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Of course in my case my excuse is that I was a child. lol I went from zero to fourteen without ever getting laid, and then a year or so after losing my actual virginity I broke my hooker cherry as well. lol

 
I do know I have been through some dry spells like all of us have, but I think my longest dry spell as an adult was measured in months, not years. I hear the sad stories from some of the unhappily married guys here who have gone years or even decades without sex and I simply can not relate.

I lost my virginity at age 14, so 14 years without sex.

My entry into the hobby came after a three-week dry spell, after a BSC civvie date left me high and dry in the middle of a blow job.

From birth to 20 years old.  

Yes.

I would say the longest I've gone without sex was 7days.This is because I have periods every month and so I have to take a week off every month.It sucks because I love sex.But it is what it is lol

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Hehehe, July 11th  was my last sex. It was ffing amazing too!  
Since  I've been in Australia, I've been way too busy with work, traveling, family to take time for that wonderful pleasure. It may be another torturous 2 weeks till I have that pleasure again., when I'm back in Phoenix.  

To fully answer your question, I went through a two year stretch in my 2nd marriage, where sex did not happen  more than 3 times.  

Rosy Palm was my best friend during that dark time., as she is till I get back to Phoenix.

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An epiphany precipitated my entry into the hobby. Was cheating on my wife with a girl, felt bad and confided to my dad. He told me to stop. Me being the scumbag that I am. Remembered that the easiest way to forget about a girl is with another girl. Still with my wife and still seeing other girls. Except now there no strings attached. I pay them to leave. I would never cheat on my wife again.

Look who's talking!   Next time I'm in AZ WE'LL see who the bigger slut is.  lol

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Perfect!!

Geeze, 20-30? That's prime sexing time you've missed out on.

I did not loose my virginity until I was 24 years old.

my loss of virginity (Age 22, if you must know), it would be a 3 week spell back in 1997 when I was in an auto accident and had to "cool it" for a while.   I did end up seeing gals again while my arm was still in a cast.

 
Of course, that's nothing compared with one guy I heard about.  He was in a very bad auto accident.  He had both arms and legs in a cast still when the hospital released him.  He was so horny that he hied to the nearest house of ill repute and rang the bell.  The madam opened the door and took one look at him and said:  "What the hell do you think you can do with both your arms and legs in a cast?"  The guy replied:  "Well, I did ring the bell, didn't I?

how I went almost two years without sex. I was 30 and the girl was a 20 yr old virgin when we met and told me she wanted to save herself until marriage. I had fallen deeply in love with her very quickly and honored her wishes eventually getting engaged. I told myself that it would be worth all the cold showers I was taking in the end as she would love me forever for the sacrifice I was making for her and I never once in that time strayed.

In the end she broke off our engagement saying she was not ready for that commitment and wanted to see what it was like to date others.

To this day I dont't blame her as much as I do my dumb ass but I am thankful to her for getting me into the incredible world of P4P which I found shortly after our breakup.

As far as going without sex for anyone else? Never again!

... the longest was 2 years. And it was a key contributor to my getting into this "hobby".

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Tons of sex from the time I was 15 until 21. Found the girl I planned to marry and spend my life with. It was us against the world. She was a couple years younger than I... when I was 21 and she was 19 her Dad retired and decided the family was moving back to their home state.  They only lived here due to his job. Her parents knew that she and I were very serious.  Although they seemed to like me they wanted their daughter to come home with them.  They offered her College tuition but only if she attended school back home. If she stayed she was on her own with college costs. She wanted to go to college. I loved her to death and could not ask her to pass that up, yet although for my age I was doing very well for myself.  

I\we could still not support ourselves and her college costs in order for her to stay. I could not ask her to stay, it wasn't the best thing for her. She could not ask me to move to her hometown, as I was doing very well for myself here and that was not the best thing for me. We parted. We both had many 6 hour drives back and forth and weekends together for a few years while she was in school but we could never ask the other to do what wasn't best for them. The occasional weekend visits stopped. My heart was broken.

 Fast forward 13 years where I had not even dated another woman. Not interested in ANYONE else. I met another gal 10 years younger then myself through work, who was also going through a rough time with personal issues and we went out a few times. One night after dinner she decided she wanted to blow me in the PF Chang's parking lot immediately after dinner.

 This turned into a really fucked up relationship where it became obvious to me after a few months that all she was really interested in was my wallet. Which was ok, because It took that to realized all I was interested in was blowjobs, her pussy, and a nice set of store bought tit's. Over the next five years things slowly progressed to a point where we would literally be walking around the Nordstrom openly negotiating what I was going to buy her in order for her to take me back to her place and fuck me and spend the night. It just seemed to work for us both.  

We liked each other and were decent friends, we hung out together, dinner, dating, movies on the couch a couple nights a week and out every weekend. Call each other just to talk. We were FWB that worked both ways but there was no LOVE just transactions and mutual contentment. Then she started holding back on her end of the deal while expecting me to keep spoiling her. This got really frustrating really fast. Friday 9/11/2009 we are at her place we were fooling around on the couch after an expensive dinner and trip to the mall and she decided mid blowjob that she was going to try to upsell me. I saw RED. Got up got dressed and walked out. Stopped calling her or taking her calls.

 A few weeks later I joined TER and set up my first session. Figured I had essentially been doing the exact same thing for the past five years, so it was actually really easy to make that call. Don't regret it in the least. I wish I made more money than I do since I'd like to get laid more than twice a month but now I otherwise get to do whatever the fuck I want, whenever I want. no BS from the Mrs. I miss dating a bit just because I like the company and conversation but would rather fuck some hottie in two weeks rather than to pay a gal an extra hour or two to eat dinner with me. Just a matter of priorities for my funds.

 I am not dating otherwise because currently I like fucking a new hottie when I get the chance and I will not live both of those lives at the same time. I would consider that cheating on the civvie gal, and I have never been a cheater. I can live without dating knowing I will fuck some possibly currently unknown hottie next week instead. Also makes it easy to set up a tee time with friends.

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Your longest period ever was your longest period ever.

I bet you if you ask some of the guys, they will claim their wives or ex wives stayed "on the rag" for years at a time. lol

Anyone who can bleed for days and not die can't be human.

Seems legit I guess 😂👏🏼

It was at least 2 or 3 years, maybe more.  My wife decided she was no longer interested in sex.  She and I got along in every their area, but she lost interest in sexual intimacy.  She even told me she thought we had enough positive aspects to our relationship that we didn't need it and that her girlfriends felt the same way in their marriages.  I had been divorced before and that was/is not an option for me....so....with much trepidation...I entered the hobby.  Of course, after a while, my wife noticed I was no longer seeking sex from her and became periodically more interested in it but, by that time, I was no longer able to perform with her.  So....we have no sex together.  

I was in a long-term relationship between the ages of 19 and 24.  When we broke up, I went about a good decade having ZERO physical contact with the opposite sex.  I'm not unattractive or crazy and I certainly don't lack for libido; just shy, somewhat awkward, and deficient in self-confidence and social skills.  Well the frustration, loneliness, and extreme horniness continued to build until the summer of 2015, when a fortuitous google search led to me TER.  So, to answer your questions: 10 years and most certainly yes.

I'm soooo glad I came to my senses LOL

Reminds me of the saying,
"Morning sex is usually good  
Unless it's in Prison. "

..3 days...except when I was in hospital after car crash...I cant imagine not having sex longer than that...

I went as well 14 years without sex, then I booked my first provider last fall. I have gotten treated better than with civilian girls and will not go back them. Thank you providers.