So I dont get it....  
I have noticed of more than one provider with less than 10 reviews (like 2 or 3) that give CBJ, no greek, no rimming, that have the audacity of charging between 500 and 600 an hr and get solid bookings! WTF!!!  
I have over 60 reviews, score between 9 and 10 and I offer pse (so you know what that means) and its been a struggle.  
Is it that I need to go blonde? Do men prefer blondes to brunettes? Do men like latinas or caucasian always have the most success?
This is by no mean a hateful post, I am just trying to figure what is that men want when you already give a top notch service yet its not enough.

I wouldn't even go there. An I generally prefer brunettes. But have obviously been with blondes.

Focus on yourself and stop comparing yourself to everyone else.

Hi TopEntertainer!

I know this won't make you feel any better, but replace anything about escorting and hobbying with some other commercial enterprise.

... if anyone can consistently command that type of rate, then that's what they deserve. They must be doing something right.   It's certainly not their (or anyone else's) fault that you're struggling even with the reputation and good service standards that you've maintained, as you've pointed out.

not sure how you know what another escort is doing.however much an escort sets her rates is her business.
I would look at your own marketing instead of worrying about what the next chick is doing.
Mama always said if you worry about yourself that is a full-time job no time to worry about others.
Have you tried new photos/website?Rewrite ad copy offer a new service,tour if your home base is not bringing enough money.
you say you ain't hatin but that is exactly how your post comes off as...hatin.

Not a single snarky post asking if you might only be "all that" in your own mind, that maybe the reason you are posting from behind an alias is that in fact you are a member of the OTHFBC, or at least no one has done so until now. lol

If you want honest feedback from the hobbyist community, we need more info about who you are otherwise every comment is mere speculation.

guys are willing to pay for something normally unattainable... up to a certain price.
They want to remember her pretty face on their dick, embracing her tight body, kissing that pretty face.

This is by far the most ignorant shit I've ever read

Does not matter how pretty the girl is, not going to happen for me period. Guys who do pay for CBJ in my opinion are either fools or pussies!

I did an All Cities search using Anal, BBBJ, not Blond with scores of 9/9 thru 10/10 and narrowed it down to 757 providers. Fess up!

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you'd be better able to showcase yourself to potential clients. As a fellow BBBJ and PSE companion, it is more than a little disturbing to see you claim that any companion who isn't Greek friendly or only offers CBJ has the "audacity" to charge what they see fit... as if they *should* charge less than they do.

Have you Really bought into that shit?

Cindi Lauper got it right... Girls just want to have fun.

Then you've had the good fortune not to read the rest of the ignorant shit this guy posts.

Well...do you have regulars? If you don't have many repeat clients, it may be something your doing. I've been a provider for a little over a year and I have no issues, honestly I often feel overwhelmed by emails. I honestly don't even really need to see new people. I also have over 60 reviews.. I actually have some 8s in my reviews (gasp) lol

Matters more than anything.  Personally I don't give two craps about hair color, I couldn't care less if it was purple or blue as long as it fits an attractive frame.  I will say that I do prefer caucasian providers, but I won't discriminate against a lady of any other color just because of skin.  Everyone has their own fetishes, mine just so happen to be DD man-mades with porcelain skin.  

As you think you are. Take a step back and look at yourself and what YOU are doing. If your business is slacking...it's you...not other providers. Now if you don't want to look at yourself and change some things than look at what these girls are doing. Maybe they are sweeter than honey (because face it....people don't hire us to hear us bitch) maybe they have some crazy ass moves...who kn0ws. But assuming they are making more bc of hair color or race is kind of silly, seems like a way for you to use that as an excuse. Worry more about you and your services and your business should thrive.  

The way the post was titled was rude but potentially rather honest about our industry. He does make a point about beauty standards in the United States and how it plays a roll in sex work.

...how about some cheese with your whine?

we should mind our own business.

Ms goody two shoes lol,you have some BLACK in you based off of your profile and it's obvious from your facial featuresSo Stop trying to put yourself at the top of the pedestal just because you have some caucasian in you.Your profile says "mixed" not white.Learn to love all of yourself not just the white side.I didn't know this much self hatred in the world still existed smh.But then again,look at what you do for a living.Take care love

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I would agree to this 100%. I update my pictures always and doing shoots on the regular. I think it has to do mainly with the way you market yourself. I am on Eros, RS2K, P411, and TER along with a couple more and I market myself a ton. Yes, it costs a bit of money but in the long run the results are great. The more effort you put into getting yourself out there the better it will be for you.

