Its been about 6 months since I actually had my last visit with a provider. Before my budget was limiting factor, but these days I am spending $1K to $2K month on non P4P hobbies. Could be reallocated to P4P related activities if I felt like seeing a lady.

However, the last few visits didn't quite live to my fantasy. I had VIP back then and found some fairly well reviewed escorts, most of the sessions were 'OK'. Though it lacked the spontaneous or 'real GFE' feel. It usually seems too planned and I could tell providers were rushing for the next visit or had just finish another customer before me. And often enough they did not look as hot as they were trump up to be, I know civvie girls who are hotter than the 16 or so providers I have seen.

I still have interest to give it one more try. Maybe set dinner date or overnight with a high end escort, which should have higher chance of turning out great. Anyone got any suggestion on what I should try out or do?

Send me your extra hobby money since you don't need it.

all the work, ya gotta put some effort into it. Have you done role playing? Like try pretending like she's interviewing for a job, you could choose the setting to be anywhere (starbucks, hotel lobby).
 Once one of my regs picked me up for lunch & I practiced some of my skills on him while we were driving, then we saw a condominum developement being built, there were several buildings with only 2 sides up & a few walls, so we decided to get out & act like a cpl coming to check on our purchase. We found one without any workers in it & went on upstairs to check out wat room might be the master bedroom, he was very excited & finished really quick when I gave him a bj, I felt like I shorted him by not giving him the romantic atmosphere of lit candles, soft bed, & me in my lingere...I was wrong, he loved it & felt it was one of our best times....
Sex is just sex especially if your going frm one lady to the next....I dnt watch the clock with my friends (altho I expect them not to take advantage) & the more we see each other the more we kno about each other's bodies & we feel more comfortable to share & try new things ....
Get creative, make it about something more than jus a physical act with a different person.

Welp ya did ask for suggestions, I hope the info helpd.
Go try something new & exciting
   

Scripted , and not "real" so you've realized that your at a point in your life where your looking for something else. Did u sign up for this for life ? Do other things , find what makes u happy and spend time here flirting , when u click with the right lady make a move . Don't know what other hobbies u do but maybe you needed some guy time . Just have fun , whatever that is for you. Good luck.  

Without the desire, the money is a waste.

With desire, the body will make the mind find a way.

You should look for a pattern of consistent performance ratings, and I don't mean just the numbers...I've seen 10s being given for nothing but a damn hand job!

Review my reviews and you will see that I hobbied frequently in years past (more than are listed, but you will get the concept).  And for ALL the reasons you cite, and two more I left the hobby.  But to get my kicks, I went into stripper land.  The thrill of having sex in the champagne court, convincing them to see me out side of the club... having 2 or 3 from the same club... all that leads to excitement.

so yea, it  happens, my question is the same as yours, within the hobby, what's a guy to do?  Dualthought is not alone.

Hey I'd rather get a hj from the hottest lady than fuck a fugly manhater ! And Devin deserved that ten ! .....r all u girls jealous ? xoxoxo

Call bryleigh !  

Pick better girls ! Read the reviews and stop looking at the pics !

And I always liked strip clubs and have a favorite , well several favorites. Also like casinos, cards and the action . The whole scene. Shows, dinners, pool, beaches and yes real encounters. Shit for 5k plus compts I'm a king for a week . IMHO to many girls in this just for $$$$$$s or to many who are not my type. I got to the point that I look for other things than the "best looking" ,an attitude , girl who really has goals, etc. But the 1 hr. Scripted crap , nope I pass. So add me to the list too. And no we r not alone. L8r .

I just bought a fishing pole in lieu of seeing a provider! I am finding the ladies are just not up for adventure anymore just a wam bam pay me mam

I have to be honest with you. You might see hotter girls all the time but none of them would set foot in a room with you naked and certainly not for nothing unless their total idiots. You need to remember, these are the women who are making themselves available for you for compensation, and there are all kinds for all kinds of people. By no means are these women claiming they're better than civie women, they're just saying for money you can get close to them. Most civie women probably wont. You can go back to the dating world, but don't expect those hotties to want to hang out with you for free, or even for money. They want waaay more than that and should. If you're not happy with who you choose, then stop and remind yourself how hard it would be to get with those same chicks without offering them money who you think aren't good enough for you. You guys forget sometimes, no one has to do this. This industry does not need to exist on the female side of things. We wont die or not get dates if you didn't hire us. Maybe some BP girls would but that's another story. The standards that are coming out from more educated women in the business should be appreciated, not nit picked to death. If you don't want to hire chicks anymore, don't.  
We could all go live in the gutter if we want to. We don't have to take your money. You are living with the luxury of having women make themselves available for your pleasure, we could all just quit anytime and all of you complainers would probably go to jail for rape, lol.

You are just burned out.  Providers offer a fantasy of a willing partner who wants you.  It's like a movie - the willing suspension of disbelief. Sometimes reality crashes in and you see it for what it is. So that's when you take a break.  Sooner or later life and testosterone hit the reset and you will be ready to go.

..dualthought, you're in the wrong city. Most of the best hotties are in the LosAngeles or NewYork area. A lot of international hotties also visit NYC and LA/Hollywood/ Las Vegas.

www.city-source.com
www.theluxurycompanion.com
www. belldujoir.co

That's why God gave me an imagination and my right hand. So I can bridge the gap between the real thing, even if that gap becomes indefinite. More to life than just pussy. Maybe not much more, but there are plenty of things I enjoy that I would not risk my freedom over forcing the issue with pussy by committing rape. You ladies have a lot of power, but it ain't absolute baby.

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