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Is it ever OK to cry in a providers arms?

Please discuss

thank god nobody cried yet though:))\

good to have you back,Zak

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Posted By: Zak0326
Is it ever OK to cry in a providers arms?  
   
 Please discuss.  
   
 

I've never had a client cry but I've definitely had a few gripe about their kids or "heinous" ex wives (their words not mine). Ultimately, it's my job to be a sensitive, empathic ear/shoulder to cry on so; blubber on ya big baby lol. But you gotta bring your own Bon-Bons ;

the idea of not crying is macho bullshit.

Sometimes you can't control where it happens. Provider's arms, or anywhere else, I have no fear of crying if I need to.  

Anyone who has lost a close friend or relative can probably attest to the fact that crying can overwhelm you at the strangest times and with triggers you could never see coming.

Cry away, if you need to.

But I won't kick you out if you cry in my arms.  Human nature dictates that we all have bad days.  Maybe you didn't really come to see me sex in the first place eh.  So,  say what's on your mind and have a good cry dahlin.

They are most likely crying in your arms, sweet Erin, because they got their best Humma Evha!  😉

Posted By: Erin Keevy
But I won't kick you out if you cry in my arms.  Human nature dictates that we all have bad days.  Maybe you didn't really come to see me sex in the first place eh.  So,  say what's on your mind and have a good cry dahlin.  

Thus,  I will continue to hold my lovers until their tears run dry  

Posted By: bosfriend
They are most likely crying in your arms, sweet Erin, because they got their best Humma Evha!  😉  
   
Posted By: Erin Keevy
But I won't kick you out if you cry in my arms.  Human nature dictates that we all have bad days.  Maybe you didn't really come to see me sex in the first place eh.  So,  say what's on your mind and have a good cry dahlin.  

That you could have such a relationship with a provider
that when you book with her you would pay for that but

I have learned to no longer judge.

Posted By: Zak0326
Is it ever OK to cry in a providers arms?  
   
 Please discuss.  
   
 

Zangari307 reads

Posted By: Zak0326
Is it ever OK to cry in a providers arms?
 One can only stare in wonder at the post above.   The sex trade is like the drug trade.  
It's a ruthless black market, illegal & potentially dangerous.  

 If you're such an emotional wreck, then you shouldn't be doing P4P.  Get some help.  --z

Posted By: Zak0326
Is it ever OK to cry in a providers arms?  
   
 Please discuss.  
   
 

GaGambler343 reads

I am sure you of all people can relate.

I see a lot of your smart ass comments on here to people and some are funny.
The rest are wrong assumptions from a bitter guy.
Just try again and maybe you will be right for once.
 

Posted By: GaGambler
I am sure you of all people can relate.

GaGambler290 reads

Board pinatas are constantly calling the jokesters here, bitter, angry, insecure and a whole host of things that simply "don't fit"  

Now if you call me an asshole, or arrogant prick or even an overbearing, insensitive dickhead, ok those descriptors might not be entirely true (or then again they might, depending who you ask. lol) but they at least make sense. but how you get "bitter" from me LMAO at you is just beyond me.

and for the record doth prostest way too much, where there is THAT much smoke, there is bound to be a fire smoldering somewhere. rofl

I know your history on here GaG.
Just remember one thing you have a history of of being a smart ass with your comments.
Some make you sound like a bitter man.
You can be slick and post whatever response comments you want to me.
The comments you write say something else about you smart guy.

Posted By: GaGambler
Board pinatas are constantly calling the jokesters here, bitter, angry, insecure and a whole host of things that simply "don't fit"  
   
 Now if you call me an asshole, or arrogant prick or even an overbearing, insensitive dickhead, ok those descriptors might not be entirely true (or then again they might, depending who you ask. lol) but they at least make sense. but how you get "bitter" from me LMAO at you is just beyond me.  
   
 and for the record doth prostest way too much, where there is THAT much smoke, there is bound to be a fire smoldering somewhere. rofl

followme276 reads

t sounds to me you did a lot of undercover research yourself. Lol  
I don't get it but again no judgements.

 
2016 = 2

Just like you running around on here confusing people and comments.

Posted By: followme
 
 It sounds to me you did a lot of undercover research yourself. Lol  
 I don't get it but again no judgements.  
   
   
 2016 = 28    
 

GaGambler278 reads

Better to be a smart ass than a dumbass, dumbass. lmao

Posted By: GaGambler
Better to be a smart ass than a dumbass, dumbass. lmao

Afro-desiac310 reads

Give credit where credit is due.  His writing skills are clearly at the 10-year-old level.

GaGambler192 reads

He only writes at the level of the typical 8-year-old Asian kid.

I think you better worry about your own writing skills. Lol

Posted By: Afro-desiac
Give credit where credit is due.  His writing skills are clearly at the 10-year-old level.

Afro-desiac221 reads

Weak.  Very, very weak.  Then again, if you don't "like" your own posts, no one else will.
Oh, and did I say thanks for outing your handle and alias yesterday, smart boy?  LULZ!

I love seeing how confused you are and trying to make things up as fact.
Just keep it up because I can see your desperate not knowing the truth. Lol

Posted By: Afro-desiac
Weak.  Very, very weak.  Then again, if you don't "like" your own posts, no one else will.  
 Oh, and did I say thanks for outing your handle and alias yesterday, smart boy?  LULZ!

