I've found that having my own FC's is one way to make sure you get to use them. They are expensive compared to regular condoms so many providers don't always have them. You can buy them from Amazon if you can't find them locally.  
 

feel free being yourself and simply ask if she is a FC expert / enthusiast / friendly. Pick one.

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When ladies say don't talk about sex or money, I believe that is for when you first call or email and have not hen been screened by them.  Once you have been screened you should be able to say/ask anything you want.

Then see how she responds.  Since you've met a couple of times, she might be ok with that sort of question.  

No that is not right. Anything can happen to you since the last time of meeting that said provider, there is absolutely no way of knowing you are just as safe as you were at the last meeting. I once met a very reputable provider who told me this exact thing, never discuss sex ever in emails phone calls and texts, always discuss in person once your comfortable that everything is fine. She told me a story of a longtime client of 10+ years who had gotten busted in a sting  and was now cooperating with authorities to save his own behind and they went after her. Long story short, she was arrested once she got to the hotel room and all because she didn't recognize  the red flags in his emails when he started talking about and referencing sexual activities. Us providers are taking a big risk in this chosen field, but the biggest part of our job is not only keeping ourselves safe as much as possible but keeping our clients safe as well. Yes there is risk in everything we do in life but as adults we must limit as much risk as humanly possible. My suggestion would be to just bring your own female condom and once you arrive and things get comfortable mention that you seen something online that stated she is female condom friendly and if so you would definetly like to explore that.  I hope this helps someone, I have a feeling it's saved my behind a time or two!

some (many) mean no talk about either until we meet in person. Some are happy to dirty talk and all that jazz as build up to a date and others will cancel if you even remotely mention "roses"...so it's probably best to err on the side of caution. It can all be construed as a lack of discretion.

just ask and you will receive..

A simple request, even for a specific service, shouldn't be off-limits...at least, it wouldn't be for me.  

nice post  

Agreed. After the first meeting( given everything went well) with somebody, communication can be more direct. It is with me anyways, as long as it isn't disrespectful, disrespect is never ok. A simple request like shouldn't be a problem.

Around that if you're too nervous, is to get a box of them, (sex stores sell them,) don't open the box, and offer when you get there... Or gently ask.

Hold her accountable to a menu. "Your profile says, so please have it" may put a bad taste in her mouth. So if you ask her, completely wipe away the TER profile, but ask "do you use FC2's," if she's willing, now she is positively accommodating you at her wishes. Makes for good rapport before a date too.

engagement. That will let her know you want them. I'm one of those ladies who is NEVER ok with any sexy talk at all via any communication, even if we've known each other for years. Once in person and behind closed doors, I'm happy to talk as dirty as you want me to. I also use only FCs.  

I just discovered this fantastic little invention & have plenty in stock for future use! Thou my question is how many hobbyists out there would prefer this style of protection vs using a traditional sleeve? I am sure there are pro & cons to both methods for guys & gals but since this product has been gaining popularity, is it then safe to assume that more likely than not it would be their preference?

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when they enter me with those. I exclusively use them, and have only once had someone say that they prefer the other. I know for myself, I prefer the feeling- you can feel every contour and all the texture of your partner. I adore them! The only problem is that my naturally juicy self is rendered irrelevant. I now have to stock up on lube whereas before, I never, ever needed it. So It's more of an investment for me- they average $3 apiece, plus lube, but they are just so superior in so many ways that I can't imagine using anything else unless someone specifically requested that I do.

Thanks, thats good to know.. I just started using them and i like that unless i know a guy is gonna be into DATY i can usually get away with wearing it when i arrive to meet my dates.. I didnt realize how expensive they were.. I dont know if its a secret or not if they are only available at specific locations but i can get them from my local health care clinic at no charge.. They dont have them sitting on the counter with the other styles but i was provided with more than a handful of them by just asking the employee behind the desk.