you're cool as hell Court
Receive a white-list reference after not scoring the provider higher than a 8 for performance or appearance?
Lately I've been receiving blackmail offers that I would have to give a certain score just wondering if that was the norm
Yours is just another example of provider review manipulation run amok. My advice is to hold your mud, don't let some desperate, conniving hooker or hookers make you a part of corrupting the system.
White lists are not really worth a lot in the grand scheme of things, and most providers know which of their sister providers are blackmail artists and a white list from them might only say "sucker" in their minds, which will just result in more of the same treatment.
Yeah I'm going to continue to review honestly...
Sucks though that I could've had two additional white list
If a lady white lists you it simply means your safe to see and she's comfortable with you. Has nothing to do with the score. And it's ridiculous that a provider would threaten someone over her ratings. Just simply choose to see the gent again or not.
Xoxo
Taylor
It's only the norm for guys with no balls and a broken back. Give her the score she "earned"...and then make sure to comment in the review that she is soliciting favors in exchange for a whitelist.
Not to mention tell your pals about this tactic and who the hooker is doing that. If you want throw it out on your local board as well.
Or do as so many others do and give her that 10/10 so you can have another whitelist LOL
Lately I've been receiving blackmail offers that I would have to give a certain score just wondering if that was the norm
They would give me a white list reference
Not outing anyone CPA lol... don't want or need the drama from someone who has my info on file if you know what I mean.
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At least tell your pals about her...and frankly if you've got some gals who are friends...let them know as well.
Back channel has as good an impact as putting it out there publicly. Not letting this gal know that her bullshit won't be tolerated is an affirmation that she is doing this with your acceptance.
But I also get that some are more concerned about a gal going completely BSC and outing your real info out there....which is even more reason not to allow any gal to get away with that nonsense.
If you have emails or PM's from this gal...forward it to TER. That may be grounds for banning her?
Not outing anyone CPA lol... don't want or need the drama from something who has my info of file if you know what I mean.
It's not that difficult to figure out an alias
I like the idea of turning emails over to TER admin.
Just wait a spell and do it.
Chances are she is making a deal with others, so she probably won't know it's you
YOU are part of the problem, just like the guy who pays a "cancellation fee" when he runs into a B&S, you are rewarding bad behavior. As long as guys like you won't man up and do something about this crap, it's never going to end. As long as you have the attitude that you are going to let these women run all over you, you need to turn in your man card and give up your right to complain
I will stop short of calling you a pussy, but if the tampon fits.......
sorry to be harsh, because I actually like you, but if you aren't going to stand up for yourself, what do you expect the rest of us to do for you?
If I had I would've gave both 10/10s and had two additional white list lol
Instead I scored them the way I wanted to....
I don't want the drama or headache that would come with outing one of these broads so if that makes me a pussy then I guess I'm a pussy.
Everyone can't be like you and LR you guys speak your mind without giving a fuck lol
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every time a guy gives a cancellation fee after he's been lied to, or goes through with a session just because "I was there and I was horny", or allows a blackmailing bitch to continue blackmailing other guys because he "doesn't want the hassle" Every time you do any one of these things you are reinforcing in their minds that this is not only acceptable behavior, but that they will receive a benefit by their bad behavior, and you are making it that much worse for the next guy.
Can you imagine how rare this type of behavior would be if EVERY guy would call out these ROB's the very first time they pulled this kind of crap, this kind of shit would end virtually overnight, and this was the very type of thing that TER was designed to stop.
You can lie to yourself all you want, but you are either part of the problem or part or the solution, and you my friend right now are part of the problem.
That's why I'm glad I virtually can't be outed because its out in the open with my SO.
if you can't afford to speak your mind...don't do it.
it shouldn't matter if the news is good, or bad...if you can't afford to give the news...don't do it.
I appreciate an honest opinion, but if you can not handle the consequence of expressing your opinion
...don't do it.
You have nothing to worry about....
Can't say the same for all of us
Dear Gambler:
If you were the top watch dog of the Coochie Consumer Protection Bureau, what would be the top five items on your agenda to protect those who participate in the hobby? Also how would you approach the pusilanimous and deficient responses that you address with the recent poster on how he responded to the surreptitious situation that you elaborated about?
blackmail is usually delivered in the form of a "promise" not an "offer", such as "Give me a 10/10 or I promise I will track you down and cut off your nuts."
