How do I go about getting a provider to see me exclusively? I understand some of the guys have this going on... This is so that I don't have to worry about STDs (huge, IMHO).

You pay her the 168,000 tax free you think she earns, and pray she doesn't f**k you over during that "assumed" 2 week vacation you spole of in your thread below.

Seriously, I have seen some provider rate pages where that possibility is discussed.  Prices vary, but if I remember correctly 200K ought to turn the trick (Pun definitely intended, sorry!).

There are plenty of women out there that want you to be their exclusive.

All of your threads taken together are really kind of interesting if not naive.  
1) If you want exclusivity, why not a nonprovider s/o?
2) Would you sign a year contract and pay her up front, then  watch her disappear off into the sunset?
3)  What if you got tired after a week of her?  Would you still pay her?
4)  Since you are posting via alias, it is hard to tell just how much experience you have in the hobby but I think your overall outlook of what it is like to be a provider is pretty unrealistic.  I get the feeling you have an s/o out there with some complication like kids that makes you feel like you can't make a move.  In my mind, having an exclusive provider in that situation would be just like having an affair on the side with the added benefit of not worrying about what to do $200k of disposable income (about $400k pretax in a lot of states at that level) because you gave it to some provider.

5) Weren't you the one who was also worried about the provider falling in love with you?

6) So please tell us, why oh why oh why are you having this conversation before you start another thread in this vein?

No, none of my threads are in any way related. Don't attempt to make sense of any kind of big picture because there isn't one.

As for this thread, I think people misunderstood. I've read there are providers out there that only see one client or a few set clients. For whatever reason, maybe it's the end of their career snd they want to slow down and focus on one. The reason this is appealing to me is there's virtually no risk of disease if you know they're clean. Of course you get this with an SO but then you're talking about a full-fledged relationship. My point is, I know these girls exist . How do I go about finding one or is it mostly luck?

Remember,

Most providers have a set income from this business. You would have to first ask her if she will.
She might, but then again, you would need to supliment her income to her needs.

Shaye

I would find one I could tolerate more than once or twice and then ask her.  
Obviously asking someone else to share their exclusive provider begs the point and why would a provider who is already exclusive want you?

Personally, I think if you are really nice to someone (not necessarily monetary) but treat them like a real person with dignity instead of like a commodity, you will begin to stand out from her other clients.  IMHO that would mean some extended sessions including possibly an overnight.  By definition, I don't think you could pull this off with someone who is incall.

In all seriousness, I think it's doable, I just don't know how practical.

Happy Hunting

PS I agree youwould probably need to find someone who was really slowing down because by the time you were done with her, it would be hard for her to gear back up and get in circulation again.  You might be talking about a severence/retirement package when it is all said and done.

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and a pre-nup requiring me to never work another day again, unlimited travel, two children, a home with tennis courts, and my parents living next door to us. Otherwise, there isn't a chance in hell of most providers becoming exclusive. Men who think they have an "exclusive" arrangement with a provider are only kidding themselves. I'm willing to bet the definition of exclusivity would vary from client to provider.

It would be wonderful if we could just trust everyone at their word. What's the divorce rate in the US? And how many of those divorces are due to infidelity? And how many of your girlfriends have been 100% faithful to you in your life?  Now let's take a working girl and let's try to come up with some best-case scenarios.  1-You satisfy her completely in bed and she doesn't miss sex.  2-you are insanely wealthy and she doesn't miss the dangling carrot of top dollar income.  Are you certain you will satisfy her emotionally too?  it seems like all my friends are getting divorced and every woman that has left did so for emotional reasons - not money or sex.  Now if you can provide ALL that then maybe an exclusive relationship would work for you because she would not stray and you would not be at risk for future STDs.  I'm sure the ladies will hate this jaded response - so let the pain begin. My week couldn't get any worse.

-- Modified on 6/27/2003 12:09:08 PM

How about a compromise? How about only my mom?

If you are that concerned about STD's, try this:


http://www.mallcom.com/superstore-cgi/hazel.cgi/hzpi/u/HzSt011111121711100m120U0n0m1314141517170n12/hazel.cgi?action=DETAIL&item=DOLL18

I might buy one ...

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let's see ... your MOM! ... right?  .... hmmmm ....

you mean an actual walking talking daily reminder of what YOU will turn into in 25yrs ?????

i dunno, whatdya dink?  LOL

is the exclusive obligation to pay all her bills.  The pool boy will still probably get more of what you really want than you will.

This exclusiveness business is all about a power trip for the ego. To "own" her and part of that is knowing that owners have to pay the bills and take responsibilities. And all this time while they are busy the lady is once again sneaking around their back to do it with the pool boy or her phyiscal trainer. LOL!

...pretend to be your "exclusive," but as long as you're a just a customer, she'll treat you as one.  Meaning she'll take other customers when you're not around.  Don't be a sucker.

Actually, I'd be lucky if I am my mom in twenty five years. Besides being a sensational mother, she's incredibly successful and in better shape than myself. We run 5k's on most Saturday mornings, and she beats me EVERY time...not by seconds...by minutes! Oh yea, she has not a wrinkle on her face. I've had a few boyfriends who've been comforted by the fact that my mom is so youthful at 56, but living next to her obviously wasn't their ideal marriage either Really Singleton, it wouldn't be THAT bad. I promise! Come on...don't you want to get married?


P.S. Don't even think about inviting your mom to live next door. That's absolutely out of the question.

hey hey hey! .... Ba Da Bing!

wee aint even married yet and u Friggin Busting my Bwols already!

now Wad gives u a Friggin right to Bust my Bwols already?? Huh?

whadya DINK i am?  do i amUSE u?  do i make u Bust Bwols all Friggin day?  Huh?  u saying dat i make u Bust Bwols, is dat it? cuz if dats wadyu saying ... i wanna know here! ... is dat wadyu saying? ... hey! look at me when i'm dalking to u! ... is dat whatdu saying?

no? ... yeah ... uh-huh ... i didnt DINK so!  ... now be a good little gurl and go cook something nice for my Mom, she called she said shes cumming over in tree hours!

If you want someone to be 100% exclusive to you, I think you will need to pony up big time. If you can swing the 200K in cash, power to you. I'd just pay her weekly rather than cash up front to avoid being scammed.

However, there are many ladies out there that look for regular arraingments with a low number of gents rather I know of one situation where a lady was sick of 1 hour appts, all the screening hassles, no shows, LE concerns, etc.. so she found 3 regular clients that each paid her $1K per week cash in return for a few multi hour appts each week.

The guys got the regularity with their ATF and her committment to being exclusive to the 3 gents at a price they could swing.  She still got her $150K tax free per year and only had to get between the sheets with 3 guys to get there.

I personally had one lady that was looking to do something similar in exchange for paying her bills. I wasn't comfortable giving her a lump sum up front for a down payment on a high ticket item, plus I didn't find her sessions all that fun so I didn't go for it.

Ask around...in this uncertain economy a lot of ladies would like to have a steady income stream.

That sounds like a good idea there MikeAndIke. You pay her weekly during your session. Just find a girl who is only looking to keep a few gents as regulars. I would never give a large sum upfront, anything could happen. I have known a few guys who did so and got ripped off.
XOXOX
Paige Noel