So those of you that have taken ladies out for events, dinners, shows, etc and are much older (50s+ w/ 20s girl) do you feel self conscious or uncomfortable in public at all? Do you have her dress down and pretend business/friendly meeting or do you just not give a s$!t about it?!
noticing the scowls from the women and the drooling, envious looks from the men. If anybody says anything, I just say they are my niece, even if they are Asian or Black and I'm not.
I took this adorable, slim Korean/American girl to Del Frisco's. An old bat came up to me and said, "Aren't you ashamed of yourself! She's young enough to be your daughter!" I replied, "No, madam, she's FAR too young to be my daughter." The old bat's head exploded. [Actually, while I really DID take said hottie to that restaurant nobody dared say anything. But I was ready with that line.] I've taken its of PYTs to dinner after a date and it's great fun to watch all the guys stare. PS: I paid for their dinner, not their time, and they were always quite happy. As some know, my motto is, "I will happily pay to have sex with you and happily pay for your dinner. But I will not pay to watch you eat it."
Been on both sides and let me say it's better to be with the PYT than the one watching the PYT. Also, give her a kiss as everyone is watching to seal the deal. It tends to dispel the illusion. It's only a lie if you believe it is a lie. The problem is not everyone watching; it's the crazy PYT in the end.
I have been out many times with PYTs to dinners, movies, etc. I just laugh off comments and dirty looks, almost always from older women. If anyone gets mad or upset, it’s the ladies I’m with. They can get really pissed!
I generally prefer that my lady du jour dress down, but they rarely do. My favorite experience was with a spectacular busty blonde who I took to dinner just before Christmas a few years back. As we left the restaurant, we passed two older couples. One off the ladies said “Ho, Ho, Ho.” I thought my blonde was going to kill her! I had to restrain her, but I thought it was hilarious.
after a really hot session with a gorgeous Czech/Parisian blonde in NYC we went to dinner. We were seated at a table for two next to another similar table with a civvy couple. She was a mousy little thing and he was kinda nerdy-looking. He was immediately to the right of my date and could not keep his eyes off her. Despite being right in front of his wife he simply could not keep himself from looking quickly to his left at my date. Time after time after time. It was fucking hilarious and steam was practically coming from his wife's ears. I bet he didn't get any for a month.
During a night out on the town. I'm more into the over 35 group. Just the conversation would be kinda boring to me. Shit, even the 20 somethings don't do anything for me BCD's...I just find it kinda creepy, but that's just me so....whatcha gonna do?
Whether people notice probably depends on how the lady is dressed. I've met a number of sugar babes but we are both mostly in street clothes. So to the world it could be father/daughter or work colleagues. . However this one evening I was at a restaurant with a black sugar babe who had cleavage down to there. I didn't actually notice anyone looking, but I just assumed. I asked her what she thought about people looking at us. She didn't care either.
Idgaf. My bestie is almost twice my age it’s none of their business. We’re good friends who are enjoying each other’s company that’s all that matters. No explanation needed.
I'm still in my 30s (for another 39 days) so the age gap isn't too noticeable especially since I primarily stick for 28-45 age range. Disparity between my looks and hers. I wear t-shirt/ jeans 99% of the time, drive a truck etc. Watches I wear are the only thing that may give away my income. So I'll get the occasional odd looks when I'm with a stunning woman.
I'll walk into meetings where $25m deals are closed wearing board shorts and flip flops. I don't give a fuck. People who judge me based on appearance aren't worth my time. So in a personal outing I definitely don't give a fuck what people may think. Circle of concern vs circle of influence is a good lesson for many people
Let others look and think what they will! Rather than ask her to dress down, I'm more likely to ask for a kiss or three. No pretense at her being my niece or a business colleague. If I let other people's opinions run my life, I'd not have a life worth living.
I would never tell my date—no matter age—how to dress. That would be patronizing. I will tell her what kind of place we’re going to and trust her to dress appropriately.
As for what others think, I’ve noticed the looks, and I learned quickly to ignore them. Besides, I live in LA. In any nice restaurant on any given night, 15% of the men are with hot chicks half or less their age; it’s old news. Same for Vegas. I took 2 dolls out for a night on the town a couple of years ago and, aside from the fat housewives from Iowa, no one batted an eye. Whether I’m out on a civvy date or a P4P date, my focus is on my fun. Fuck all the haters.
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