How different are they?

One of the post below essentially was asking: if you had a good GF, would you still need good GFE?

A girlfriend is worth a lot more than gfe.

It's completely completely different. A girlfriend is with you because they want to be. Having gfe just means you're paying someone to fuck you.

The GF you pay to keep, baggage and all.
I have always had GF's and wives, but you just can't beat a good GFE.

sucking your dick if you give her what she wants and marry her.

Whereas, the GFE will never want to marry you, and will always want to suck your dick.

... before she got sick, my wife was more of a sex goddess after marriage than before -- and she preferred oral to intercourse. She'd give me a "sampler" in the morning just to make sure I was in a hurry to get home after work.

In fact, there wasn't a single thing on any provider menu she wasn't up for. We even worked through the Kama Sutra together. She was submissive and liked to be tied up and teased with daty.

A good wife is the all-time superior "gfe."

As for girlfriends -- well, I've only had about 20; and over half were really into sex. Some even got straight to sex so fast it was a tad scary. These were usually incredible GFEs. I had one that would come over buck-naked under a long coat and couldn't wait to have sex in any and every way imaginable. Another, when I first went back to her place, pulled a huge box of toys out from under the bed and said "Let's have some fun!" Another -- a very proper bank VP -- loved doing it in elevators and parking garages. Girlfriends can give a great GFE.

The other half weren't so big on sex, but very worthwhile in other respects. Sex isn't everything.

and your paying her a lot more...lol...however we don't cum with baggage...just Fun and pleasure...and You also pay us a lot less and we Will always give You what You want

yeah but providers are short term. You have a great couple of hours, and then you go home lonely. I would vote GF over GFE everyday.

I've got one girlfriend in mind ... and I'm thinking of one weekend.

She went with me to America's Stonehenge Saturday morning and even paid her own way; we went back to her place and she made me lunch. Then we adjourned and I went home to prepare the evening meal. She showed up, we ate and then went to see, I think, City of Angels. Then we came back to my place, got cleaned up and had plenty of sex.

Sunday morning, she cleaned up the kitchen before I awoke. Came back and gave me a nice wakeup call. Then we took the T in to visit the Museum of Fine Art. Then we ate our packed lunch, walked around Boston for a bit and chatted, and went to a little carnival down by the docks. Then, I took her to dinner. But she paid because I had paid for the Museum tickets. We took the T back out to my place and we had sex for a good three hours. Then she had to go home because her work was closer to her place than mine.

My total net cost for the weekend? Probably $150.

There were 5-6 hours of excellent sex with a woman I knew WANTED to be there; untold hours of companionship, etc. Lessee ... say 6 hours of sex, and a total of 40 hours of companionship including a sleepover. For $150. Providers simply can't compete with that.

For a while, I was working in Long Island and just coming back to my place on weekends. She'd fly out on Wednesdays just to have sex so I wouldn't have to go a whole week without. It only cost me the gas to pick her up at the airport and maybe dinner if she wasn't too horny.

I'm sorry, a girlfriend, if she isn't a shrew or something, is an incredibly good deal. Plus there's genuine bidirectional emotion there.

Providers definitely serve a very worthwhile purpose -- though that purpose for every client is a little different. But they really aren't a full replacement for a girlfriend or wife, IMO. They won't usually bring you chicken soup when you are sick. For some, they may be close enough, though.

But, remember, a GFE is an IMITATION of a Girlfriend. But the Girlfriend is the real deal.

1. BBFS (+5 points)
2. Almost constant bitching about trivial shit (-25 points)

GFE wins by 20 points.

For both i get the tab but with a gf you know shes there because she loves you. GFE she there because its her job. But with GFE you dont have to worry about her saying ewwwww if you ask for cim. With a GF shes gonna say ewwww for cim, rim, and swallow. But both gf and gfe both cost to have.

All these wonderful things did not just happen.  You had plenty to offer to the Lady and most likely had invested as much into relationship as she did.

