I  often read threads  questioning the validity of photos used by providers. Sadly there have been some experiences people have had meeting a girl and the man felt he was in some way mislead or that he was a victim of a B & S .I do not doubt that it has happened to some and can understand the apprehension going forward for those who this has happened to .Adversely there are many great reviews and well reviewed and liked providers .

I also feel someone trying to have a great time with a girl doesn't ideally want her to stand in exactly one position as she does /did in her pics threw out the entire appointment like life size cut out of herself  . It would after all be a little flat of an experience at best...,Ahem

In our consumer age of ironic distance regardless of eventual closeness the viewer perceives and inherently suspects both the reality of the photograph and the intentions of the provider.

A pic functions as a substitute for an actual person, a triggering mechanism .
But a question of the assumption that a photo is a definitive '.arises. Or does it?

Moving focus to the identity of the girl beyond the 34ddd measurement toward her gesture and posturing can tell us with the authentically unguarded, dimension of people 'caught' inside the frame. Not the intention of the girl surely but present all the same .

Tough to accomplish if in fact the girl is nothing more than a product you are buying with specific measurement requirements as if to suggest the parts do equate to the sum.

In reality most of the pics we are going to view are not truly girls" caught "doing anything .But the feeling within the photograph can be translated to tell you more than possibly even the girl herself would want you to know . ,Now that's kinda sexy somehow.

When we stop looking for photo shopping of a zit the size a pixel and look beyond for a feeling exuded by the subject we might find much more of a story is actually being told and held inside that 1/28th sec frame.

But how will in fact that play out when it is no longer the 1/28th  second captured  perfect moment in time caught and frozen quite literally forever?

How will she" be" when she actually also has a voice? OK So maybe you do choose mute as one of the selections in your criteria ,

But in a seductive game of inter-connectedness between the girl and the viewer  we find ourselves inside the fascination with how ideally suited the girl is and the emerging truth within .

Focusing on the  identity of the girl more than simply the appearance , size and  the shape of her assets and how well positioned they are  if not too distracted by what isn't we may find what is and how revealing that can be, as well as to what extent she is truly exposing herself to you.

We look at these pics and we look for the truth in them with a predictability that offers neither solution nor solace..

We then have the opportunity to read reviews , and thank you reviewers , to complete the picture and give us a feeling for what an interaction with the person pictured might actually be like.

The process of choosing goes beyond the single image of a girl.or specific measurement .for most I suspect.

The observer not only accesses but can change the depiction as  he has the “power” to neutralize the intention of the girl by putting his overall concerns as the above importance before the agenda and voice of the girl and rightly so.

When looking at pics of the girls much like candy in a candy shop clients seek truth in photos for three main reasons as I see it.
The fear of over paying ,the fear of paying for a less than desirable or even "bad " experience  and not necessarily last definitely not least  , they want candy.

Still even with the marketing prowls of the girls and the desire of the clientele it is not easily selected .

Interpreting how ones individual experience may actually play out regardless of the presence of photo shop or not YMMV .Which is why a picture IMHO is really only one very small portion of the story.

Have a happy holiday guys Kendall

the essence, the spirit, the allure, the kindness, the passion, the tenderness, the joy, or the sensuality of a lady.  I can say of the ladies I've had the privilege to enjoy, that while their pictures have been journalistically honest, the experience of the lady herself could not possibly have been captured in pixels on virtual paper.

While pictures as a part of a well designed website exist to attract interest, hopefully by presenting a portrait of the lady for the mind as well, I can honestly say that the ladies I see appear to me to be far more beautiful in person than in the best photography.

Cheers

Gregory

When I frist began on this journey about 2 yrs ago the photo's of  a woman I was contemplating seeing were very important in my decision making process. What I have come to understand is that the pics for the most part hardly do justice at least as it pertains to the women I have had the privledge to meet. The pics dont seem to reflect the pulchritude of the lady & also do not convey anything about the persona, humanity, or warmth of the women in question. I review the pics ofcourse but they dont carry the same weight in my decision process as they have in the past..Anyway, FWIW thats my input to his thread.

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at something your post reminded me of recently.  I don't get to 'visit' as often as I'd like, so a website is an important 'filter' for me. The pictures and the prose.

Well, I hadn't given much thought until a recent visit, when again I noticed the lady's beauty in person was much greater than the pics on her site gave the impression of. It wasn't until I was editing some graphics that I noticed (after a year of having this computer) that the height/width pixel ratio wasn't correct for the screen I use. Basically, it made pictures more compressed vertically. Once I corrected it, pictures looked more like what I remembered.

So, all you ladies out there, on my computer screen you all dropped about 10 pounds! (And just in time for the holiday meal!)

Now, as to your topic of Authenticity, I find that I cannot seperate the inner person from the outer. I look at the 'whole'. Unfortunately, in this 'hobby', for safety reasons, authenticity has its limits. I do feel a little closer to those who've shared their real names with me, and maybe some things about their 'other life'. All in all, I am not looking for fake looks, fake 'sounds', or fake stories. Just the opportunity to share some special time, while dropping the guard which the world too often requires us to keep up. I've been fortunate in being able to meet some special ladies who've reciprocated the experience.

.. Kendall darlin', I have to tell you that I'm having a tough time following what you "said".

I had some "brain strain" that lasted a few days recently, so perhaps that has something to do with it.  

