Toying with a different strategy after another NCNS.  Anyone that's been in the game a long time, do you have less problem (with prearranged visits where you are fully verified and a time and place agreed to) when you choose a visiting provider than with a local?  I've generally stuck with locals but other than some favorites, rethinking my strategy.  

...and I attribute that at least in part to them having to be reliable to ensure that they recoup their travel & boarding expenses. The only NCNS that I have had so far was from a local flake. And the few cancellations that I had were also from locals. For this reason I will generally seek out touring gals over locals. I think that some locals get complacent and will more readily blow off a confirmed 1 hr appointment in favor of a longer one, with little to no concern for the client who booked the shorter session first. All I gotta say about that is: Karma, baby.

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I have always prebooked with touring ladies and have not encountered a NCNS. They seem to appreciate the advanced booking. I've even booked a few months out. I'm very selective on who I want to meet, so I do my research. This is probably another reason why I don't experience NCNS.

vs, about 4 with local ones.

I see more local vs touring ladies, but both cancel and even ncns.  It's rude as fuck, but it happens. Check on them once after to see what happenrd, but don't hound them. Many ladies have families and other stresses. One lady told me that they have the best of intentions,but sometimes the day of they don't feel like going through with having some guys dick in them. Especially a dick that they have no attraction to. There is a side to the hobby that men don't understand. Yes, there should always be mutual respect and communication, but this hobby has an emotional, psychological, physical, and mental strain , for both men and women.

If a hooker is tired of having strange cocks in her...maybe SHE needs to find a new way to pay her bills.

Nah, this time you have a VERY valid point. The rookie really is a shameless and clueless BSU, not to mention he's kind of dumb to boot. That last statement "but this hobby has an emotional, phsychological, physical and mental strain, for both men and women" is about as dumb as it gets and is truly SPOTY worthy.

...as some of us have sadly discovered. No respect or communication, despite attempts to make sure everything is ok and to put closure to the matter. Karma will catch up to bitches like that. And of course hobbyists are just as guilty of being thoughtless and inconsiderate. It definitely works both ways.

Guess they didn't realize what it means!

No gambler, you are too numb to understand that your very own heart and mind is calloused and desensitized from decades of paying for pussy. You are in capable of having normal relationship with a woman without paying her for sex. You repeatedly talk out of your ass and drink your own kool  aid.  

You are in dire need of a reality check.

Sounds like you are drinking the hooker kool-ade.  Try and take a step back to reality.

Hookers know what they are doing. I know this you nut  sack ball sucker. That's not point. These ladies don't enjoy your sex as much as you think they do. Ya it can be fun and money can be good,  it's a Job for them too and like any job it can be stressful and sucks (no pun intended) at times. You never have stress at your job? Need time away or never call off? Why the double standard?

Or maybe a link to these stats?

The second is " can you bench press 400 lbs?"

Hello addict.  

The questions GaG asked were not actual questions.  They were hints/reminders about a long-departed poster here who was considered perhaps the biggest suck-up and idiot ever.  So GaG is simply suggesting you look like, in time, you could fill his shoes.
Here's another hint. But you won't get it.

You seem to be way overthinking this. Keep it simple!

I've had more touring NCNS than local NCNS. I think it's because SOME touring Providers deliberately overbook to make sure they make a profit on their trips.  
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I have been NCNSed by touring Providers in both NYC and Boston.
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It has been discussed that touring Providers know their likely cancel rates for different cities. ("I love the Willoughby guys! Always reliable to prebook! I hate the Podunk guys. 50% of my prebooks never show up." hence, she overbooks.)  
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...some cancel but always with at least 24 hr. notice.
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Unless it is an Emergency or she went to jail, there isn't a reason for her not to let you know something came up and has to cancel.

You're right.

You are traveling through another dimension, a dimension not only of sight and sound but of mind and body. A journey into a wondrous land of imagination and realization. Next stop, the TER Zone!

Yeah, strategy.  NCNS's aren't uncommon in my area.  I've had a few calls ahead of time or last minute cancellations over the years, I never quibble with that.  Always respectful.  Not sure what else I can do, other than consider the topic of this post--or stick with the few I really trust--only problem with that is our schedules rarely align, they have busy lives and I have limited time without much flexibility on meeting times.