Imagine you are an OBGYN who has to look at vaginas all day...not just the small, tasty, odorless, pretty ones, but the gross ones too. On your day off, do you really want to deal with yet another vagina? That's about the easiest way I can describe it for me. Sex with a mate is much different, but I could never see having a boyfriend whilst doing this. I mean how does that work exactly? "Sorry honey, I can't fk you tonight because I have a yeast infection from the guy I had to fk for 12 hours yesterday."

I get bored really quick with the same person, but not the sex..just the person. So yea, I don't think you're abnormal, because many people feel the way you do.

I love sex, more than most, not as much as others.  You seem to have a high sex drive, some women have no sex drive, and then there are many in between.  
There are surveys that list where sex falls in priorities in women's lives.  One survey says, 1/3rd of women would rather give up sex than their phone.  Another, says sleeping and reading a good book ranked higher than sex...
Just google sex surveys and you'll get a ton of different list.  
I think for both men and women, stress and a busy lifestyle (especially raising children) can hamper their sex drive.  Let's face it, when you are sleep deprived sex seems less important than when you are relaxed, happy, and on vacation.
I used to be more like you, I craved sex and I still can't get enough.  But, I have found some middle ground and balance.  Yes, sex is fucking AWESOME, but there is more to life.
However, on the other extreme, there are many women that have no desire for sex.  I know, I "take care" of their husbands.  I'll never fully understand them, but they help keep me in business, so...

It's not a question of you or them. Only what is right for you. Even the most lusty of women can find themselves turned off by their partners, or not feeling sexual. And, the most cloistered librarian types can have a naughty side, if you hit the right buttons.

Sex can get complicated. Jobs. CHILDREN. relationships. stress. past experiences. religious beliefs. Life in general.........

But a woman loving and craving sex is absolutely, completely normal

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I can appreciate what everyone is saying. I think there is a scale and some of us are on the far end. Wouldn't be surprised if the scale looked like a bell curve as often scales do in life. Sent you a PM with a more detailed response.

A woman hobbyist?

Thinking about sex and masturbating is fine.
Talking about it with others is fine too, but only if they are interested in it as well and don't mind talking about it.
It's too bad your friends aren't into it as much as you are.

On the other hand, a woman hobbyist -- quite rare!

I am 70 and remain obsessed.  I am married, and have a special friend (for whom I really gave up hobbying for a few years) and some friends with benefits.  This past week end and Monday and Tuesday morning, my wife was out of town and I spent most of those days acting like a teenager in terms of almost obsessive frequency and variety.  I can tell you this is not "normal".at my age.
I too spend time looking for toys and people with a wide variety of tastes many of which make me a genuine pervert (no details but there is little short of real pain, kids, and animals I have not tried.)
I have always wanted to get inside the head of providers.  I wish i could do it.  I am fascinated by the "intimacy" I have with so many patients in a way I would not have imagined when I first started working in marketing after graduating from college.  I wish I could understand the kind if ""intimacy"and sexuality a provide feels.  It says something about human beings which I still do not understand.  
Sorry to have wandered off but your question seems to ask really profound questions.

you are the norm.........