Afro-desiac211 reads

I know it as an absolute fact.  Why don't you ask the management here?  They know.  And I know which of your posts disappeared because you did it.  And I'm not the only one who knows.  If you keep denying it you'll only make yourself more foolish than you already have, so just shut up and go away.

The real question is why do you keep making up things yourself?
Also you jump in for no reason name calling and acting a fool yourself.
You don't have proof and it pisses you off.  
If you don't like it, then mind your business next time.
 

Posted By: Afro-desiac
I know it as an absolute fact.  Why don't you ask the management here?  They know.  And I know which of your posts disappeared because you did it.  And I'm not the only one who knows.  If you keep denying it you'll only make yourself more foolish than you already have, so just shut up and go away.


-- Modified on 2/27/2016 5:09:10 PM

You can believe what you want, but it does not make it correct.
So move now because your wrong and it's really stupid too.

Posted By: Afro-desiac
I know it as an absolute fact.  Why don't you ask the management here?  They know.  And I know which of your posts disappeared because you did it.  And I'm not the only one who knows.  If you keep denying it you'll only make yourself more foolish than you already have, so just shut up and go away.

I can see why you are hiding.
Just remember I know the real truth about you. Lol
 

Posted By: GaGambler
Better to be a smart ass than a dumbass, dumbass. lmao
-- Modified on 2/27/2016 12:06:09 PM

This is very strange and weird. Lol
 

Posted By: followme
He always seems lost.  
   
   
 2016 = 28


-- Modified on 2/27/2016 11:25:19 AM

followme197 reads

You never know what your talking about or what to say either.  

 
2016 = 28

Posted By: followme
You never know what your talking about or what to say either.  
   
   
 2016 = 28

followme267 reads

do not recall ever seeing you post on the P&R board, there is another poor pathetic lost little person who posts there. I do not recall his name off hand but he like you is obsessed with the reviews of others and you both seem to have so much else in common especially getting along with others. So bear96 I think you two would get along with each other rather well, especially since it seems you cannot get along with anyone here.  Also I suspect you are a Bernie boy, just like him. You could be each other’s trusted sidekick

I will say it again to you and your confused friends.
The more you post comments like this,  it shows your desperation.
You have nothing and sound silly.
 

Posted By: followme
 
 I do not recall ever seeing you post on the P&R board, there is another poor pathetic lost little person who posts there. I do not recall his name off hand but he like you is obsessed with the reviews of others and you both seem to have so much else in common especially getting along with others. So bear96 I think you two would get along with each other rather well, especially since it seems you cannot get along with anyone here.  Also I suspect you are a Bernie boy, just like him. You could be each other’s trusted sidekick.  
   
   
 

followme252 reads

And you keep on replying.

 
You admitted it yourself....you are lost

I guess you have to find something else to lie about later.

Posted By: followme
And you keep on replying.  
   
   
 You admitted it yourself....you are lost

I appreciate all your feedback. Thank you.
 

Posted By: Zak0326
Is it ever OK to cry in a providers arms?  
   
 Please discuss.  
   
 

did it happen to you?

Steph xoxo

Posted By: Zak0326
Is it ever OK to cry in a providers arms?  
   
 Please discuss.  
   
 

OK, that didn't happen to me, personally, but it happened to someone on the Minnesota board.  It was back in November around the holidays, and apparently the provider was one of the unfortunate souls spending the holidays with the complete absence of family or friends.  To put icing on the cake, so to speak, she started crying in the middle of intercourse, causing the client to go limp and pull out, even though she told him to keep going.  He spent the rest of the session comforting her.

I am starting to think it's based off of the relationship you have with the person. I would only feel comfortable doing it in front of one or two people.  Two providers have cried in front of me trust me that definitely happens.  

Posted By: vantheman666
OK, that didn't happen to me, personally, but it happened to someone on the Minnesota board.  It was back in November around the holidays, and apparently the provider was one of the unfortunate souls spending the holidays with the complete absence of family or friends.  To put icing on the cake, so to speak, she started crying in the middle of intercourse, causing the client to go limp and pull out, even though she told him to keep going.  He spent the rest of the session comforting her.

GaGambler225 reads

Or was it maybe a matter of them laughing so hard they cried??? lmao

I am sorry Zak, but I can't pass up low hanging fruit like this. You left yourself wide open and I just couldn't help myself and believe me, I tried.

We all pay the rated given so when would a provider be disappointed? As far as I can see only when someone short changes them and I suspect crying would not be the first reaction.

didn't happen during the dirty deed, but just a couple months ago one of my atfs broke down in tears when she told me her pet had recently died.  the tears seemed genuine, too, so what could i do but comfort her (and in a non-sexual way).

in answer to the op, not only is it ok to cry in front of your provider, it's ok to do whatever you want as long as it's ok with here.  

it's especially ok to do what ever  you want and not feel the need to share this crap with the entire board.

Well said! That poor kid needs a therapist, not an escort ;-)

Wonder if there shouldn't be another forum for such discussion, or maybe a couple: TER Emotional Support, TER Venting and we could even add a TER Forum of Flames and Personal Insults ;-)

It happens, especially if you find a provider that you feel you can really be yourself around. Also the release of a great orgasm can let loose a damn of pent up emotions for some. I've had it happen before, and honestly feel it's just about the highest compliment. It means that the guy feels comfortable enough with me to let his guard down. So, if you need to cry, and it happens to be while you are seeing a provider, just let it go. You will feel much better! x

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