: TER General Board Discussion : Maybe the "her" in this equation outed said provider?

escalade1964 65 Reviews 965 reads

posted 13 years ago

1 / 16

I will NOT see YOU because YOU saw HER

OR

I will NOT see YOU because YOU saw HIM!

Really?????? WTF

Why does this happen?

Your thoughts if any?

Back_In_Black 572 reads

posted 13 years ago

2 / 16

1 reason , those who engage in risky behavior . or those with bad habits

Its best to ask directly if it relates to you . Or move on.

Posted By: escalade1964

OR

I will NOT see YOU because YOU saw HIM!

Really?????? WTF

Why does this happen?

Your thoughts if any?

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 370 reads

posted 13 years ago

3 / 16

Shit...some won't see me because of the reviews I write...

LOL.. I am happy to take my business elsewhere..

You phrased it right when you said "stupid drama"..LMAO.

escalade1964 65 Reviews 467 reads

posted 13 years ago

4 / 16

Re: Stupid drama

"sketchy references" is a good "topic" LOL

What the hell does that look like? Not to steal my own thread. LMAO

tg_baby 482 reads

posted 13 years ago

5 / 16

Depends.

If a guy has a bunch of reviews, or a bunch of references, from providers who regularly engage in high-risk or extreme behaviors...that will stop me in my tracks. It shows me that he 1) May seek out unsafe activities himself, 2) Might not value his health, or 3) Might be a complete idiot.

However, some of the girls who take risks are the ones *everyone* sees...some people can be extremely obtuse about open secrets, as I've seen. Or, the just don't know how to read between the lines/interpret smoke signals. So I can't just blackball everyone who's seen a certain girl one time within the last ten years.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 462 reads

posted 13 years ago

6 / 16

Sparky !!!

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Back_In_Black 398 reads

posted 13 years ago

7 / 16

i never used an agency and dont use udo as a reference , check ! hey

What's up !

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 486 reads

posted 13 years ago

8 / 16

Maybe the "her" in this equation outed said provider?

There is a local skank 5th time retired lol, that I refuse to go after, and if a client has been with her I am suddenly "not seeing anyone new." I don't go into the details, but I can tell you there are some crazy, insecure, high school drop outs who will try and hurt any provider they feel has a life outside of this business when they do not.

Some women secretly hate providing, so when they know so and so has a real job, a sugar daddy, etc. they don't like that very much. Add to that, so and so might make twice the money in half the time, and never run specials while provider A has to suck and fk everyone to even make the mortgage.

If I was being too obscure, let me know lol.

Back_In_Black 465 reads

posted 13 years ago

9 / 16

Re: Depends. your correct , but we all do ask questions

And the bottom line is to be safe . And play as safe as we can . Xoxo

tg_baby 321 reads

posted 13 years ago

10 / 16

Agreed. (e)

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TrulyMsMocha See my TER Reviews 456 reads

posted 13 years ago

11 / 16

I'm seeing more of this interesting reason .....

.... of providers not seeing clients who have references from black providers (or who have reviewed them) .... ouch! lol. I've seen that it a handful of times on another review site.

tuckerlan 456 reads

posted 13 years ago

12 / 16

MAIN REASONS

It's usually one of these reasons a provider won't see you....

Your reference is known to:
do bareback or rimming
to see black clients
have an std
have reviews from reviewers who have a known std (yes we do check your reviews during screening)
do weird fetish shit that increases the likelihood of bacterial infections, sti's, or std's

Childish reasons:
they just plain don't like the other provider who you gave as a reference
she is competition and probably has been sending in her regulars to intentionally score her low
she's spreading fake lies to clients about that provider because she's her competition

Other reasons:
your references are high volume, low priced backpage girls so there's a higher std risk by seeing you
your reference gave bad information about you and she's lying to you in order to not see yo

karynlovely See my TER Reviews 452 reads

posted 13 years ago

13 / 16

The ONLY time I would ever implement this

is when I know of a provider that has PROVEN to have given bbfs, either through their website (yes I have seen it), reviews, or more than one *trusted* informant.

I will also not see a gent who frequents backpage ladies (if I can find out that is, obviously not foolproof), or certain other websites (USAsexguide, etc), for personal reasons.

Besides the above, I really don't care who my date chooses to see. I am not a possessive provider, and I don't "own" anybody, that kinda defeats the purpose of the hobby IMO, plus it's pretty hypocritical since you know....I'm seeing more than one to two gents a week.

I rather like the other ladies I have come to know. I care way too little about other people to keep tabs on my dates. I don't feel like I'm in direct competition with every single lady who crosses my path and I'm not into drama either.

I'm confident in my skills as a provider so I won't turn down a gent who has seen another lady because I may feel "threatened".

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