your a hedonistic, wild , passionate, healthy woman. Society has bred people to fear thier sexuality. If it werent so taboo we woulndt make so much, .If all men were sexualy satisfied because thier wives and girlfriends understood that pent up gizz actual;y is extremely un healthy and causes stress. having an orgasm lowers blood pressure and is by all means necessary especialy for men. In chiona its common practice for the womens husbands to visit these massage bath hpuses and the wives know of it and dont care, over here some women not only cut the husbands off from affection and sex but then expect them to just what jerk off w mags hiding in a bathroom?
I seen on a talk show anderson cooper other day, About cheaters, This former mistress turned activist therapist whos now agaionst bein the other woman and helps other women not do it. Her advice I thought was cool- "if you dont want the husband to cheat. try and act like you ARE his mistress." In other words give him alotta attention and sex. She also noted when men cheat its not usually with some one prettier or younger like wives and so s think. Its usually just with some one willing to show them the attention they been craving . Not alwasy nessisarily with a better lookin or younger woman.
when i was 19 i began hanging in cambridge and lived with a group of "radical anarchist hippy ravers."
 I attended paigan festiva;s such as the famous "starwood festival " in brushwood folklore center sherman ny. {voted one of the biggest oarties of the worls by high times magazine!" it is so large thier are people from nova scotia other countries and the government flies helicopters over head all week in fear of perhaps well whothe hell knows, all i know is at huge gatherings they f;y helicopters overhead, I realized by attenting these paigan gatherings. Sex shou;d be celebrated. People shpu;dnt feel ashamed to be naked, fat or skinny old or young, and over all people should be animals, we are and think we are above all other creatures in animal kingdom.
  I seen at this festival allw eek people of all ages and size waling around"sky clad" as they called it.
i also body painted mtyself and ran around naked, I had more fun here than ever, I think you d enjoy looking into this festival if your truly a free spirit and love celebrating sex and exploring it, they had some bdsm demos going on some where at oe pont and sold alot cool gear at different shops they set up. And of course thier are well im promptu orgies goin on here and there. Which can be exciting, ......
                                   One year a woman got down on ground in front the drummers and masterbated. You d pronbly like these crowds and may be able to express yourself and find like minded individuals here.
  you are the norm. society wants you to believe your the alien, but trust me, they are the ones that are uptight and not intouch with thier true animal nature and well, all you can do is feel sorry for then=m going through life thinking they are so high n mighty that something as beautiful as the human body and sex is something to be hidden or feared or disgusted by. The human body is beautiful. Fat old young thin , And sex and prgasm with out doubt is beautiful. Dont let fundamentalist uptight society close you in girlfriend, Be the sexual prowess you are and dont let any one tell you dofferent, xoxoxoxo   and check out the starwood gathering you l find like minded indivuals that dont think inside a box like yourself there.
here is the link I ateended 3 years in a row, 11 years ago, I never forget the one whole summer i didnt sleep indoors once went directly from rainbow gathering nationals to serious rising the festival before strawood, then starwood. the whope summer spent capming and festival hopping. we did touch base at the farm i lived at in colrain and even there i slept on front lawn !!!!! what a crazy animal hippie gal . I was. here check out the link and dont hang out with uptight people who ever makes you feel theres something wrong with you cuz your a human and get horny ? what? you need to find new friends!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you are the norm........def the norm.......

Being horny is a normal function of the human body,. If men dont cum often they cant concentrate they are annoyed and stressed and therefor can get other prooblems like high blood pressure blue balls! hahah.
you d like this festival I attended 3 years in a row . 11 years ago. It was voted one of the top ten biggest bparties of north bamerica by high times mgazine, i recall one year this woman getting in front of about 800 drummers at the drum circle and fire pit, and just sprawling out and masterbating in front every one. O think youd find you may meet like minded free spirits and folks at starwood,
main stream society does have mainly fundamentalist christian values which teach to wait til marrieage for sex and well no offense but look what attempting to stifle your natural sexual desires which is by no means healthy or natural has done to all our catholic priests, they are so horny they are like al;la ttacking little kids, i mean . the proof is in the pudding, thier is nothing holy or natural about being celibate.
I lovesd this festival and here youl find sex is celibrated the human body celibrated, There are young dat old and young , whom spend the entire week "sky clad" or nude, i myself body painted myself and ran around naked with fairy wings on and these goth demonia boots and glitter, i never had so much fun in my life, oh and impromptu orgies galore, xoxoxox check out the link, and celebrate your sexuality girlfriend and dont let no one tell ya different!
xoxoxoxo

I swear sounds like you'd thrive in this enviroment,{SEE LINK} they have some s and  m demos and its just a temporary autonomous zone where youl finally feel at home and not like well like u say here society is impossing its primarily fundamentalist christian values on you, I admit I have respect for mary and jesus but some the values our society has and things i am not standing behind,. The women who deprive thier husbands of affection as well as sex,i dont stand behind that practice, In china the women thier are all over the idea of the men visiting bath hOuseS to get rocks off an its common practice, over here its taboo and the women whom assist them in getting this affection and release they are deprived of,are cosidered criminals.  Because people are bred to be cold machines with no time to love there so s anymore,no time to learn the art of giving a great massage.   Then they expect the s o to also just be celibate?and hide in a bathroom witha pron mag?  and get angry if they visit a massage parlor for some stress relief. I dont believe in suppressing your sexuality and the fact you even asked a question like this is sad that society actually has you believing thier is something wrong with you,
check out starwood and get some free spirit crowd friends, step outside the box.
I am sorry your friends have led you to believe you should question being a healthy sexual himan being............................

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I am the same way..

There is this great book called "Sex at Dawn"
You should read it

Have a fabulous time

~Cat xoxo