I've had it happen where, even though I was not initially attracted to my partner, they possessed such an extraordinary, natural sexuality that the sex was off the charts.  Ya never know!

..tell her you want 500 an hour. That's a nice incentive right there.

I'm curious what about this woman that is NOT your type? age, race, look, body type etc... I might be able to suggest something depends on your answer.

For me I'm very flexible and forgiving. I can do it with most any age, any look (unless downright repulsive), any race... my only stickler is body type which I can't do fat women

Personally, attraction is not particularly connected to physical appearance. It's all about personality, and I find someone physically attractive based on how I relate to them - not the other way around. There is nothing sexier than experiencing someone enthusiastically and authentically sharing their sexuality. Sounds like this is what's gonna go down.  

Try thinking of attraction as a dynamic, rather than a static fact. It's a totally different, better and more exhilarating experience if you can do this if you can get over the "I'm attracted to you therefore" mindset.

I find my body will pretty much respond...  hormonally...  if we just lay together skin to skin.  If it's been a while I can just enjoy feeling the hormones in my blood stream...  Maybe it's because I'm a mature guy.  Younger guys tend to be push button...  and younger (inexperienced) women expect an instant response.  
I think the old book "The Joy of Sex" is worth a read...   can give a lot of pointers (including that handcuffs LOOK better for kinky sex than they are in practice.)

Instead of dinero, you'll get to show her the ropes and maybe have some fun in the meantime...But I don't see this lasting long...

Is this a FWB or ......

Is she paying you?  If she's paying you who cares fuck away... But if you're doing as FWB, you're attracted to some point of her since your considering this..

Sometimes stimulation & attraction isn't about looks.. It's about how that person makes you feel... You can be good looking & rich but if you don't have heart/personality/substance then you're Worthless..

Personally, my sexual attraction levels both personally and professionally tend to hedge on how kinky/sex-positive/open-minded my partner is. The closer our mutual kinks, the more likely i am to be attracted to my partner. I've learned this over the years, and didn't always think that physical attraction could be supplanted by sexual attraction (note there's a difference). There have been instances where the two collide, and that's seriously mind-blowing. But most of the time those attractions are separate- I can think someone is hotter than the face of the sun and once I get them into bed and see how boring they are, I'm turned off and won't want to try again.  

Sex in my personal life is rarely as fun or exciting as it is in my work life. In my work life, i'm not restricted by my own aesthetic disposition since I don't even know what my client looks like until I open the door.  All i know about my client is a general idea concerning wants, needs, and areas of exploration.  

As far as dealing with someone less sexually experienced, you'll have to have some patience and you'll have to do a lot of guidance. Show her how to do the things she wants to learn how to do, but also let her do those things as well. Make sure to also focus on her pleasure. Since she is less experienced than you, you'll need to take extra care and check in with her.  She's going to be seriously turned on by getting to do all these new things, and she's going to want to do ALL THE THINGS that she might not be physically or mentally prepared for. Be responsible. Don't take advantage of her excitement.  When she tells you to stop because something doesn't feel good/right, stop. Ask her what else she'd like to do. Since she is the one who is less experienced, this really needs to be about her and what she wants to explore, and I applaud her for taking the lead in learning about her sexuality.

unless you want to be in an "interesting" situation.

For starters, the whole idea of a woman you hardly know approaching you with this offer seems weird, like a nine on a one to ten scale weird.  My 60+ years of experience with women tells me it just doesn't work that way, so it prompts the question of where she is coming from and why.  I would not take her at face value.

Next, your lack of attraction means that you'll be carrying a heavy onus.  This might not be any fun considering that she is going to expect you to provide results that you may not be able to deliver.  I presume you have no formal or even informal training as a sex therapist.  Her disappointment could be the spark that causes this whole explosive mix to blow up, and it could get very ugly.

Regarding looks and attraction, it is true the two are not synonymous.  I have met woman who would be considered quite attractive, but something about them just didn't do it for me.  On the other hand I have known women who could be termed plain, and that's being generous, but with whom I have had delightful sex.  I see this as a the chemistry factor.  If you two don't share chemistry, then I don't see this as being something I'd want to do.  Like I said, perhaps you are the devil-may-care type and are curious about what will happen.  Just make sure you keep your eyes wide open.

Finally, sex is always an explosive force.  Here in the hobby we try to handle it safely by using money as a means to overcome the emotional aspects and set a firm rule that there are no strings attached.  Even with that, how often do things go out of kilter?  (Answer:  a lot!)  Go ahead and explore if you must.  For selfish reasons I'd love to see you do this just to see what happens, but I will offer you this:  Good luck, you will need it.

 

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I'll teach her how to suck on a fake penis, she will have to pay me though. Wink