You know that nut bar who posted recently about scamming Sugar Babies got me thinking about something.

I thought you were going to say the pics weren't a true representation of the ladies you saw.
Since that's not case did you have a good time with both providers?
If so that's the main thing.
If they promised to see you outside of this arena and didn't go through with it that's their decision.
Did you book them on the pretense of the free time afterwards or were you just looking for a good time?
If you had the good time and they were as advertised I don't understand the bait and switch comment.

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I'll respond with what I was going to say before I read your ad.

They wiggled the bait. You didn't bite. Quite sensibly, you walked away unscathed. (Except for feeling that you were somehow cheated enough to post about it.

If you have no interest in the extracurricular activities these gals are offering, just politely decline and suggest that a simple session of a certain time limit is what you seek.

The traditional bait and switch is usually used in the context of fake photos or older photos. I do, however, understand what you mean. Correct me if I am wrong...

You paid full MSRP for an overnight. Ugh...fuck...ugh.

What do you expect out of a girl in her Teens or early 20's....Hello! What do you expect, with age comes wisdom It's like expecting an intellectual conversation with an 18 year old. Come on guys, you want to f*ck with young young girls you get what you deserve let's be for real now. You can't complain about that, it's ludicrous.  What are you expecting scholars?  Most(not all) of these girls haven't set foot in a classroom, they know what college is because they've seen the commercials, however, you expect them to have a business mind and not try to get the most for the least.  

Right now, it's Appleby's.

I suppose you are right with that. Applebees after going to Peter Luggers I wouldn't set foot in Applebees not even if I was getting paid, lol

What I am trying to do is draw a parallel between my experience and the scammed sugar baby thread several posts below.

our logic applied to this thread:

that they switched vendors.

...and did not, under any circumstances, have to interact with those providers after your arranged upon and paid-for time was completed. Nor were they under any obligation to see you after the initial first date.  

I never said that it was considered raped on the SB thread, let's established that first hand. Secondly that makes no sense as you know what you were getting yourself into. She charges a rate that's the rate, she tells you dinner and lets go here and there that's fine but did she specify it was free that's the question?  

the whole age thing. I can not for the life of me understand what goes through a man's head when talking about responsibilities and business with a 20 and under year old. Female or Male provider/client, it doesn't apply. It's like expecting a turtle to win the Kentucky derby I just don't understand the mentality.  

It took me a minute to actually figure out what the hell you were actually complaining about.  

our reasoning applied to this situation:

will respectfully disagree.

Just whatever you do, DO NOT eat the food. The only restaurant food besides fast food that I can think of that is any worse than Applebee's is Buffalo Wild Wings. EVERYTHING in there tastes like it was microwaved. Microwave ovens are very useful for doing many things, actually cooking something is not one of them.

n my case, I didn't receive what I thought I was going to receive. Didn't get the experience that I feel was promised or agreed upon as part of the deal.

ou see a very clear difference here. You're looking at this as a simple agreement. Guy pays girl for sex. He gets sex. She gets money. Both sides are happy. Done.

My advice to you my friend is to take things with a grain of salt. I wanted to spend OTC time with my first regular ever (Before he turned me off completely with a remark he made, but that's a different story) you know how many times i told him 3x, I offered him an overnighter FREE OF CHARGE 3X (Never again will I do that)  when he texted me I answered back ASAP, when he wanted to meet me at a bar for an encounter I showed up an hour earlier OTC and didn't tell him, those are the best surprises. Told him when I was there and his face lit up because he already knew. So basically, what I'm saying is when a woman that is truly interested in you not only in your returning business but in spending time with tells you she wants  you to spend the night or she wants to fly with you somewhere... she will let you know. Trust me you will know it. She will go out of her way to tell you , to write you, to text you. The minute you text her she will throw hints, let's just say you will know it. So don't ever let this situation happen to you again just because a provider makes a passive remark. It's okay, we all learn our lessons the hard way God knows I have.

Forgetting legality for just a second, the dirtbag had an agreement for a certain amount of BCD for a set amount of money, and just like a dine and dasher he reneged on that agreement.

and yes, with enough tequila virtually anything looks appetizing.

Don't go to the zoo with GaG.

The same as some hookers are constantly having issues with their johns and others seem to quietly and happily go about their lives without any of the constant drama that surrounds some people.

We can call it “Rhesus Pieces”

With the oil market tanking, he may look to primates for money.

you compare two situations which is just like comparing apples with oranges.  Yes, they both fall in the fruit category...........BUT.........

Love Peter Luger's.  Best steak ever!!

what jayda said X 100.

what gag said X 100

what alyson said X 100

well guys (or girls, sorry) i disagree on the 20 year olds generalization.  last month i had one of the sexiest most fun times i ever had with a 22 year old blonde girl touring from the bay area.  during our down time we had plenty to talk about (i used to live in sf) about la and the bay area and life in general (i try to keep up w/music & trends even tho i'm an old fogie 62 year old, i'm a writer & comic so i need to be on top of things...although during this particular juncture she was on top of me).

unless the providers led you to believe that the dinner, ice skating, vacation etc were all part of the package BEFORE the date.  It doesn't seem like that is the case in your situation and therefore, you are comparing apples to oranges.  

You make a good point and I agree.

If a guy in an arrangement site is for real or not.

I love you. Meow

ook, I agree that my situation isn't entirely the same as getting scammed out of $500 bucks. But in a sugar baby situation, you pay the girl for both sex AND companionship. Some SB/SD's never even have sex for various reasons. And if she doesn't deliver on the companionship part, then it is him who got ripped off. And if he doesn't deliver on the money end, then it was she who got ripped off.

Just make sure it wasn't sacrificed to Satan.

Bait and switch = Scam Not wanting to pay for services is another story.