For those who have used back-page, out of every 10 girls you have met, how many were bait and switch?  Same question with EROS.  It seems like TER is the only way to find the real deal. Am I wrong or just exaggerating ?

1) The few BP girls I've met, used cell phone selfies and were as advertised when I met them.  All of them the girl next door types.
2) The BP ads that use pictures of women that look so hot that they would give Megan Fox a run for her money, I avoid.  If she looks to good to be true, she most likely wouldn't be on BP to start with.  There are exceptions to the rule, but this is just my philosophy.
3) If a girl looks TGTBT, then your odds of a bait and switch I would guess are probably in the 90% range.
4) I have used my common sense and instincts, and have avoided B&S 99% of the time. (Hey, even Spiderman has a bad day once in awhile)

I don't see BP ladies anymore unless they are well reviewed in TER, I had done it a few times early in my hobby, and never a good experience, bait and switch and upselling. Now that you've found your best alternative, it's probably best to stick with it. My opinion.

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if you do some research. Google images, google phone numbers, review sites other than TER... you can find some great providers. Once you know a few good ones, you can find out about their "friends" and so on.  When I'm careful and I do my research all is well. I do find that many BP gals just starting out tend to be a bit more mechanical and less GFE than I prefer, or menus are limited. Never had an upsell situation. The ONE truly bad experience I had was when I didn't research and made a random call to a BP gal.  

That's cause of research, research and research

A lot of the girls don't have websites so you'll need to find more creative ways to exact your revenge when you're stood up

of course, I don't just run to the phone or send an email when I see an ad on BP . As others have already mentioned, you have to put in the time to find out about the advertiser.  Now as far as Eros, for some reason it's been next to impossible for me to log on lately.

I have had some amazing success on BP. I do think it is a skill to be able to weed out the misses and B & S providers. You need to remember if it looks to good to be true it probably is. Any advertised service under 60 minutes you should stay away from. That said, I saw two incredible girls from BP. One married a dentist and stopped providing, the other was very much UTR. She had an ad up for a short time and I never saw one posted again by her. I saw her dozens of times for over a year. Any time I had the urge and texted she met me within the hour. She was an incredibly skilled, voracious Asian lover. Amazing. She stopped when she found a boyfriend. Moral of the story, don't rule it out just because BP has a bad rep. Maybe 5% are legit and worth it but you can find it if you know how to search for it.

then they visit my website, reviews, my RS2K ad etc..

Humanist was referring to the other persons other post. Superluv has made references to revenge.
Just saying.

Sorry, I should have included a link for context

I spend a fortune on adds and I here from guys that they have had bad looking ladies from back page. But you all seem to go there still . Lol witch brain?????? Love you anyway . Just be carful you don't get hurt or robed! Unless your into that kinda thing. ¥

He has now made numerous references to getting revenge on a provider, hacking into her site, contacting her from multiple email addy's, posing as someone other than himself to stalk her and making fun when called out on his sick shit.

He's been working overtime starting new threads in an attempt to push his "revenge" post as far down as he can, as fast as he can

Superluv is the DB who wanted to exact revenge on a lady who allegedly stood him up by either hacking her website to take it down or trying to ruin her business.  

He's classy as fuck and just a genuinely cool person. So cool, in fact, that I didn't mind getting my white ass up for a 7:30am appointment with him. The OP is the creepy "revenge seeker."

And to top it off, he has doubled down on the sick shit he has posted instead of apologizing, or saying he didn't mean it or just STFU for awhile and keeping a low profile.

I find not being a twat rather effortless, but appreciate the props nonetheless!

and then kiss and make up, since we are in the same general area. (just kidding , except for location)

And feel free to call me TH or Humie or whatever...I've got a way cooler nickname IRL

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Stopped using it years ago and you're an asshat.  

when my gales of laughter have subsided to the point where I can think clearly.

here she is

For example, I call Devin Davette, "Dev."  Or Samantha Good, "Sammie."  But it seems juvenile to use a nickname on someone you've never even met.  Not that I'll call you "Ms. Telford" or Courtney Ova "Ms. Ova."  But "Court" and "Tobes" seem to pretend a familiarity that's false to me.  Thus, when Rod calls Courtney "Court" it not only makes me gag but I think it makes him look like a fool.  And he has so many ways he does that already.

Revenge?

there ya go

Catch ya later, headed out to pick up some Old Bay Eye Boil

Dude, read the subsequent posts and catch up before ya pull that hair trigger

annoyingfungus is one of the stupidest posters on TER.  He can barely write a coherent sentence.  He is a perennial contender (and last year's winner) of GaG's SPOTY Award (Stupidest Poster of the Year).  And if you've experienced some of the lame-brains we have here, you know that's quite an achievement.
Add to it that he's always in a nasty, pissed-off frame of mind and never has anything positive or funny to say and you've got quite a package.

You know what they say about arguing with idiots:
They'll drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience. :

Yep

Posted By: perfectstorm

You know what they say about arguing with idiots:  
 They'll drag you down to their level, then beat you with experience.  
 

Because it is adventure and there are always diamonds in the rough with deals of a life team. The deals are so good they become like an investment. I saw one provider this month 3 times for a total of $180.

Cutie McThroaty might work though

Wrestling with a pig. You both get muddy and the pig likes it.

I get a kick out of when I see a BP add claiming the pics are 100% real. Sure, they may be real, but are they real pics of the provider? I did research on one provider, whose pics were TGTBT, by Googling her phone number and I found a set of pics of another woman in a BP ad in different state. I've texted a few providers I found on BP; only one responded and her text was terse and somewhat rude. I would only connect with a BP provider if she has reviews on TER, and some very reputable ones do.  
   
I've had two opposite experiences with women I found on EROS. The first--my worst experience--wasn't a bait-and-switch; her tattoos matched her pics but she must have employed Industrial Light and Magic technology to touch up (which is putting it lightly) her figure. She appeared as a 10 in her ads, but when I saw her in person, I should've turned around.  
   
The second provider I found on EROS had two pages of reviews on TER, which made me feel much better about seeing her, and she turned out to be one of the best experiences I've had.  
   
The lesson is: Do your research, folks, and don't let your other brain make the calls.  
   
Happy hunting!  


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