Though men get annoyed, don't you as well when you don't do so? It's your (our) competition.
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I've never asked for a white list, although I've gotten them. Some were from ladies I only rated an 8/8, which was in line with their previous scores.
I've also never received any pressure from anyone I've seen for a high score. I do my best to stay away from the BSC ones and the drama queens.
Where a provider whitelisted me right after a session, then revoked it when I only rated her 8/8. Crazy!
When i saw it I PM'd her and said, why? She never replied. Who cares? White Lists aren't worth much anyway.
getting WL from gals you've never seen lol
and if you pull her profile, you will understand why. She is definitely NOT my type, in either age or size.
I contacted her a few years ago to ask her "why the white list?" and she simply responded that she heard I was one of the "good guys" I've mentioned it to Admin, but it just doesn't seem to be a big deal to anybody. It does give me the distinction of having more white lists than reviews however, dubious honor that it is.
Either way, in the large scheme of things, a reference counts more than the whitelist. I prefer to contact those who have given you the whitelist. Not the norm and it will never be.. it is called blackmail...
You can review a provider under your “ALIAS”!
Your manipulating 10/10 diva will go full Ballistic BatShitCrazy; but she won’t know it was YOU!
Save your PM’s, e-mail and text correspondences as well as her phone number used.
TER WILL contact you soon after she reports your review as a “fake” in her effort to have the review removed. Give TER the aforementioned communications and respective telephone number.
Unless you have written the review in a way that violates the published reviewing guidelines TER
will NOT delete your review, NOR will they inform the devious diva of your identity.
The tool is there for us to use; but not abuse. So MAN-UP gentlemen
If you pass screening, you're golden.
Do ladies really go by the crazy whitelist stuff?
I'm presuming the ladies who expect a certain amount of white lists are searching to see if they can manipulate your scoring system as you're showing you request them frequently. I.E. Possible inflated scores.
Correct me if I'm wrong. I won't believe you tho lol.
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I personally cannot earn over an 8 for performance, as I do not qualify for anything over an 8…and have given whitelists to gents who I have seen when asked for one. Maybe this is more common among those who are use to only receiving 9s and 10s…but would not say it's the "norm" or something that should sway a gent in his reviewing procedures.
Lately I've been receiving blackmail offers that I would have to give a certain score just wondering if that was the norm
In the ATL!
I've never not passed screening so I won't worry about the white list too much.
It's more of an ego booster to have them lol
and I still don't have a bit of problems passing screening.
I agree with Courtney, tell these manipulative cunts to Fuck Off!!!
The chick who gave you the WL
And next time that's exactly what I will do.
because 1. 7 is not a bad score, no matter what the rating-obsessed, BSC girls think, and 2. Blackmailing is wrong.
I know it happens every day, and I seen several girls admit that they do it.
So the guys who it happens to need to grow some balls and start outing the girls.
And if TER wants to maintain any appearance of credibility, Admin needs to start taking it seriously as well.
It's nice to know not all chicks are hungry for inflated scores... we need more like you thanks for the reply
I never reviewed, or where I gave 7s and 8s. I often ask before the review is even submitted. I am sure there are providers out there though that expect a quid pro quo... That said, I also suspect many providers are not putting a lot of stock in TER WLs for screening purposes. Despite my WLs and dozen Okays on P411 I know a few providers who admitted to me they still checked in with some of those providers just to be sure. A good practice if you ask me...
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That's one cool ass chick you gave her a 7 and she still white listed you.
Yep, that is another reason she is a cool ask chic! Looks are subjective, I thought she was quite attractive and we had a very good time. The content of my review was quite detailed and people can make up there own minds. I am a relatively tough grader, product of an education that graded on a very strict curve. I have given out one 10 in looks so far and not a single 10 for performance yet.
That I got a fair number of hobbyists PM'ing me to BC about Bridgette. I pretty sure my endorsements have garnered her a few more dates so I doubt she is complaining about my review. In fact, she thanked me for it. Another reason she is a cool ass chic!
Yep that's a cool ass chick
I know of about four broads in my city that provide, if you gave them a 7 they would bitch non stop on the boards and to administration trying to get the review removed
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