I would recommend you add a bbbjcim finish to your menu.
Hello!
I’ve been a sensual masseuse for a few years and I’m in the process of expanding my business. I’m in school and I have another business so I haven’t been able to dedicate enough time to this but I really want to this summer. All my clients have a great time. I genuinely enjoy doing this. I have a good amount of great reviews but I’m still struggling in developing a steady clientele base(part of this is my fault and not being consistently available)
I would love to know what men look for in a masseuse, booking process etc.
What would make you want to come back? What do you like your sessions to include? What would make you make someone a regular? Please feel free to share any critiques and/or advice (be polite please). Ladies answer as well! Hopefully this can help all of us.
Thank you!
for me to be a regular: BBBJNSNQTC.
I thought I knew all the acronyms but you lost me with the "TC." I am guessing it isnt a BBBJ served with a Tom Collins. lol.
..."to completion". You would think NQ implies that but the extra emphasis makes it unsubtly clear 
"Bare back blow job no spit no quit to completion"
If ever there is an acronym you don't know, go the "Help" button, then the "other" button on the sub-menu, and click "self help". Among the choices is the official TER acronym list, in two volumes. Here's a link to the first half. Have fun.
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Although it's an acronym on the TER list, I think it needs some clarification ... at least for me.
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I always use NQNS, four simple syllables, as it implies NQ [and keep going TC and then] NS. Written this way, NS clearly means Do Not Spit after Completion = Swallow.
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When you write NSNQTC it implies, chronologically, Do Not Use Spit for Lubrication, Your Normal Salivation is Enough (DNUSLYNSE) and is less messy ... then Do Not Quit ... and keep going To Completion. It needs one more NS if you want No Spit FOLLOWING completion, i.e., swallow. When the NS is "up front" it doesn't state a preference for action after TC.
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Just a slight nuance (JSN).
for me to be a regular: BBBJNSNQTC.
to give you the lexicon post for editing. Lol
Looking at your profile you have 1 rate it states sensual domination & massage. You may want to add more options for those who do not want domination. Massage body to body, topless massage, prostate, etc. I started as body rubs with a twist & am going back to add more options now because not everyone is interested in the same GFE, PSE sessions.
Great post. Post more here. Update your TER profile often. Smile for me! Xoxo
Thank you so much for your response. I still have so much to learn. I just recently learned you can even post on TER! I will be posting more. I didn’t know I could add services to my profile I will do that. I offer almost every type of massage and BDSM and many fetishes as well (something I need to advertise more). I appreciate it! I am definitely smiling for you hahah
Well, there are 2 kinds of massage providers. One is a trained licensed massage therapist. She (or he) provides therapeutic massage only. The others can vary in quality of massage, but also may provide other services of a sensual nature. I went to the first kind of massage therapist for years. She is fantastic at therapeutic massage, and I always left feeling great. Never the slightest hint of any other services of a sexual nature. I honestly always hoped for more, as she was very attractive.
Lately, I have been having my sexual needs met by providers who advertise massage as part of their service, but are really escorts, though some may give some kind of massage along with everything else like fs, bbbj, etc.
What attracts me most, though, are real trained and licensed massage therapists, who double as escorts.
I have heard some very good reviews about a woman near the Woodbridge Va area, who fits my ideal perfectly. UnFortunately, It’s very difficult for me to get to see her.
So, to finally answer your question. For me, the ideal is a trained licensed massage therapist, who can really provide a great therapeutic massage, and then incorporates talented extra services.
Yes, Andrea Adams. I haven't been able to meet her but I know she's a licensed massage therapist and that's her civie business as well.
Thank you for your detailed response! Very understandable. The best of both worlds. You get a real therapeutic massage while also getting to enjoy your sensual side. I am not licensed (yet). But I am into holistic health and study the human body and massage techniques very often as it’s important to
Me for my clients to truly have an all around great experience.