Not everything we do can be measured in dollars.

Good GFE is the closest experience to what you have described with least amount of emotional and financial investment on part of a man.

And THAT is what men are paying for.

Lina

As a bonafide GFE who never wants to enter the GF world again, I am amazed by and grateful for the women out there who can stand to be in a relationship with men.  
As an escort, I love the thrill, the sex, the multiple partners, meeting new men, testing out new positions, new places for dinner or entertainment.  Love the nice full envelope as well.  Keeps things neat and tidy, no lines crossed.

But I honestly don't think you could pay me enough to listen to your problems at the job, or financial woes, or meet your families, get along with your moms, clean up after your skid marks, and the sinks after you shave, deal with your jealousies and insecurities.. oh ick ick ick...

That's what your girlfriends or wives are for and thank God you have them.  Oh I'm there with you because I WANT to be there.... for the hour or two I truly enjoy your company and definitely enjoy the sex...  
But as someone said, don't expect me to come and pick you up if your car is broken down.  And believe me, I won't call you if mine breaks down.

I say, there is nothing better than a long term girlfriend or wife who loves you despite your... maleness...

and a temporary GFE on the side for all the fun stuff.

there are pro's and con's to both.  If by a good girlfriend you mean one that is sexually open minded, and you can get along with her, then I wouldn't need the GFE thingy.  However, as a relationship wears on, and you get to see the worst of each other, things always deteriorate.
With a GFE, both you and her are different people.  You don't show your bad side, and either does she.  It's a fairytale encounter.  With a girlfriend, if you have a really good time and don't want to leave, normally you don't have to.
With a GFE, when the bell rings it's done...unless you want to pay to extend it.

Given the chance with a REALLY good GF, I would most likely not hobby. BUT since that's not likely to happen......PLAY BALL!!!!

Well, I consider myself a well sired male. Many SO's.

I've recently had my first provider experience. I was raised and taught to be respectful to women. That extends to having to be the "performer" in intimate situations.

I never, in my life, have ever enjoyed the leisure of an incredible woman spending the better part of an hour fellating me. All the while apparently enjoying pleasuring me.

Blissful torture.

Not all men are like that dear!

One you pay for and the other you get paid for.

Except with a GF, you don't get the paycheck, just occasionaly fringe benefits.

You're right. In that particular case I had a great deal of time and effort invested in the lady; and she was, for all practical purposes, treated like a true princess in all the important ways. This makes sense, after all. What you put forth -- you get back. And she gave back.

But I have to say that I really draw a big distinction between someone like you and my typical escort experience. Frankly, the two aren't even on the same planet. LOL So the thoughts I have that pertain to escorts generally don't apply in the cases of those ladies with skill like yours.

but each to their own. If you feel lonely because what you get from a GFE isn't "real" maybe you should stop hobbying and get a girlfriend.

Some of us don't feel the same way. I don't want a girlfriend, I like to fuck a different woman every day if I feel like it. If I get lonely, I"ll buy a fucking dog.

Hey dblhappy, does this sound more like the GaGambler you know? ll

-- Modified on 9/1/2009 8:36:39 AM

Well not really LOL

But on serious note. The concept of you get what you give applies in many areas of life.

It takes a lot of time and effort on the part of escort and willingness on part of the client for truly unforgettable Courtesan / GFE experience to transpire

Simple screening is not enough for something of this kind. Both parties have to invest in pre meeting communication so the escort can tailor session to particular cleit's needs and desires.

Xoxo

Lina

The night that I go home lonely, well, that's just a lady I'll never see again. If you're going home lonely, you're seeing the wrong woman.

"Hey dblhappy, does this sound more like the GaGambler you know?"

Whew!  Thank you.

I thought aliens had stolen your body and left this shell-of-a-pod-of-a-zombie in your place.  Glad to see you back and as abrasive as ever!

Final Test Question:  How do you feel about being demanded to leave the money in an envelope?

Did I pass??? lol