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Married vs. Single
Stormy See my TER Reviews 148 reads
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I prefer married men for a couple of reasons.  

They don't want to date me as a "civilian".   I'm not dating material.  I'd lose 1/3 of all of my clients!

Married men seem to appreciate me more than those who are single.  Maybe it's because their play time at home has been either non existent or curtailed over the years.

There seems to be more room for building a long lasting relationship with married men.  I suppose they stay married and the need to see providers doesn't go away.   With single men, they come and go.  Go figure....

So, my vote is Married Men, most definitely!  

Stormy

Knew a provider once that told me it was hotter for her if she knew the guy was married. Other providors what is your take on this?
Normal ? Does it do anything for you?

Married Men are the BEST Clients! Some may Seek Out "Companionship" because their Sex Life is Old, Stale, or Non-Existent. "She Forgot About Me," the Dog "Ranks Higher than I Do. A lot of Wives let themselves go or Sex "isn't a Priority Anymore." For the Most Part 99.99% of the time Married Men are the Best Lovers/Clients because they seek what they're NOT Getting at home. They desire Intimacy and affection and are willing to receive and give back. Just my .02 cents.

-GiGi Amour

Doubtless, no, my experience as a hobbyist who is single runs contra to what you said, but you shouldn't have said 99.99%.   You just told us to not book with you.

Single Men are Very Nice Clients. Truly Single "Non-Married/No Gf" men over the age of 30 (My Qualifications) are a very Small Percentage in my Mix of "Clientele." However I Do see a few of them, however the Larger Part of "My Demographic" Truly "Married Men," who are "Repeat Clients." And if I were in their Situation I would be "Seeking Providers" out as well. I Always Welcome Seeing Seeing "Single Client's." I was just making a statement about the overall Demographic Makeup of Clientele. My .02 cents...

-GiGi Amour  

Because he knows his wife will be stalking him.

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because they don't have to worry about the guy falling in love and wooing them.  Though this isn't always the case.

One gal told me she met a guy and had a nice date, then the second time he informed her that he started proceedings to divorce his wife so that they could get married.   Talk about a touchy situation.  

 
I've seen both married gals and unmarried gals.   Sometimes the gal's spouse knew what she did, and sometimes not.

 
Can't say that either of the three circumstances led to a better time.

 
The only time it did affect me was when a gal told me that I had to get out soon because her boyfriend was due back any minuted.   I made a note to myself to not go back there.

souls_harbor148 reads

It's an ego boost to fuck a married woman. I had a civie affair with a married woman and that was part of the attraction. Pounding away on her at her home in the bed she otherwise shared with her husband. Hot!

Over 40, laugh with me and worship  my beautiful pink lady. I don't care if you're married or single....just be a true lover of my sweet, little lady.  
Oh and be a good kisser.  💋

Love my meat medium rare. Hot on the outside and pink in the middle.
Hhhhmmm.

I prefer married men for a couple of reasons.  

They don't want to date me as a "civilian".   I'm not dating material.  I'd lose 1/3 of all of my clients!

Married men seem to appreciate me more than those who are single.  Maybe it's because their play time at home has been either non existent or curtailed over the years.

There seems to be more room for building a long lasting relationship with married men.  I suppose they stay married and the need to see providers doesn't go away.   With single men, they come and go.  Go figure....

So, my vote is Married Men, most definitely!  

Stormy

What about divorced men...who have learned their lesson about marriage? And don't want the hassle of any type of committed relationship?

As a single guy, it's good to know which ladies have no interest in seeing me....

If married or not.

All I want is a gentleman!

My prefernce is one of two types.  

The first type is the one who flys in on business and flys out the same day or next day after our appointment. No strings, no drama.

The second type is whoever understands that my personal life and professional life never cross path. Long extended GFE dates are great, but when they are done, you go your personal life, i go mine. No Drama, no hang at my in call, no constant text.  

The second type can be married or single, as long as no drama i am fine with it.

Christine

the ideal customer for most providers.  My texting is limited to the minimum amount of info needed to set an appointment.  Other than that, if SHE initiates a text for some other reason, I will respond politely, but I don't take it as an invitation to become her new best friend forever.  Burning up a working girl's phone with superfluous text messages is the biggest complaint from working girls that they have shared with me about their customers.  

 
After I have seen a girl a couple of times, if it seems we have a lot in common and enjoy each other's company, I will mention that if they are bored sometime, I'm available for some outside time for some kind of adventure or fun day(I've taken them zip-lining, driving Ferraris and Lamborghinis at top speed at Ontario speedway, various helicopter tours of SoCal, etc., which are all things they have probably never done before), but I never make a specific request.  I am very clear that from then on, THEY have to bring up the outside date, because I want no misunderstanding about it being a session rather than just two friends hanging out.  If she considers me to be that kind of friend, she will suggest it sometime.  Only about 50% ever take me up on it, and I never bring it up again except when I tell them what a good time I had with another girl and what we did.  Sometimes, that's when they ask, because its something they want to do as well.  The customer asking repeatedly just makes the girl uncomfortable.  I have a friend who was badgering one of his regulars for an outside date, and she finally said, "Okay, you win, I'll go."  As you can imagine, he was delusional about it being the best day of his life, and it turned out to be the worst date of his life because it was clear (except to him) that she really didn't want to go at all.   Lol

..... I haven't been rejected for my marital status.  
There used to be a lady that advertised that if your cock wasn't at least 7 or 8 inches, to not waste her time. So I didn't.  

I always laugh at these mongers who run with a comment made by a lady here, and turn it into a teaching lesson. All or nothing has not been said by anyone.  

Last time I noticed, SW's tend to prefer to provide their services to mongers who have their required funds, are clean and most of all are not dicks.  

Preferences are just that. If they meant requirements, I'm sure they would have said that.  

Have fun ladies and gentlemen.

Posted By: srs273

Knew a provider once that told me it was hotter for her if she knew the guy was married. Other providors what is your take on this?  
 Normal ? Does it do anything for you?

My regs appreciate my company...as do most of the ATL ladies I've seen so the chicks that don't like single guys can keep on truckin'

Good luck to you all and have a great weekend!

....which has led to some very interesting conversations.
I don't mind that at all if any convo about marriage is AFTER our session.  
Discussing it before is a total femwood killer for me.

GaGambler141 reads

but in the best possible way,

 
and don't forget TTT is TSTTTTT

 
I certainly hope TT is doing well and that TTT is not.

 
I also wonder how many people will have the slightest idea what I am talking about. lol

I'm sure there's a few more that know what you are talking about. 😊

I am married and fully intend to stay that way. I typically see one provider each week, two at most. I have four favorites whom I see on an every four week rotation just to keep things fresh and interesting but in my experience it doesn't take too long (maybe after ten-twelve visits)  for them to start acting more like wives than providers and that's when I start looking for a new top four candidate. Yes, it is great that we are comfortable with each other and have sort of figured out each other's favorite things to do BCD but then THAT can start to feel a little repetitive and same-old same-old. I am sure that they look at us the same way too all of us being humans. For this reason I sorely miss the reliable and extremely useful TER review boards. Any new providers in South Florida want to PM me?? I am auditioning for new top fours!

So naturally I prefer businessmen and single men who can host.  Because I had a relationship in the past where my SO sought out providers while I was practically begging him for intimacy I have some empathy for the wives.  I don't judge my married clients but I definitely don't think married men are any more appealing than single men.

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