I'm a big guy... big as in "former power lifter and college linebacker football player" big. Of course I'm nearing 40 and I having been to the gym at years so I've put on a few lbs. Still the frame is there... 5'11" 56" chest, thick arms and back. Respectable sized member. I usually stick with BBW providers or providers who are 5'6" and taller and maybe a little thick. I've only been hobbying a little while. Because of my girth... I try avoid mish... just worried about my weight (I look 225... but weigh in at a crushing 280lb).

I'm curious from some of the shorter, petite providers on this board... does a guy's physical size intimidate you? There are a few providers... 4'-8" to 5-0" all weighing in at 95-110lbs I'd love to meet. Just worried about my size. If I were a woman I'd probably be borderline BBW... so I guess I'm a borderline BBM.

I also wonder how the ladies feel about being with a big man. I'm 6'4" and 230 lbs. I always give a brief physical description in my initial email contact with a provider. I love the spinner types, and so far all my sessions have gone well.

Personally, I like bigger guys, so you sound like 'my type' my type. I've always liked bigger things: my first car was a 72 Chevy Impala that I couldn't touch the pedal in without scooting up, and my first boyfriend was a 6'6 300lb bodybuilder (and the size myth not always true about taller/bigger guys. The biggest one I've ever seen was on a guy 5'3 130lbs.)

Big guys just make me wanna wrestle. I'm 5'2 140 lbs, and you don't scare me buddy!

Without saying we are very clean and smell good. This should be for all the ladies not just spinners. Inquireing minds need to know !!

I am a spinner that totally loves large, muscular, bodybuilder, football player type of men. Most of the men in my life are so the opposite of myself. I am always like a foot shorter and at least 120 lbs smaller then them.

Don't get me wrong I always provide everyone (thin, large) the same enjoyment when in my presence but I guess growing up and everyone that I attracted was larger than I and always assumed just because I was so small I couldn't hang I have found myself still trying to provide people wrong.

Kisses,
Ashley Sparks

There are ladies that are not impressed with my body type.  I am not fat but not impressive in body size either.  Personally I have met with ladies at 160 lbs and 250lbs (yea my weight varies) but your size or weight should make little to no difference if you choose a well reviewed provider.   Most providers do not have problems with guys that have a few extra pounds or are of are of a larger build.  I recommend letting them know up front any concerns you have so you can avoid any potential problems.  who says you have to be on top?
Doc

It's work fucking a fat smelly guy.  It's not a pleasure trip.

Since I began to date I've never dated anyone who was short. Me: 4'11 barefoot, 97.5lb 34B 22 33.
I enjoy a body builder type . As long as you know
how to do your push ups with those strong arms
no one will get squashed or injured. The best
in my opinion is a man with bulk muscle and a nice ass. But I still adore the rest but like some
men are breast men women have their favorites too.
Nice large hands, hard muscular arms, thick legs
and just the right tush for the push can never
be too much. You sound like a BFE ( boyfriend experience)

Just because you are big guy does not mean that you have to crush her. You can be as gentle as we fit guys are. You can even do mish without putting all of your weight on her. Proper positioning may be the key, depending on build.
I have a buddy who is probably of similar proportion to you. He does let the ladies know that he is a big guy, and does not seem to have any rejection problems.

I think their main concern is that the envelope is fat anyhow.

So I'm a taller girl, and not petite, but I have known a few larger guys. The trick is to NOT get stuck in just CG when you're worried about size, that gets old quickly. My personal favorite, (and apparent strong suite when it comes to my reviews) is doggie

I personally love a big guy, I guess it's the old stereotype of 'feeling safe'. I'm pretty sure my high school/college sweetheart has something to do with it, as he was a linebacker on the football team.

the OP said nothing of smell being a problem.
Doc

And your charm is why we will never meet.

6'2 @ 195

17" bicep 44" chest 35" waist 24" thigh 17" calf

bench 300 @ 10+ reps

Curl 100 @10+ reps

run sub 8 minute miles

Damn - and here I thought you were cute and was looking forward to meeting you one day .....

I'm a huge guy, 300 LBs at 6'2".  I now ALWAYS tell the lady I'm a big fella before I meet her, as one time when I got to the door the girl said "Oh geez, I'm sorry, I don't do fattys..."

My Samoan blood is obvious in my build, but with any lady I've ever actually been with, it has never been a problem!  I'm as gentle as a lamb with the ladies so even in mish, they get no weight from me.  If you can actually handle your size, so can they!

I LOVE spinners cuz you can pick them up with one hand under their little butts and eat them like a piece of fresh fruit!

im 5'3 100lbs i love bigger guys i wouldn't worry if i was you

Anyone so fortunate to find that they were *me* should appreciate themselves after all....

it is a gift of the goddess - I can't take any credit for it.  I merely appreciate the privelege of being me '

If more people did the same, they would not have such inferiority complexes as to be threatened or annoyed buy someone who is after all just another human being.....