heels and or stilettos?

If the provider WANTS to wear stilettos / high heels because she enjoys doing it, great. But I never request it.

I confess I do like the way they look, or rather the way they make the lady wearing them look, but it's not even that big a deal to me going out for the evening, much less BCD.

Hell, put heels on you and you end up being taller than most guys and, let's face it, a lot of guys can also be sensitive about appearing shorter than the woman.    

I confess, I love to wear them in bed too.  

Thanks Harry! I guess I should just stop telling myself to suck it up (no pun intended) LMAO...and just ask. Unfortunately, I have a bad habit of pushing myself with the idea of it's my mind that is being weak and not my body. I need to remember that this isn't a sport and I'm no longer an athlete.  
 

I had a hurt ankle once and didn't bother with heels during that time.  I did, however, make sure the rest of the look suited the alternatives.  For example, I'd wear a simple silk slip or robe or lingerie when barefoot instead of a glam dress that would look awkward without heels.

Thank you. Good idea.

...and specically request bare feet.

W loves to walk around in bare feet and I cringe thinking about the shit that is ending up in and on the bed.  OTOH, I don't give it a second thought to the fact that the dogs are walking around all over the bed and putting their asses on my pillow.  I wish I had a rational mind....

I love the shape and form of a woman. Heels, hose and nicely fitting lingerie just enhance everything visually for me. When I walk into a room and a provider is wearing a nice lingerie set with heels I do nothing but smile and compliment them because they look STUNNING! It is all part of the package for me and I can tell you I am disappointed when it does not happen.

I'm one who loves the sexy look of heels, but I would never want my date to wear them if they're that uncomfortable. I recently had a dinner date with an ATF who apologized for wearing low heels, explaining about a recent injury. I was very glad that she had some flats with her and asked her to change, and of course, she still looked gorgeous!

If the lady I am seeing likes wearing heels and thinks they compliment the outfit then I am game.  If she wants to go bear foot and I also game.  There have been a few times where I have requested a lady wear thigh high boots for a certain look. Granted they didn't stay on long...lol

look good.

Or at a later date before you show up.

....and will request her to wear them if I want a lap dance or two to begin our session. She would only have them on for a few minutes. I would hope that if there were any issues, either physical or otherwise, that would prevent her from obliging my request that she'd tell me during our contact prior to meeting. I would understand completely and it would never be a deal breaker if she were reluctant or unable to wear them.

As you say yourself heels are sexy and it's always great to see a lady who makes an effort with her dress, including heels, but if it's a problem you should definitely say so.

I am not a heel person. How a provider is dressed all depends on the situation and my mood, but heel are not very important that she wears heels.

I find that pump, strap style regular sole heels make a woman's legs look especially gorgeous and I find that look to be spectacular when coupled with a short sexy dress. The platform style heels do not have the same effect in my view and I certainly understand how some woman might find platform styles most uncomfortable. I specifically request regular sole heels be worn by my "dates" and have always been pleasantly accommodated as my "dates" have always looked stunning and sexy.

I HATE platform shoes, but classy heels are a great addition.  However, if they are uncomfortable for you, find a work-around.  With your height, you don't need 4" more.  I also like a barefoot look.

I am good either way.  I think women are very sexy in stilettos and or heels.  However during a session I do not really notice the foot wear.

LOL...still, it was good to hear from you. It always is. You have a great, helpful, personality.

Cool beans...I like that.

Good sound advice. I like it and agree with it. Thank you.

Short dress, long legs, heels....I totally agree with you. I love this look as well.

Cool beans. My type of guy. LOL

Charming and considerate. I like that. Thank you for your advice. Have an awesome day.

And be greeted warmly. I could care less if you're wearing heels or not.

Country Girl...I have one pair of heels and I can only stand and look pretty in them LOL Walking is outa the question

Not important at all. Also, I'm 5'8" so a lady in heels usually towers over me. Ha

Sorry for the horrible grammar and weird sentence structure lately. I honestly do not know why it has gone through such a decline. All I know is I am not drunk and I do not wish to be know as the scribe of the last few posts I have put on here. LOL.

LOL...that's awesome. I can totally relate.  

Posted By: ladyrose317537

Country Girl...I have one pair of heels and I can only stand and look pretty in them LOL Walking is outa the question

I like for the girls to be comfortable in the dress. I honestly don't mind Jeans and a nice blouse.
Of course ,if I'm out of town and she want something fancy for dinner, the best I'll give her is a nice pair of wool slacks, great long sleeved shirt and a Sport Coat.
NOTIES PLEASE for me.

It isn't a big deal to me whether she does or doesn't. My ATF is a very into high-end shoes, but she usually greets me barefoot in a towel, and we go out as often with her in flats or even sneakers as with her in fashionable heels.  

That just makes sense ... we are the fantasy. I am not comfortable in heels for very long, either,(and I, too am tall, so heels can make me look too tall) but usually, one doesn't spend more than 5 minutes STANDING in them, if you know what I mean...

If we are going out to dinner or some sort of special event where we need to dress-up a bit, then heels are likely appropriate -- unless they are too uncomfortable for you to wear.  All things being equal, I would prefer that my date be comfortable.  If that entails jeans and a nice blouse, that it great.  If it means a skirt and flats, that is also fine.  If she loves to look taller and always wears heels, that is fine too.  If she wants to wear heels, but decides to throw a pair of flats in her bag just in case, that is also fine.  But since you are already taller than 98% of other ladies and likely even most men, I seriously doubt if most guys would care... and many might likely prefer that you not wear heels.

Hey Mikey...

Posted By: hey mikey

If we are going out to dinner or some sort of special event where we need to dress-up a bit, then heels are likely appropriate -- unless they are too uncomfortable for you to wear.  All things being equal, I would prefer that my date be comfortable.  If that entails jeans and a nice blouse, that it great.  If it means a skirt and flats, that is also fine.  If she loves to look taller and always wears heels, that is fine too.  If she wants to wear heels, but decides to throw a pair of flats in her bag just in case, that is also fine.  But since you are already taller than 98% of other ladies and likely even most men, I seriously doubt if most guys would care... and many might likely prefer that you not wear heels.  
   
   
 (But, as I like tall ladies, I must admit that I'm not intrigued based upon your introduction...)  

I meant "now"... instead of "not"  OOPS, sorry about that!  

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Otherwise, go ahead and wear them (or not) at your discretion.

LMAO!!!!! ok thanks Mikey. That was really funny. Thanks for starting my day off with a smile. Enjoy your day as well. -Maxine

Posted By: hey mikey

I meant "now"... instead of "not"  OOPS, sorry about that!  

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I don't expect her to be wearing either for long, so it's no biggie to me.

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There are many orthopedic options for ankle breakers.
Still, think of the long term.
You have height, so doubt anyone will say much