Every study I've ever seen on American tastes has pretty much proven that men prefer hookers who are white blondes with big tits. Having a nice ass helps. Being in the 24-35 age group is ideal. You can look this up in articles written by the Economist.

...they are great at what they do provide.
And again usually "so hot it hurts" hot so to them banging a girl like that is once in a lifetime to them.  
Most of the time they happen to be Caucasian.

I normally do not buy into responding to such statements but I feel the need to address your statement.  

Posted By: Mscurious

Ms goody two shoes lol,you have some BLACK in you based off of your profile and it's obvious from your facial featuresSo Stop trying to put yourself at the top of the pedestal just because you have some caucasian in you.Your profile says "mixed" not white.Learn to love all of yourself not just the white side.I didn't know this much self hatred in the world still existed smh.But then again,look at what you do for a living.Take care love

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Plus we don't know who you are, so any advice would be just general advice.  The way you worded your post sounds just like sour grapes from an escort.  I read the post and my impression is that you aren't looking for any real advice, only using this as an avenue to vent your frustrations.  If you had said something to the effect of "I'm am trying to figure out ways to expand my business, get repeat clients and increase my hourly rate.  Do you have any suggestions?" I would have taken your post more seriously.  However, I will try to give you some of my general opinions.

Shame?  

I agree that this is a free market.  You own and manage your own business.  Free market principles such as competition apply.  Supply and demand.  Willingness to pay.  Pricing strategy.  Location.  Marketing.  In general, I believe that there is a strong correlation between ratings (which become more and more objective as the # or sample size increases) and what a lady can charge (price).  Example hourly rate:
9.5+, 9.5+ = $500+
9-9.5, 9-9.5 = $400-500
9, 9 = $350
8.5-9, 8.5-9 = $300
8, 8 = $250
7-8, 7-8 = $200
less than 7 = less than$200
Based on my location, the above pricing structure seems to be what the market has dictated.  Thoughts?

I'm not a hooker I'm a provider😂😂😂These are 2 different things sweetness.Hookers are low class.Providers are highclass

It's rather pointless comparing yourself to the specific providers you mentioned.  People like to lie and say they are doing well when they aren't anyways.  It's kind of hard to figure out what you are doing wrong so I can really only speak for myself.  I've had slow periods but I've found Twitter has really helped since I started using it.  I even managed to do a rate increase and business has really only seemed to increase since then.

Reminds me of a song.

There is no reason to compare yourself to other providers.  

and to add on...

ladies offer their sometimes limited menu for what appears to me to be above average rates. They will not get my business regardless of how attractive they think they might me. After 10+ years in P4P, I am not about to venture out and TOFTT and get a disappointing experience because there were no reviews to read to help ensure a quality experience with menu items I value.

I thought "Mscurious" was a guy hobbyist.

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I can't believe everyone is giving this post the light of day considering the OP, an alias, went silent after the post. No conversation, no added info or thanks for the advise. This should be on the newbie board " how to be a provider 101". If she truly wanted advice to improve her business she should post under her ad name, or at least respond to ALL this free advise that just keeps coming.

"Hookers" are not worried about what others think of them.
Hookers/ Whores are unshakeable as to who they are and what they do.
They live, and love who they are, and are proud to own their sexuality.

I certainly didn't, I only suggested she is most likely a member of the OTHFBC and was simply too ugly to get any business.

If she's getting steady clients and good reviews, she's doing something right. Just do you. She's gonna keep doing her and getting that money so no reason to complain.

Clearly everyone has pointed out that it's important to just manage your own business and not worry about what other people have going on. I saw somewhere along the post that race was brought up... If you check the top 100 providers the #1 lady is a black girl who should probably be a super model. Also, in my area of Orlando the top 1 or 2 lady has been a black girl for as long as I can remember. I hardly ever see her advertise and yet she is consistently at the 1 or 2 spot for several years. I don't think that plays a negative roll at all. In fact I know several guys who purposely choose darker skinned women because it is so different than what they are used to and they like that.