Dildo’s, cock rings, kinky dice, floggers, butt plugs, etc. I always have a goody bag just in case an individual is seeking more, than a vanilla encounter. If you love sex toys, do ask the provider before the date? I realize many are shy & do not share their desires when booking. Adult fun should not be limited to ordinary.

your toy box, you should explain to the ladies and gents here what sterilization steps you go through to insure you are not transferring diseases from one customer to another.  I've heard of people using a dishwasher in order to get high temps, but it seems that might melt some of the materials that toys are made from, so what do you do to make sure that there is zero tolerance for any chance of contamination from one customer to the next.  For me, that should the first step to using  
 the same toys with multiple people.  I'm anxious to hear about your protocols as an expert.  

About her bringing or me bringing toys.I wanna get a feel after we meet to gauge her possible interest. I usually have a small butt plug, and a dildo just incase if all is going well. Then when I get a feel that she could be game, I'll intro her to my gadgets. But the intro is done in a very innocent playful manner after we're done with out intimate first encounters.
What's cool is that on our seconds dates, most chicks wip out their goodie bag, And that shit is usually off the charts..Big Ol 12' BC....lol

When I see a duo, I love to see them use a strapon with each other. But on a first date, I find myself being euphimistic to the point of abstraction. 9 out of 10 times they get it.
After that, a gentle reminder is all that's needed.

Or this thread will go off the rails once we get into this whole health protocol thing. The health aspect will come in time and on a side bar.
Chill out and lighten up man.

I have met providers that did not know much about keeping their toys clean that are being used on multiple customers.  She's an expert, because she was a Domme before she was an escort, and cleanliness is a subject that is important to the use of toys, so while you may not be concerned about sterilization, I think that are others who are.  It's not an easy subject to bring up, but I'm not shy.   Consider mine the first post for the "side-bar" thread you seem to agree is appropriate.   You're welcome.  

Big fan. I enjoy all aspects of playtime.

You'll have your audience and I'm sure they'll appreciate your vast Knowledge based on the Millions of ladies you've seen.There you can explain to the class on the proper method on how to sanitize a dildo. Hazmat suit vs Dishwasher, Kaboom vs Mister Clean....lol
I'll give you the last word.

It's perfect legit for CDL to post about this aspect of the issue. Playing Board Cop isn't your best look. LOL.

I'm not an expert on toy cleaning, but I assume as a Domme, she is. That's why I asked HER what she does to clean them.  Are you turning into one of those board Nazis that try to tell other people when and where to post and what topics they can and can't talk about?  It seems YOU are the one that needs a chill pill.  Why is it that you think safety is not an appropriate topic when toys are being discussed?  Do you just wipe yours off on the curtain and throw it in the drawer, or what?  Lol     If you already have anal warts then it probably doesn't matter to you, and that would explain your dismissive tone about safety.  

playing with her toys on her if she wants.

I have no issue with discussing your desires prior to playtime after you’ve been vetted. Many people do not have another opportunity to meet. Waiting until the second sessions would be cheating yourself of the maximum fun the first time. Proper planning prevents poor performance. I like to be prepared to fulfill any fantasies one may have during the time booked. I take clothing, hair, make-up & nail requests because I want to make the best impression possible during our first encounter.

answer.  No need to get defensive and add the sarcasm in the last sentence. To answer YOUR question. . . . .

Especially the last sentence...how apropos...really made me laugh, I could see it now...lol

I do the same. Condoms on all the toys and then I spray them with a disinfectant toy cleaner.

Once, I brought a dildo to a session, still in its original pkg, and it never got used. While she was examining it, she took out a condom to place on it, and that, for whatever reason, took the fun out of it for me. She's my ATF... still (saw her last night!), but I wouldn't want any of you to use something if you were concerned it wasn't sanitary. It was a waste of $50, but I don't regret putting it back in the bag and getting down to some good fucking. Finger licking good.  
 
You have a way with words. Loved your last sentence.

Many consumer goods should be cleaned or washed before use. Most stores sell towels (hand towels, bath towels) "loose" without packaging. They have been handled and mishandled by all sorts of people, maybe even a TER member, after an appointment and he didn't shower so he's wiping his cum covered hands on the towels. Or maybe some snot nosed kid wiped his snot on it. If you buy some towels, WASH THE TOWELS BEFORE USE!  
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Even packaged goods (bed sheets; BVDs, toys, ...) might not be sanitary and some people wash their shorts before first use. You can find youtubes about how some consumer goods are made and packaged. It isn't exactly done in a NASA Clean Room with FDA sanitary certification.
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In addition, some manufactured goods are shipped with coatings or they are leaching additives until they start to get used, e.g., oil or talc. Some new silicone goods have a greasy feeling until washed. Some goods (plastic or cloth or metal; packaged or loose; this or that) have a weird odor, maybe of bug spray or other pest control substance or anti-rust goop or a sanitation residue that is SUPPOSED to be washed off before use.  
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Even if I'm freshly washed and packaged, I can pick up a sweaty residue during shipping so she even makes ME take a shower before use!

In all honesty, it was interesting. However, and this is not directed at you, it's crazy how many people don't read what is written and reply with snark anyways, like the alien chick who responded to me above. Don't expect me to address something that is pure BS, just words put in my mouth.  
 
If I'm not turned on by a condom-wrapped dildo, I'm just not turned on by it. If my companion wants to use it for her own purposes, condom and all, have at it!! I'll eagerly watch while I fuck her and enjoy the sights and sounds of her self-stim. There is *nothing,* absolutely nothing in this world as sexually stimulating to me as a woman who's turned on. If I'm not hard leading up to it, when she starts to O my dick turns to granite. If a condom-covered dildo turns her on, great. If it doesn't, that's good to know. End of discussion, I would think.
 
Re: your last line, I always tell a girl that I showered right before I left the house (because I did). It's then 50/50 whether a k-girl will ask me to shower again -- the C-girls almost never do. In fact, I can't remember the last one who asked me to shower first. Afterwards?... they always offer a shower afterwards. I hate having it burn my time on the front end, especially with k-girls. But I usually go for an hour, so it's not going to kill me.

sensuous, soapy, wet playtime with some get acquainted, if it's the first time, DFK, P2P, B2B, BBBJ/HJ action, mutual wash be a time burner?
IMO, that's one of the best ways to get the session started!
Where it's more like a sexual massage with soap 'n' water than a wash down.
And why would the farewell shower be a time burner?
To me it's just all wet 'n' wild fore play or end play, but it's all playtime IMO!

To start, no providers ever asked me to take a shower afterward, it’s always just an option if there’s time left. In that way, the after shower is never a problem.
 
However, if you look at my post again, it’ll be obvious that what you described as your normal pre-event shower is nothing like my normal pre-event shower. LMAO.
 
With no shower at all, and between the discussion for setting up our session (which also serves as an icebreaker), I have run out of time with an hour reservation. And I still need to get dressed lol.