but I hate the glare from bed-side lamps, so those go off.

Making love in the day with the privacy shade down, but the opaque shade up gives nice diffuse light.

At night, multiple candles can provide enough light so we can see each other, or the entry-way and/or bathroom light usually tend to fill the room with enough light.

I have only had the low light thing once.

She was trying to set the mood.
But I can't see.. So after I stepped on her foot, and bumped heads..
She turned the lights on.

sets the mood

i always go with the provider's wishes..some love dim lights and candles..others dont..as long as i have enough light to find the right hole in doggie..i am good to go..

Don't let loose of the envelope until you are certain that you are as happy with the lady who answers the door as you were with the woman in the pics.

I know some women insist that a client drop the envelope within the first few seconds of entering the room, But since it's my money, I don't let loose of it until I am satisfied that there has been no B&S, not to mention the fact that a bad attitude which includes pressing me unduly for the "envelope" will have me headed right back out the door without leaving a penny.

but yeah, I do agree with your point.

As you said, I am paying and I select ladies that I like the looks of, so I want to look at them. On the other hand I'm sure they don't want to look at me.

That said, there have been very few ladies I have seen who did the low light thing.

Candles and those red light bulbs you can exchange for that horrible light hotel lamps have, always works fine with me. I want the person to see me, but I am not going in for a GYN exam. If the provider is not comfortable, your date is not going to be all that great. I can't be at my best sexually when I am blinded by a fkin lamp right above my head.

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A hotel room in a high rise hotel with the window shades wide open.  I do a lot of traveling for work, and I stick to one hotel chain as much as possible.  I am in the top tier of their rewards program, and my customer profile lists my preference for high floors.  I usually get a room at or near the top.  I love having a nice view out of the window, and I dig having the window shade open.  

Ideally, it's during the daytime or during twilight so that all of the light is natural.  If not, I'll have one light on or maybe some candles if I had room in my suitcase.

For incalls, I try to get the provider to have at least one light on.  And I always ask them to turn off the TV if it's on.

After all, when the light is off, anything can happen...

I've never been asked to turn UP the lights, but I have been asked to turn them DOWN.  I get sad when that happens.  I like SEEING everything!

There should be light, right? ...   I personally think that the bright sunlight with transparent curtains is too much though! Something in between darkness and daylight is sexy, inviting and relaxing at the same time...

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I prefer the room to be lit up enough to see everything yet dim enough to set a good mood. I once had a provider who was quite wild and opened the curtains to let in more light. Yes we were on the 1st floor but I was having such a good time, I didn't care lol.

Dimly lit room sets the mood for me

Together with soft background music, candles, some nice wine.
Just like dining in a fine restaurant!
Lights off except for just enough from the bathroom or hallway.

I try to set it somewhat dim, with the scarves, candles, etc. I bought an incandescent bulb to replace the fluorescent ones that are in the hotels, but keep forgetting to bring it with me. Lol!! But I sometimes use a beach front hotel and love the perfect lighting of the sunset or even the morning light. I do love light too.

a chic can only give you a great tine if she feels sexy who the hell wants strobe lighting on therefore giving you a shit time. Never met one female in my life who likes sex under 900 mega watt lighting may as well do porn films.