"I've tracked them to the hotel bathroom as they so secretly hide in a stall and call up the lady or their booker...oblivious to the person that followed them into the mens room who can now hear them as they announce they have arrived and repeat the room number."

That just weird!

I do travel quite a bit. Spend my fair share of time in hotel lobbys and bars.  Often I spot hobbyist on their way to little rendezvous. They might be sitting in the lobby with their cell on the table next to them...anxiously glancing at the phone and a hotel clock..waiting for that "come on up" call.  Sometimes they enter the hotel  with a wine bottle in hand....scurring to the elevator...Often they stop in front of a mirror to check their appearrance....Sometimes they will walk in...swinging their Victoria Secrets gift bag or stemed rose....I've tracked them to the hotel bathroom as they so secretly hide in a stall and call up the lady or their booker...oblivious to the person that followed them into the mens room who can now hear them as they announce they have arrived and repeat the room number.    There ARE ways to be invisible.  Or at least somewhat discreet.  Trust me...hotel staff see you...security watches you as you ride the elevator or walk down the hall.  So....be careful out there.  Do not put yourself or the lovely lady who awaits at risk. Have fun...but be intellegent about it.

I have received flowers while visiting a city, and have always felt weird when the guy makes it so obvious. I would usually go ahead and find another hotel, and I would never carry the flowers away with me. Too bad too, because they are usually so lovely, it hurts to leave them behind. I can hide the gifts, but I still have to wonder who noticed. I guess the maid thought she got an extra tip.

I had a gentleman come see me and when he got to the hotel i told him i will call him back. When i did tell him the room number he repeated it twice, lol...and i realized by the sound that he was in the lobby. That got me worried. Now i tell my clients to wait in the car until i call back with the room number.

Well....that would have been one hell of a mistake...LOL

This is just nuts. Long before I started hobbying, I would wait for people in lobbies or bars, make phone calls from lobbies or bars, call a friend or business associate who was upstairs from the lobby or bar, and obviously not be a registered guest while hotel staff watched me looking for or even ASKING for an elevator or other service. Those things are rather common and innocent.

However, I don't recall ever calling anyone from a hotel bathroom, so you've got me on that one.

I once had to make a stop into a men's room stall at a shopping malling in Ottowa... As I am sitting there, MMOB... a foot from the next stall slides over to tap mine... Having had no experience with this, at the time I was a bit shocked and by the time I figured out what was going on (after jerking my foot back) he had already bolted.

Of course, he didn't follow me in... he was waiting for the next Harry Tom's Dick to cum along...

from your CAR.  Don't enter till you know where you are going, room #, floor lever, and directions to the elevator so it looks like you know where you are going.  Hotels are not a good place to bring flowers and though a nice gesture there will not be a vase to place them in.  If you have a laptop bag, bring it with and if you have a gift then stash it in there.  Professionals usually do not draw attention if it looks like they know where they are going.

An Apt incall is fine but keep in mind neighbors could be watching.  I have a private stadic incall and I have even had guests enter the building(someone was at the door so they just came in with them) and then wander around looking for my buzzer # on a door, unable to find it call me and ask where I am???  That is nuts, which is why I don't give that info anymore till you arrive and call from your car!!!

Lust you all, but am also trying in a round about way not only save myself from possible attention drawn but also protect yourself from making an ass of yourself and drawing undo attention to yourself.

Call from the car, or Taxi(tip well).

Dear Bodercollie:
I was wondering should you have a new motto when communicating in hotels: It should be called text for what is next. That way you can read to satisfy you informational needs with out the possibility of the message being broadcasted. Henceforth that should be the sole method of communication when being in a hotel. Also I am wondering are the providers dressing out of uniform when they are in the venues of business? Just a legitimate question that would come up when discussing business that would transpire in venues such as hotels.

I will communicate on this board.  You are weird!