All I know is that YOU are much, much lovlier in person and sometimes ........ when I close my eyes at night - - I get to "see" you.  ( and that's a real good thing )

Manny

TY Manny I am sorry but I much like you the other day haven't had any sleep since IDK when and I am a bit over tired Lol uh oh ho ahem   I am sure I am going to be sorry I posted it when I reread it myself tomorrow Nighty Night lol Hoping you have a wonderful Thanksgiving Kendall

With Kendall, there really haven't been words invented to truly describe the level of beauty and sexiness she reaches.

The pics are peppered through the thread.

I sometimes wonder if we consumers know what exactly we want.  To spend time with a great lady or to try and find a fantasy that might not exist?



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Inherently, this industry is *based* on surface stuff...the limited, two dimensional marketing of "Hot and wet in Raleigh today!" combined with photos that are meant to be arousing (to one part in particular... )

This type of marketing works well for some ladies...

This type  of marketing works well for some gents...

But there are some that look for more...

Certainly the two dimensional images can speak beyond an arousal factor, and I have seen many sexy, and intriguing, photos that have shown there is more to a particular woman then sex appeal alone.

But in my opinion, websites are just as responsible, if not more so, at painting a more complex picture of the woman and the experience she looks to create/offer.  The picture may be the bait that lures one in, but the website is the one that really whets the appetite for what is to come...    

Certainly direct contact, be it by voice or by email, adds an additional layer...

Reviews add some color, albeit from one artists perspective...

And even with all those things combined, painting a multi-faceted picture of what is to come...isn't it grand when the experience still exceeds the expectations??

Magic can never be conveyed in such limiting terms...  One has to *be* there to get it.

Happy Thanksgiving to all!
(time to make the stuffing...)

xoM

I find it interesting that a lot of people claim they do not understand modern art, especially art that is not fully representational.  In reality, if they gave it some thought, like this post, they are right in line with the issues that a lot of artists think about.  

I think a lot of artists realized, in the early 20th century, that all the effort that went into creating a picture that was fully realistic, wasn't capturing some essential quality of the person that they were trying to portray.  With the advent of photography, it became obvious, why go to all that work, when all you were capturing was the external appearance and only at that moment in time?

So the issues raised in this post, representation, time, seduction, essence, identity, are the classic questions raised by modernism.  In a lot of art, the search is on to try and answer all those questions, and the answer is going to be found not in pure representation, but elsewhere.

I supposed it would have been expected that I post a photo or link a website with my OP but I was not refering exclusivly to myself in the post.

Certainly anyone interested in seeing my pics are more than welcome to email me

The websites that almost all of the girls have are a great way for the gentlemen to find more information about a specific girl ,see photos ect. I personally do not currently have a website although I am working on one I am unsure I will ever truly finish it . IDK if it is for me , Kendall

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Memorex

I'd like to find the next "Memorex" to buy & own. Interesting how the ad lives on, despite the company's demise.

A picture is worth a thousand words.....

The picture issue is beginning to become a bone of contention with me lately.  I paid to have great photographs of me taken thinking it would be nice if people could see my eyes clearly in the pictures.  Blurry, fuzzy, blotchy polaroids that seem like snapshots that I just scanned - to me implies that I don't take my profession and my appearance seriously.  I spent a lot of time and money on my hair, clothing, makeup, etc.  I buy very expensive business cards.  Why on earth would I have cheap horrible unprofessional photos?  I would think someone does deserve to see me clearly - and to see that when I do something - I do it well.  After paying a fortune for these pictures - including different shots of me in different costumes and locations - I'm told that they must be "fake" because they are "too good" to be "real".  So what do I do to make people think I am showing "real" pics?  Show these crappy uncropped blurry ones where you can't even see my smile or my eyes clearly?  I see those horrible pics and I think the girl herself must be cheap, not care about her profession, and if she's that careless about her image, then I would wonder what else she doesn't care about.  I mean would you want a lawyer who didn't have business cards and instead wrote down his number on postits?  I'm tired of being yelled at "those are fake" or even the insulting "if you don't show me your real pics - then the deal's off".  I'm not stupid - I know if the girl in the pic is not the girl who shows up - then I've just wasted everyone's time.  I have also had gf's that have shown their real pics - only to have the guy not let them in claiming the pics weren't them!  I was there - and those were her pics.  I don't look like my drivers license picture - does that mean it isn't me?  I swear to you - if someone was going to "fake" pics - you can fake a crappy one just as easily as a glossy professional one.  I am also personally getting sick of someone putting me through the hoops of demanding I sit there and show him 10 different pictures of me - only to have him tell me he's not in town until next week and he's only shopping.  While he's "shopping" - I could be talking to someone who is in town.  I would appreciate it if you would keep the window shopping time down to the night you're thinking of who you want to see.  Then I get the usual "well if that is really you - turn on your cam and prove it".  I'm sitting there with a face mask on and curlers in my hair and my reading glasses on in my fluffy bathrobe - oh hell no I'm not going to open up my cam!  But then I get told if I don't want to - then I must be lying about my pics being real. I personally am getting to the point where I'm about ready to say I don't even have any because I'm tired of countless arguments over whether they are "real" or not.  Ask for them - and if a gross misrepresentation - just don't see her - nuff said - and then you can stop harassing us with real pics day and night!