is possible to spot a lady of quality using these tools, and not everyone is good at it.  

What you have is an invaluable skill that will ensure your continued pleasure as you meet ladies.

I know it's P 4 P, but what really blows me away is, an average joe like me, has acsess to such beautiful women....it's unbelievable.

appreciate the women you meet here. So many men seem to be so ungrateful and entitled. It's so much nicer when we can all appreciate each other and what we bring to each others' worlds. :)

xoxoxo

In a GFE settings I've been in I have never noticed anything "mechanical". The ladies have always
responded in a very real or genuine fashion. My opinion is if you approach her and treat her like a "girlfriend" she will most probably respond the same way. Don't focus on looking for the "mechanics"
(i.e. BBBJ, etc) from her and I think the sensual will come naturally. Just my experience and 2 cents.

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Ditto to that ;)

Posted By: LovetoDaty
In a GFE settings I've been in I have never noticed anything "mechanical". The ladies have always  
 responded in a very real or genuine fashion. My opinion is if you approach her and treat her like a "girlfriend" she will most probably respond the same way. Don't focus on looking for the "mechanics"  
 (i.e. BBBJ, etc) from her and I think the sensual will come naturally. Just my experience and 2 cents.

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