Is it because no one will kiss you at home?

Because you kid yourself seeing a paid SW is a romantic date?

Is it because you never had a girl friend ?

You can't fuck a woman or get hard without it ?


It wasn't long ago that providers refused to kiss johns. Many still hate it.  What would you guys have done 10 years ago when Sex Workers sucked your dick & then  kicked your sorry ass out the door?

Plain and simple it's all or some fo what you mentioned.  When you're paying for it, you get to help set the mood or scene at your own discretion.  Just as to each their own in choosing the type of provider, it boils down to the service you want and each person having their own particulars on the subject.

I can take it or leave it, in fact I usually leave it. But I just had an appoinment a few days ago where the girl seemed really into it and it was nice.

wow...someone sounds like they got up on the wrong side of the bed today...

It just seemed like the thing to do at the time.
Now go get your vaseline, and kleenex and go back to doing what you do best!  LOL

Because I'm very oral, I like kissing, and it makes the entire experience much for enjoyable for me.  Maybe you need to look into another line of work...perhaps something you can enjoy and feel good about. I don't think this is it.

like so much on here.

I just wish men didn't grow hair o their faces.
That is why I prefer to kiss women.
Some men have softer hair or it grows slower and they are more enjoyable for me to kiss.
You never know who is a good kisser.

I find men in the hobby to be easy to train/kiss you the way you request if you show them.
Please do not suck on a girls lips or graze your teeth on her lips.
I don't know of any ladies who like that.

My lips and all my skin is extremely soft so maybe that is why i am sensitive.
I also do not block out sensations or think about other things/dissociate when i am with someone in an intimate setting.
I like to raise energy, have orgasms, create strong orgasms, and see if I can link to the energy of the other person.

I demand Listerine be used by any man or woman because cavity causing germs are very contagious.
I use it if I am kissing anyone ever.
I would rather BBBJ than kiss.lol
Worst case scenario is an std and antibiotics are so much cheaper than the dentist.
HIV is almost never transmitted orally and even then it's among drug users and not even related to P4P.
I used to have so many female partners and 3somes my obgyn was always testing my throat. I have always been clean even though I was traveling and very promiscuous.

Perhaps there are more of us than we realized.

If you don't want to kiss women, don't.

Why do so many jerkoffs think everyone has to hobby like them?

Is it because you're so insecure that you can't tolerate people who are different?

Is it because you have no way to exercise any authority in your 'real' life?

Is it because you have too much time on your hands living there in your mom's basement?

I'll tell you what you can kiss.

My ass.

I have only been with ladies I wanted to kiss, so perhaps I am missing the point.

If you don't want to kiss the ladies that you are seeing maybe you should try to see ladies that you find more attractive.  Just a thought.

tc

Here's an answer though:

I likes it!

If someone wants to have sex, why wouldn't they want to kiss? Kissing is part of sex...

Wow...

Talk about sterile in bed.  I want passion not a gynecologist appointment.

Brush their teeth everyday,floss & use Listerine.
Might help.

but too much tongue is gross

drooling is not allowed. i will smack.

They're just titles that describe what we are here for - sex for pay.

Now why do we kiss? Because we (providers and hobbyists) want to feel an intimate connection. Yes, many providers enjoy kissing as well. It's just nice to embrace someone sometimes whether you are a john or a pro who doesn't get it at home. It just feels nice.

I believe kissing is a very important part of foreplay. Why wouldn't you want to enjoy all that is offered when with an itimate partner, paid or otherwise.

I find kissing and making out with your clothes on  a turn on and taking them off piece by piece will really get my pussy wet. I love the you do me, I do you and then you do me concept. It's fun to remove one item and replace it with lips,tongue or fingers.

Is there a better way of getting turned on ?

When you touch not only sexually but spriritualy true intimacy can be wonderful. Meeting such a true friend is available often if you let it happen.

Being a GFE is not a service. It's the ability to peel back all your defenses and open yourself to the wonders that only a true intimate experience can give on a personal level. It is soft, sensual and moves along smoothly as though there is no time at all. It's when you look at your watch in the end and "say my god we have been here that long".

I am very comfortable in my skin and confident in who I am and what I do.

By the way, I have been around over 10 years and kissing was always part of any time a man spent with me. Yes, there are always women ready to take your money and offer little or nothing.  

Kisses Haley

Very well said.  You hit the nail on the head. (rhyming coincidental) Great website by the way.

unless they move it back and forth instead of massaging your tongue with equal pressure as you are kissing them.

I wanna drool all over your boobies and if you try to smack me I will tie your hands back with your hair.

I need a plane ticket to Orlando.

Well said Haley.

and as I always say DFK is for both sets of lips.



Thank you
2010 = 28

The OP seemed much funnier when I thought one of you two were behind it.

I might poke fun at the manginas, but even I hate to fuck without kissing. lol

I'll follow you all over the boards trying to catch those lips. By the way one pair of my lips has wiskers now and it's not the pair on my face. Hope the peach fuzz won't bother you

Kisses Haley

Maybe it is because a true Courtesan/ Geisha/ Hetaera isn't a "sex worker" as you term it but rather a true provider of companionship or what we today consider to be a GFE/ PSE.

When she is with her gentlemen friends, she is comfortable, it is easy to kiss and enjoy the experience which is quite unlike the piece worker who is doing something she doesn't like or want.

I thoroughly love to kiss!!
Whether it is slow and soft, hard and deep or long and sensual. It is one of the key ways to feel the enerrgy of the person you are playing with. You can tell alot about someone from the way they kiss.

It is really sad to me that people would hold back anything.
Why would you not want to kiss? Why would you not want to caress? Why would you not want to feel the tingles and shivers? Why would you not want to orgasm? The list goes on ..

Maybe a little too much ranting but I'm tired of the small amount of love exchanged in this world!!

Peace
Sage

It is what it is... the words all mean the same thing whether they have negative connotations or not.

The real issue is that the poster obviously has some issue going on.

If you're not into it then don't do it. Keep your damn attitude out of the rest of our sex lives.

sexual practices.

Before the days of AIDS, many gal would bare back anything and everything and suck down just about any fluid your body could produce.

But when it came to kissing it was definately a no-no.

I remember the first gal who loved to kiss, and boy was that ever a revelation.  She was my sweet baboo for quite some time until one day the number was disconnected.

But I was spoiled by then.

Thank goodness for kissing being a standard part of the hobby.

Whether words have the same meaning or not, the connotation of them (positive or negative) does indeed matter, a lot.

There's no need to insult the men I see by using a derogatory term, I have respect for them.  They're not "Johns", they're businessmen, fathers, brothers, and friends to the people in their lives. They deserve better.  

With civilized behavior and consideration comes dignity.  I would not rob the men or women of this lifestyle of that.  



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