I don't know if providers think low light is sexy (maybe so they can't see us LOL) but c'mon man. We are paying for it and it would be nice to see the goods. I hate it if I have to squint when the door opens and when my eyes adjust to the low light I'm looking for the door. And the envelope is gone!

but I hate the glare from bed-side lamps, so those go off.

Making love in the day with the privacy shade down, but the opaque shade up gives nice diffuse light.

At night, multiple candles can provide enough light so we can see each other, or the entry-way and/or bathroom light usually tend to fill the room with enough light.

She was trying to set the mood.
But I can't see.. So after I stepped on her foot, and bumped heads..
She turned the lights on.

one of my newbie experiences was the lady had the lights so low that I could hardly see. Once my eyes adjusted she was at least 10 years older and much well ridden than her pics.

i always go with the provider's wishes..some love dim lights and candles..others dont..as long as i have enough light to find the right hole in doggie..i am good to go..

Don't let loose of the envelope until you are certain that you are as happy with the lady who answers the door as you were with the woman in the pics.

I know some women insist that a client drop the envelope within the first few seconds of entering the room, But since it's my money, I don't let loose of it until I am satisfied that there has been no B&S, not to mention the fact that a bad attitude which includes pressing me unduly for the "envelope" will have me headed right back out the door without leaving a penny.

but yeah, I do agree with your point.

As you said, I am paying and I select ladies that I like the looks of, so I want to look at them. On the other hand I'm sure they don't want to look at me.

Agree 110% with not dropping a nickel till I make sure she is who I thought she was.

Candles and those red light bulbs you can exchange for that horrible light hotel lamps have, always works fine with me. I want the person to see me, but I am not going in for a GYN exam. If the provider is not comfortable, your date is not going to be all that great. I can't be at my best sexually when I am blinded by a fkin lamp right above my head.

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That might be fun  

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but yeah, BUSTED, I did say envelope.

I would try to lie about it, but the post is right there for everyone to see. So I repeat "Fuck both of You" lol

And you don't need to use an envelope with me.

Was a direct response to the OP's comment about losing the "envelope" by the time his eyes adjusted to the light.

and yes, although I did use the word envelope three times, the one time I mentioned it in a sentence about something "I" would do, I did put in in quotes. Yep, that's my story and I'm sticking to it. lol

Im a pro.

something like this happening once before lol  

Me too....lol.
Feels good to be well. ( again

Could not be happier you are feeling better.

A hotel room in a high rise hotel with the window shades wide open.  I do a lot of traveling for work, and I stick to one hotel chain as much as possible.  I am in the top tier of their rewards program, and my customer profile lists my preference for high floors.  I usually get a room at or near the top.  I love having a nice view out of the window, and I dig having the window shade open.  

After all, when the light is off, anything can happen...

I've never been asked to turn UP the lights, but I have been asked to turn them DOWN.  I get sad when that happens.  I like SEEING everything!

There should be light, right? ...   I personally think that the bright sunlight with transparent curtains is too much though! Something in between darkness and daylight is sexy, inviting and relaxing at the same time...

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I prefer the room to be lit up enough to see everything yet dim enough to set a good mood. I once had a provider who was quite wild and opened the curtains to let in more light. Yes we were on the 1st floor but I was having such a good time, I didn't care lol.

Together with soft background music, candles, some nice wine.
Just like dining in a fine restaurant!
Lights off except for just enough from the bathroom or hallway.

and his stalking of providers?

Because I think he is a good guy and not one of the board dickheads. Simple enough?

Agreed. If I wanted sunlight, I would go tan or just fk outside. Again, not exactly my type of a relaxed mood when I have sunlight in my freaking eyes. Pretty soon, I am blinded and can't see shit with that much direct light in my face. 2 lamps on, with red silk scarves tossed over, and candles does the trick. Looks like a brothel lol.

The moonlight and city lights plus candles, hearing the waves crash in, seagulls going nuts...ah, nothing beats it!

I try to set it somewhat dim, with the scarves, candles, etc. I bought an incandescent bulb to replace the fluorescent ones that are in the hotels, but keep forgetting to bring it with me. Lol!! But I sometimes use a beach front hotel and love the perfect lighting of the sunset or even the morning light. I do love light too.

Those red bulbs you get at Lowes, are awesome!!! Air travel is hard, but if you drive, perfect setting.  You use red bulbs with a white scarf, or white bulbs with red ones. It gives the room a pinkish tint vs. blood red lol.

a chic can only give you a great tine if she feels sexy who the hell wants strobe lighting on therefore giving you a shit time. Never met one female in my life who likes sex under 900 mega watt lighting may as well do porn films.

With balls, the worst is guys who go write how angry they are but they still do it instead sayin hmm, sorry your not chic in pics, why do it if its gonna suck . Most ladies r three Hun min, I know I wouldn't throw money like around if I wasn't happy with product,