I am totally new to the scene.  I'm dying to try outcall at a hotel, but have my concerns--LE, bait-n-switch, tipping and the like.  I've done incall where I simply walk through the door, pay the vig and enter the massage room and let nature take its course.  I'm looking for some advice so I can get things moving in the right direction.

This board is a good place to start. Post the area you live in, and I'm sure some of the more experienced hobbyist can make some recommendations. Any reviews that are on this site should be OK.

My suggestion:  get a backbone.

Have you ever ridden a bike?  It's kinda the same.  Find a well-reviewed provider and explain that you're a newbie.  Ask her to be gentle.  Or not!!!

Happy hobbying.

The best way to assuage your fears is to find independent (done by people who have met but are not affiliated with ones that you would like to hobby with) reviews of the people who you want to meet.  The information can be used by you to minimize or eliminate your exposure to the concerns that you raised.  Tipping, is an action of your choosing, you can choose to tip or not.

(A) Find a well reviewed independent here on TER. This will alleviate both fears of LE and an agency "bait & switch"

(B) Don't be a total putz when you call the provider by asking stupid or graphic questions that will effectively chase off the provider you are hoping to see. Be helpfull to her in her "screening" of you. It is for both of your safety and since you probably have no "reviews" here for her to look up and verify you with she may ask a few extra questions of you.

(C) Tipping is always appreciated by a lady but your return patronage is the ultimate tip.

(D) Get out there and DO IT!

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