Ok I see providers often but recently went to a popular big strip club which had a million chicks there I only went there to hang out with a former hobbits who was 51 of age an I'm 28 I went there with 300.00 I never drink or smoke in my life why do all the women hang onto the older gentlemen for ?? An hang with like one Particular guy all night smoking & drinking --- I never understood that,  in the past times that I went to a strip club always went with $300-500 but what are the older dudes doing vs me ? An what about the 51 year old guy who claimed he banged the one hot 20 year old for 250.00 at a outcall location but didn't want to give advise out cause he had to leave an said it would take 10hrs to explain everything an how it took him years to get girls out of the club.... I'm a handsome dude with money to but why do the older men get more of the action???? Also how do you even ask a girl out of the club without coming off so blunt or kicked out?? Providers are the way to go but is it worth trying the clubs at all

My guess is they don't want to blow off a regular guy who is in there 3 times a week spending what you do in only one night, or they assume because you're younger, you don't have as much money. I can't imagine them turning down a VIP dance with you, to do nothing but drink, so try that approach. SHOW them you have money.

If I were a seasoned member of this forum, I'd suggest he knows the tricks of using the uppermost keys and the return key on his keyboard. I'm not a seasoned member, though, so I won't suggest that.

Not blowing a lot of money is important. There is a pick-up communIty subculture particularly for banging strippers.

Seriously, though, I dated a dancer when I was in my 20's. I approached her at the bar as I would have any other young lady. She told me about the other girls and why they saw men from the club, and there was no pattern. In her case she just liked collecting admirers. "Her boys", as she called them. Like notches on a belt Prior to being a dancer, she'd been a groupie for a fairly well-known rock guitarist, so she was definitely into sex, albeit a different niche than most.

He was also a glutton for punishment, but if that's your thing go for it.

the last 3-4000 days and you will read the BSD saga.  Except for the 10 year absence during my marriage, I've frequented strip clubs on and off since 1966 and in a variety of cities including tuscon, Indianapolis, Houston, New orleans, Atlanta, NYC, Philadelphia, San francisco, Kansas city (MO and KS), Seattle, NJ, Washington DC, Baltimore, vegas babie, vagas and many others (including london England).  There are some truths out there, first strip clubs have evolved over the years and second you do have to know the protocol.

My experiences include oral sex in the middle of a club, vaginal sex in the middle of a club, best BJ of all time in the champagne court. taken pictures of the ladies (nude) in the champagne court, sex in the champagne court, meeting stippers out of the club for dinner, Nude photography, going to a ball game, going to movies, plays and amusement parks, sex as a civie, and sex as a provider escort, and sex as something in between.  In sum, just about everything and I've had "interesting experiences" including being robbed after being drugged, as well as having had a beautiful stripper (human) I met and fell in love with, commit suicide.

On one occasion I had one stripper come over, I did not know she was only 19!  During our session, her dad called her!  chilled me! but she was cool with it.  Last thing I need is some angry dad storming the BSD Castle demanding the virtue of his princess.

So, what is it you wanted to know?  Oh yea, why do da gals hang with a dude who is older and seems to be spending NO ($0) dollars for her time and affection?  Easy, he is a regular.  And da gals, dey know that this dude will spend money on them over the long haul.  So while they may not do a champagne court tonight, on some nights they will spend multiple hours in the CC.  And, the dude will give her an easy $100 to sit there with him for an hour or two to listen to his lame brain jokes and dreams of empire.  In short she pockets the entire $100 as profit, but if she does a CC or a lap dance, she splits the fee with the house.  This is only one scenario.... mine is similar, but with some twists.

I don't wish to sit and swap gossip, I want the gal to grab my penis, nibble my nips, and let me play with her - even give her a "lap" dance (I lap her v-j-j!).   So, I will ask a lady who grabs my eye for a lap dance initially.  While in the lap dance mode, I will wait for her to make a move, if none is coming, i will let me hands wander.... with the statment "I'm a bad boy" being well over 60, that is tolerated but the response I get lets me know if she is a bad gal!  If she is a goody too shoes, I politely say goodby after a song or two, but if she is like me... we head to the champagne court.  If she starts talking, we are done but if things heat up, well, that is another story.

I carry condoms with me for obvious reasons.... This help, if not message me.  There's more, there's oh so much more..... For real fun and excitement take a pornstar to a strip club.  watch the managment have a fit....  yea!  For the most part, I have to agree with your friend it would take 10 hours to explain, and that is with non-stop talking and a couple of pictures thrown into the mix.

This is not for everyone.... why do I do this (i've obviously hobbied) I think it is the thrill of the hunt, you have to know which will participate, and how to approach - some are GF potential, while some are GFE potential... while some are dangerous.

Most will go home for cash, some will go home for substances, and a few will go home if they like you.

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True, it had been several years since I had seen her as a provider, but during her dance on stage, I tipped her, and afterwards we retired to the couch dance room... There she said "don't you recognize me?"  To be truthful about it - she was better looking than I had remembered... from there, things got interesting! lol

If the object is to find good and satisfying sexual experiences, stick to well reviewed escorts.

Trying to find good sex at a strip club seems like trying to find good food on a roach coach.  It may be there, but who wants to take the risk?

I suppose the razzle-dazzle of the places may appeal to some innate instinct.  I've been in them myself, but it just wasn't my thing.

When a lady approaches me for a dance, I will tell her that while I find her absolutely beautiful, but t I'm really looking for someone who would like to leave with me. You'd be amazed the after a short conversation,many of them will suggest a couple of dances for her to get  comfortable with me. If it takes more than a couple of dances to negotiate I move on. Amazing how easy it can be. Doesn't work all the time.

She used me to put her through college and to raise her illegitimate child.

I do miss that little girl. I hear she followed her mothers footsteps......in every way.

Just 4F 'em. That's all they're good for.

I know i want a provider who is "fresh" for the kind of cash being thrown.
What about strippers?  Aren't they too busy for a quick run & douche?

I no longer to the back rooms but love the scenery and the bartenders. LO

For making me horny so that I either go home and diddle the SO or call up a real provider.

Only twice have I had a stripper put my dick in her mouth in a club (both times I stopped after I realized what the f*ck I was doing) and only about 6 times has a dancer let me put my fingers or tongue in her privates.  A couple gave me their numbers but I quit calling after a couple of tries.

Otherwise I've learned to never use the ATM in a strip club--spend what you came with and then go home.  I go to a strip club to see hot women expose themselves close up. I go elsewhere to get laid.

our meeting such that I am the first client that they see that night so they are minty fresh for me!

It's pretty simple, that dude is in there all the time and spreads the wealth. Your 300-500 is an hour VIP since you're not a drinker. That dude probably drops 3 to 5K when he goes in. Despite what all the "  hobbyist " on here think it all comes out in the wash and that guy with the dancers has boned everyone of them.

Last, a geek is a geek dude and it doesn't matter how much you spend or what cologne you wear . You can't help it so stick to this.

I always wondered how that worked but my boyfriend and I went to a strip club last week. We got several dances from one girl in particular. As we were leaving my boyfriend said to her "You should come with us". She gave me her number and said to call her when we want to hang out.  

So basically what you need to do is when the girl goes on stage, go tip her and tell her to come give you a lap dance after she gets off stage. Then get several dances from her and maybe buy her a drink. Then you can casually drop that you'd like to see her outside the club.

That's exactly what a friend did in Vegas.  We were already with two hot strippers who also provide, which probably didn't hurt.