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RespectfulRobert 23 reads
posted
1 / 26

I get, on occasion, a "wyd" or "how ya been" email/text. While I view that as technically soliciting, it doesn't bother me in the least. If you are saying something much more direct, like " We need to get together soon. Are you around next week?" now that is something very rare, like maybe 2 or 3 times in 15 years.

John_Laroche 39 reads
posted
2 / 26

I had a regular gal that would say she missed me right around the 30th of each month.  

 
Had a few touring girls who were kind enough to let me know when they were coming to town before their ad came out.  

 
But, I think a lot of girls assume that your phone or email isn't private enough for unsolicited messages until they know you well.

trex44 9 Reviews 22 reads
posted
3 / 26

My ATF contacts me about a week ahead of her travels through my area. She knows I want to see her anytime she's available hereabouts and she gives me first dibs on her short time here.

Yes, it's a sound business move on her part. She knows I'm enthusiastic about our time together and, being as close to a "sure thing" that she can get in booking an appointment. It's a good way to defray her travel costs and we have a great time together.

Going on 4+ years now and we're closing in on a couple dozen sessions.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 32 reads
posted
4 / 26

I usually get invited back in person on leaving.  
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There are many escorts who think it is a violation of discretion to use your email/text to solicit biz.  For some people those sorts of communications could cause problems.
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However if you've established a longer term relationship, then those sorts of details are probably already worked out.

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 25 reads
posted
5 / 26

I don't care who(The Booker or Escort) invites you back. Its all about the money & nothing else. Don't think things like you are the hottest/best fuck that she's ever had or that she's falling in love with or anything of that nature. The person who contacted you just wants the $$$$MONEY$$$$ that he/she lost.

inicky46 61 Reviews 35 reads
posted
6 / 26

Because you are nothing more than a wallet with legs. The rest is an illusion called GFE.

CurlyW-NatsFan 22 reads
posted
7 / 26
helixir 54 Reviews 25 reads
posted
8 / 26

OTOH I have gotten "How are you" reminders from ladies I've seen multiple times and once or twice an invitation from a lady who knows I love 3somes when she has a new available partner.  

And yes, unless you were born yesterday, you know that it's a business solicitation. What else would it be. But so what. I want sex and she wants money.  No one is going to think that's changed based on one email.  

As for outright blast emails, that's very bad form. Had one lady send me a come-on with 10 other guys on the same email.  She's blocked now.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 17 reads
posted
9 / 26

my own personal experiences.  I have been told many times that I'm a wallet with a dick attached, . . . . or was it that I'm a dick with a wallet attached?  I don't remember, but it's the same thing, isn't it?  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 23 reads
posted
10 / 26

I just thought it was a strange coincidence that they always seemed to invite me back at the end as I was handing them the tip.  BTW, I have been invited back 100% of the time.  Can anybody else beat that?  Lol

TooTheMoon 27 reads
posted
11 / 26

I have a local lady that contacts me everytime she gets a incall location.
Most of the time she will ask me what days work for me before she books the room for the week.

Or course I never disappoint her and see absolutely every time she gets us a room.

hljockey 2 Reviews 26 reads
posted
12 / 26

I once got invited back for a free session with both the lady and her friend.  

That was a BDSM thing, so it probably doesn't count among the less perverted.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 20 reads
posted
13 / 26

a foot up your ass, an invitation is an invitation, especially for a FREE session.  Kudos.  

badger48 154 Reviews 24 reads
posted
14 / 26

If you get an invitation and you pay for the meet up, it's a session.

 
If you don't have to pay for the time and the time is not measured, 1 hour, 1 1/2 or 2 hours, then it's OTC.

 
And I almost always get invited back, because it's business!  
They might like my company, but they like my money more!

Kitty76 See my TER Reviews 19 reads
posted
15 / 26

It makes no sense for a "So-Called Escort/Provider" to give it up for free. It's pointless for the female to be on this site and to have free sex.

adelinedare See my TER Reviews 31 reads
posted
16 / 26

I too get emails that say things like "let's get together" "you around" usually around 3am . The best way to respond to a provider you would like to meet is too include your references on the first email. I have my assistant send out reference request emails asap.  

Guys take the time to write a complete sentence. It helps

love  

Adeline xoxo

case321 31 Reviews 40 reads
posted
17 / 26

“I ain’t never been called big, but I always get called back”

Had a couple gals now retired who would let me know if they were going to be in the area a week or so ahead of time. Good business on their part since I was already known to be a safe/sane client. I like to think we were friends of a sort but I’m sure if my good friend Mr Franklin didn’t show up with his twins the friendships would have dissolved quickly

DViejo7 27 reads
posted
18 / 26

Even my ATFs don't contact me when they are available.  I did have one mature Thai provider harass me with phone calls and voicemails once.  She just wanted the money, of course, but she wasn't worth it, so I ignored her.

3270925 11 Reviews 25 reads
posted
19 / 26

I receive emails whenever ladies I've seen tour my city.  Not uncommon.  

CurlyW-NatsFan 29 reads
posted
20 / 26

Maybe you are not their "ATF" then..

sdottaylor 19 Reviews 22 reads
posted
21 / 26

There have only been 2 providers that have unsolicitedly contacted me for an appointment.

It just so happens that both of those providers are on my Do Not See Ever Again List, so whatever...

BellaMaytress See my TER Reviews 33 reads
posted
22 / 26

I always got the impression that soliciting business like that out of nowhere was in bad taste, no?

Why_you_reading_TER 43 reads
posted
23 / 26

I would never get call backs until covid hit.

First time was 2020. Got a text from a provider i hadn't seen in more than a year. Wasn't planning on seeing her again but i saw she tanked her rate so i ended up paying a visit. Hit me up again 2 weeks later and at still her low rate, i couldn't pass it up because both times i paid for 1 hour and let me stay for 4. Best bargain I've ever had in the industry.  

Second time was another escort i had seen a few times over the years pre-covid. Many months after covid hit, she sent me 2 emails half a year apart but I didn't respond. I get the urge to see her once a year. So didn't respond. Though i may just hit her up next month because I'm craving her ass.

Third time was a provider i really liked and saw her multiple times in the previous years but got bored of her. November 2020 she hit me up, she never hit me up before but guess the dry spell forced her to reach out to me.  

Fourth time, a provider i had seen once. She was actually pretty hot but expensive. I plan to see her again but didn't respond to her text because it was too soon. Maybe next month.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 31 reads
posted
25 / 26

but it does get tedious sometimes to get a lot of the "I miss you, honey" text messages.  However, the one I HAD to go see took a more clever approach.  She texted me, "It's been awihile.  Are yoiu cheating on me?  LOL   I loved it, and went to see her the next day.  Tongue in cheek, with irony on the side should not go unrewarded.

anony3274931 35 reads
posted
26 / 26

The ones who reach out aren’t the cream of the crop. From my experience. We did have a fun freaky one from Utah who was into the wife who offered discounted sessions lol. Bit of a ego kill there ;)

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