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davephx 10812 reads
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For most folks, yes money is an issue. We can't just get another job to afford you. We are also more prudent in our spending.  It is only the stuck up provider in my view who only want clients where money is not an issue.I know of one provider who ran ads and websites under two different names at different rates, high end and more normal $200/hr.   She got lots of clients from both but she much preferred the $200/hr clients for their far better attitudes.You can also go to Canada and find many more GRE, wonderful attitude gals that are in sexwork for the right reason and enjoy men (without the legal issues).For $US100/hr for example in Victoria and Montreal, you can get the same quality with often a better attitude escort that you pay $400+ for in the U.S. In Toronto and Vancouver its about $US125-150/hr.For those lucky customers for whom money is no object their are plenty of high priced U.S. providers to toss money at.  But some of us are more careful with money, we are the clients you don't want, and that is fine with us.

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mase10442 reads

how much should we be paying for the service in order to be fair. What sort of service would you expect for the money.

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sdsurfer61912172 reads

As my grandfather once told me,"There are no $1,000 hookers, only $1,000 johns".

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Dobson11540 reads

I think payment is relative to a number of things.  Looks, service, attitude, time.  There's no one rate that applies or should apply to everyone.  In general, providers charge what the market will bear, I would assume so at least.  I've seen providers who I thought were worth way more than they charge.  Should I tell them that?  I've also seen providers I'd never see again for any $.  On our side (customer) it's not about money, or at least it shouldn't be.  On the provider's side, it's usually entirely about money.  What does that tell you?

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Felicia FoXX12582 reads

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neverwuz12434 reads

depends on the quality and the quantity. also depends on what the market would bear. personally, I believe I think it vis like gambling, only what you can afford to lose.

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HeatherBarronXXX12016 reads

If you go to see a provider and all you can think about is the money, you are paying too much for your budget or you should get another job. You are there to have a good time and money should not be on your mind AT ALL. The same with us girls.

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davephx10813 reads

For most folks, yes money is an issue. We can't just get another job to afford you. We are also more prudent in our spending.  It is only the stuck up provider in my view who only want clients where money is not an issue.I know of one provider who ran ads and websites under two different names at different rates, high end and more normal $200/hr.   She got lots of clients from both but she much preferred the $200/hr clients for their far better attitudes.You can also go to Canada and find many more GRE, wonderful attitude gals that are in sexwork for the right reason and enjoy men (without the legal issues).For $US100/hr for example in Victoria and Montreal, you can get the same quality with often a better attitude escort that you pay $400+ for in the U.S. In Toronto and Vancouver its about $US125-150/hr.For those lucky customers for whom money is no object their are plenty of high priced U.S. providers to toss money at.  But some of us are more careful with money, we are the clients you don't want, and that is fine with us.

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thehung111788 reads

not a whole lot of people make 2-3$ an hour (tax-free). Don't get me wrong, it does take  a certain amount of humbleness to endure the risks and grossness (see faye's big mama story) that comes with the territory.  Consequently, the rate that a lady sets reflect to an extent how comfortable she is with herself in the business. And at the same time, wisely targeting a certain client group.  Self-worth and self-secure are important. Most of us do respect that.However, lately there have been quite a few statements trashing those with average means in the hobby. Yes some of us are ugly, dateless, and should get another job.  But that's our dilema.  For a provider to “blow low”  like that by bringing up generalized character of us p’ore folks exhibits a lack of class. We do have self-worth too.The exchange of time also has been alluded to.  Some providers don't understand that it is the client's time also. To find that elusive diamond does take time and money.  We do it to have a fun TIME.  So when we donate 8 of our hours for your 1, and things aren’t fun, we can be bitter.  Please understand that.But this is just babble to y'all.  So here's some facts to think about- (TER search of providers in the 2$, 3$, 4$ plus.. last 15 reviewed..Ripoffs thrown out)1)

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Goodguy10002 reads

After you have been with a provider the first time you should ask yourself what you would pay to go back a second time.  Would you pay the same?  1$ extra? 1$ less?     Once you have answered this question for yourself you know what a session with that provider is worth.  Until you go for the first time however, there is no way to determine the true value (unless you do a little homework on TER).Perhaps in the reviews there should be a question about this?  It would say, "How much would you pay to return?"

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the_beast11662 reads

There are inherent risks in being a provider that are factored into the cost. We are talking risk/reward ratio here. The higher the risk, the higher the reward. The current climate toward this business simply pushes costs up. This is not dissimilar to what happens to narcotics.We would probably have a lot fewer rapes or attemped rapes if this business was legally regulated. There would Lot less robberies and loss of property to theft if narcotics were regulated as well.Unfortunately neither of these actions are likely to happen anytime soon. So how do we manage the costs so it is a win-win, both for clients and providers?One thought might be for providers to offer frequent-flyer deals thereby encourage re-visits at either a significant discount or allow for longer sessions for the same cost as the "introductory" fee. This is also unlikely because there truly aren't that many good providers out there that merit revisiting and the good ones don't need to discount because of lack of credible competition.Credible competition is sparce because once again there are significant risks to becoming a truly professional and worthy provider.Therefore the best advice (which already has been mentioned here in one form or another) is get a better job, switch careers, make significantly more money so you never have to wonder what it might be like to have sex with a supermodel look-alike (if that does it for you). Money = Freedomb

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