An advertising issue. In some states, you cannot advertise LMT (Licensed Massage Therapist) or CMT (Certified MT) unless you have a state license. See more details here:
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/ter-general-board-12/re-its-very-rare-to-find-a-cmt-who-will-do-anything-sexual-987157
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When they can't bust a Provider for sex work, that have a much easier time prosecuting for practicing LMT w/o a License or CMT w/o Certification.
Well, there are 2 kinds of massage providers. One is a trained licensed massage therapist. She (or he) provides therapeutic massage only. ...
Well it seems reasonable that if you don't have a license or a certificate you can't say you are a LMT or CMT, as that would be untrue.
Some people do not realize that it is AGAINST THE LAW to do so, in some states. There is a difference between saying, "I'm a massuese." (legal) or "I provide massage services." (legal) and "I am an LMT." (illegal if not licensed). Anybody can provide generic massage services and claim to provide massage services and that isn't against the law, even if the services are pretty bad. In NY and MA, you have to take and pass classes, pass a state exam, pay an annual license fee, etc. to advertise as a LMT.
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If the issue ever comes up, convicting on a prostitution charge is much more difficult than proving "Claiming to be a LMT without a license." which is a slam dunk: copy of ad + no state license = conviction. In some states, it's a misdemeanor; in some states, it's a felony.
Well it seems reasonable that if you don't have a license or a certificate you can't say you are a LMT or CMT, as that would be untrue.
use the term "body rub", as there is (as far as I know) no legal liability to claim that.
Excellent point, mrfisher. I was caught up in just "massage" terminology.
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The only precaution I can think of is to say "body rub" and NOT to say "rib rub."
use the term "body rub", as there is (as far as I know) no legal liability to claim that.
I would recommend you add a bbbjcim finish to your menu.
done expertly (That is to say, by someone who has studied how to give a massage and knows about muscles and nerves, etc.). then followed by a flip and an extended tease and denial rather than a quick "get him off" type of finish.
If other goodies like BBBJ, body to body, etc. are on the menu, then I'm all for that, but it has to at least include the above for me to be interested.
Understandable! I put I a lot of effort into going a quality massage as well as it being sensual. I believe both are important. A lot of clients have expressed to me how frustrated they get when they see a FBSM and she doesn’t actually give a real massage. I’m really into holistic health so I’m always studying the body. Thank you for your response ❤️
...and prefer the walk-in w/o an appointment due to my crazy work schedule. With an extras AMP on every block it's easy to find someone on the spur of the moment. TBH I don't think that I've ever pursued an indy masseuse simply because like booking an escort, there are hoops to jump thru that might not work for me like screenings, schedules, deposits, etc. I'll never say never, but an indy masseuse would have to a helluva provider for me to book and become a regular.
The build up. FBSM is the time to be 'a lazy lover', get spoiled... A normal massage is a bonus, it could be just light touch. ... and of course a hot lady makes the tease / build up better - If there is rubbing of body to body, all the better, but whatever is within the lady's comfort zone... Hope that helps!
This was very helpful! And I totally agree. Especially as men I believe it’s soooo important to be able to have time to yourself where you can be taken cared of and pampered.
A hot looking woman with a great personality and two soft, "roaming" hands!!
Hahaha who doesn’t love roaming hands 
I've seen escorts and FBSM providers and also AMPs...
Some aspects of a massage specific session that I really enjoy are:
1) Mutual touch, anywhere.. there can be limits but as long as someone is gentle, nice to be able to roam. Also really enjoy having a woman specific place my hand somewhere she wants me to touch.
2) Including a kind of strip tease aspect as you went along, slowly removing clothing throughout the session.
3) A real massage table or at least some way to be face down for a little while and not have my neck killing me.
4) Soft lighting, but I still want to be able to see you!
5) Ability to shower after (and before) if desired.
This was very helpful! Thank you so much!
Massage quality
sensual services provided mentioned in previous posts
and price relative to providers who only provides escort services and providers who provide both massage and fs
That makes sense, thank you!
Love strong massages that gets the kinks out from sport activities. I will shower before the massage and clean sheets is expected. If offered, always enjoy the extras as long as the ladies freshen up as well.