As we all know that spanking can be a ton of fun but only if done right. Just like everything else that if one thing works for one girl it may be a complete turnoff for another. Unfortunately, every sex/sm book I have read have dedicated very little resources and detail into the subject. Usually dedicating more time to oral, manual  and intercourse techniques. Here are some things I have learned do do and not to do:

Do not spank one side more than an other

Spank directly on the crest of the glutes or to the outside.  

No spanking across the crack or directly on the crack or anus.

Licking or wetting your hands usually makes the skin bead up and can have disastrous results. Like infection and unsightly red welts. Aloe Vera gel works miracles for this

Whenever a girl screams "HARDER" and I oblige usually ends the spanking session in seconds. So increase intensity gradually.

The best way to evenly spank an ass with both hands is in the wheelbarrow position (see link)

 
Please feel free to add input, insight and opinion. After all we are here to share ideas. Also if anyone has any books on the subject please let it be known.

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If she is into that. Nothing is worse when a john lets loose and the hooker spins around and slaps the taste outta his mouth. Kinda ruins the session.

and YES very good point.

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And I did turn around and clobber him. It hurt like a mother and I was pissed.

...personally, I'd rather go for a good ride with an attractive women in leather.

WTF is a guy thinking, doing any sort of hitting without asking first.

because she is smoking!

To give me pleasure and not pain.  

Zoe Piers.

I like to focus on the lower half of the buttocks, when the spankee is standing or bent over as gravity allows for more cushioning.

Watch out for the tailbone. Ouch.

Really important to warm up and work up to harder spanks.

I like to mix it up with some tender rubbing, erotic touching of the inner thigh and other parts

It was more of a reflex to being hit and yes I call it being hit when it comes out of the blue like that with no warning and no subtlety. He was lucky I open handed him and not used a closed fist.

I think that much of this applies to flogging as well.   Obviously I am assuming consent here.  If there's bondage involved - obviously safe words are a requirement as well.   The following discussion might be better on the BDSM board but...

Spanking is hard work!  I highly recommend the use of a flogger - your hand can get pretty sore.  Further, you can use a flogger much more delicately than a full hand - which means that you can deal with the pussy, belly,  tits and legs.

Spanking while fucking is pretty tough - if you can really keep up a good spanking in wheelbarrow --- my hat is off to you.  In wheel barrow, I generally have both arms  occupied.   I have found that the worm (basically starts as an RCG where she goes completely forward and ends with her chest on your knees) will work best - but it still ain't great.  

I find it really tough to keep control to do flogging or spanking during actual intercourse.  The positions are generally pretty awkward for that.   You really can't do the dom thing if you can't maintain control.

I think it is much better to have the spanking/flogging separated from the fucking - though obviously that is a matter of taste.   If available, spanking benches and/or a St. Andrews cross are the "gold standard" for this.  You can, of course, improvise.

It can help if the sub will tell you where on a scale of 1-10 you are.  Different subs have VERY different tolerances. and expectations.

Another interesting twist is to have them count down...and get pretty hard on the last one.

Intersperse the spanking with caresses.  A vibrator can be a lot of fun as well.  Possibly put them "back to work" for just a bit.

Don't underestimate the power of a blindfold - especially if you are flogging from the front.  But even from the back, the sensory deprivation is useful.

Thanks for the topic - I haven't seen this one before

The bike.
 
As I've stated before, Senator, you have excellent taste in women.

Muah

I know that was on the list, but it should be #1. You would think that would be common sense, but apparently some people go full force on their first smack.

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If so, I have a pecker I'd like you to meet.

8o)

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Wish I lived in Sacramento. In the past I've only been on the receiving end but in your case I might actually make an exception for the first time.