to bounce back after getting dumped?

Anyone ever been dumped and gone hog-shit wild for p4p pussy? How many trysts did it take to calm the waters?



Since you all asked.......my life sucks on ice!!!

but it is one hell of a distraction.

none of my other pains seem to hurt as much, both physical and emotional.

I'm scared to ask what happened, so I won't

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Thanks for your concerns but the scenario is just an inquiry; it has nothing to do with my personal life!!! LMAO Except some of you did make mention of my medical portfolio. That definitely sucks. On the mend though. If I could only get one of these nasty RN's to give me a PROPER BBBJTCNQNSARABAI. The last letters equal "and run around bragging about it".LOL



C-YA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

BBBJTCNQNSARALAI

The last letters equal "and run around laughing about it".LOL

But I'd keep getting back up on that horse.

I think the hobby is a legitimate way of feeling better about yourself.

It sure beats other alternatives.

The plain fact of the matter is that it sucks.

Call and friend and comiserate.  That is what they are for.

On the positive side I had not had a threesome till 4 weeks ago, now I have had two.  Sneak a few civies in there to ease the financial burden.  Things looked a lot better to me in 6 weeks.  Actually things started to look  up as soon as she moved out.

time works pretty well, eventually. my experience has been that respectful dumpings have quicker recovery times than the other. best wishes and hope that whatever is going on is not complication to your health! be well.

I didn't try it with P4p, but rather with civie girls.

All I accomplished was hurting people and learning a lesson.

I was worried that she gave up on you.

you scamp

well i hope having your fun at our expense has done you good. LOL!

anyway a general mention of health related problems after a breakup actually need not have anything to do with YOUR medical portfolio in specific.... it happens.

Hey, it could be a joyous laughter and not the other type.

Wow sorry to hear that. Do you mean something like....

married for 20 year, you work your ass off from having nothing to buying all kinds of shit - like she has 3 houses, all in nice places to live, several cars - at once, jewelry, furs, didn't have to work a day in her life for the last 15 of the 20 years - belongs to two country clubs, socializes all she wants, never has to worry about money, has house cleaners, nanny for the one kid - and one day she decides she just wants to live alone (and means it!)    You mean me just trying to get one passionate kiss a week...maybe some pussy with the lights off and covers up over her body and maybe, just maybe she'd move once.  You mean like getting dumped after that?  Why......FUCK YES I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!!!
And I'm sorry that anybody has to feel like that 'cause it sucked and took me several fucking miserable, shitty, awful fucking (oh I said that already) YEARS to shake the feeling of being FUCKED OVER!!!     Maybe I'd feel better if she left me for a bigger dick or more money or even for another woman!! But she just wants to be alone, spend money and talk with her girlfriends about the lates reality TV show and why she can't buy some fucking spice at the local store.

You mean like that?

I can't say I got over being dumped by going the P4P route. I decided, given my personal situation, it was simply a better way to go. Dating sucks out loud. I was over getting dumped by my fiancee in about three weeks and started doing P4P soon after. So far, a good decision. My personal opinion...trysting will not get you over your ex. Time, patience and positivity will take care of that. Good luck!

Enjoy! WIT

Dumped as well and now i'm going nuts for the p4p.

It doesn't really cure it, it just takes the pain away temporarily.

I guess like others have said, time/patience will slowly heal the wounds.

Good Luck man.

The answer to the problems of life is not to "get over them" by distracting yourself or displacing your emotional energies.

The answer to rejection and other traumas is to allow yourself to grieve what you lost or think you lost, and to take time to ponder, to learn the lessons you can from the experience.

Only the process of grieving combined with learning the lessons life teaches you allows you to move *forward* instead of sideways - right back into the same kind of trouble.

Only learning and applying the lessons of experience helps you to grow, to be a better person, and to find enough value in painful experiences that you can look at them as having been worthwhile.  To move beyond anger and frustration. To re-establish equilibrium and self respect.

The hobby is wonderful thing. A great enjoyment. But it is not a great place to displace our anger or frustration over gender issues or relationship problems.  

There is not enough fucking in the world to help you truly get over having *been* fucked lol....

life leaves marks.  they are not erased by entertainment. thay are not washed away by the blood of your preferred sacrificial lamb, juicy erotic encounters, or cleaning fluids. solvents such as alcohol don't work either.  for the spiritualy inclined, ritual, prayer and meditation can be wrongly used as a distraction.

incorporating the experience, accepting it as reality is first. choosing how to respond to it, if at all, is second.

often, what seems at the time to be "getting fucked" turns out to be an opening on to something better.

you can buy happenies, but you can lease it short term.