gentlemen:  do you prefer a provider's incall to be at her own apartment or house or at a hotel or does it matter to you?   if it is at a hotel do you have a certain expectation of the type of hotel (middle of the road or upscale)?

If it's a hotel it does have to be fancy. The in call must be clean and in an area that I'm comfortable visiting .

Because you don't know how many guys she's seeing a day and, at an apt., it's more likely to draw unwanted attention.
If it's a hotel, I'm fine with a middle of the road place unless she's charging $500/hr. or more.  In which case I expect deluxe.

I would totally fuck in a back alley in a van. What a fantasy! I love looking at abandoned buildings and vans, etc. with that old mattress with hardly any springs in it that's so comfortable, lol. With a bunch of old blankets, (clean, lol,) and pillows and just going at it in a van with windows that have curtains.

for a $500/hr or 90 min provider, don't schedule in the middle of the day or she's spending all her money on two nights of valet and two nights at the hotel. And food. So she's lost money. Think beyond the $500/hr and hotel and look into all the expenses, INCLUDING clothing, make up, make overs, hair cuts, extensions, eyelashes, botox, lipo, gym memberships, condoms, lube, sex toys, lingerie, all the shit that makes her high end.

I don't think you're looking at the whole picture, Courtney.  Luxury hotels can be had for cheap if you know where and how to look.  I've seen gals at places like The Cosmo in Vegas and The Palace in Manhattan, both very upscale hotels.  The gals I saw there were top shelf and very experienced.  I guarantee you they were not losing any money.

I'm okay with a van in a back alley.  

That was fucking hilarious!  Thanks for the okeeffesque image of a spitting pussy I'll be carrying around in my head the rest of the day!

I agree, here. I'm at quite a bit less than 500/hr but my incall is always 3-star or above, typically 4-star. Priceline and Orbitz are my best friends, to the point that I can pay for two nights and still profit from one booking. So, I don't really think there's any excuse for a motel or Holiday Inn type environment. And there's ways around paying for more than one night if you really don't want/need to.

More than once I wound up getting to know the people in the building.
It's not good when you are on a first name basis with her landlord.
One time I met a girl in a park by her apartment...
When we went in her landlord was in the foyer, and she said hi to me, and not to her.
She knew who I was because I had helped her with her groceries a while back.
The provider was pretty pissed off...
I had been in her landlords apartment more than once. She really didn't like that..

So what you're saying is you'd never see me in that situation lol thanks

Yeah but does she swallow and take it up the ass???????

the key is to be discrete. It can be hard as a client to know how many clients are being seen a day, which isn't really my business, however it does comes into play at a home or apartment. The hotel expectation is somewhat driven by the donation.  The higher the donation than I expect a nice place.  

I would see you (and have seen you)... and based on your post about being so turned on by a van in a back alley, I would love to accommodate you in that regard.  

OIC. Thanks for clarifying lol. Go get that van haha

The funniest part about that was how she kept telling me how she hated the smell or their cooking.
I couldn't tell her I was just in there eating the food she said smelled so bad.😬

..with a "professional" was in a 19 foot mini motor home... she wouldn't do motels and didn't have an incall and I was from out of town...

Our dates were usually from 10pm to 1am. I didn't get mad, I thought it was sweet, but still a little weird. I did tell him I would prefer if he didn't do that. Don't need my doorman thinking I'm a slut or a whore.

but if you are in an apt, clean it up!  including the tub!  nothing's more disgusting than showering in a tub with black crud on the bottom!

Also, you don't have to take the room for an entire day.  There are sites like this one that connect you to good hotels where you can find rooms for the day only.  The ones listed in this article don't happen to be 4-star, but those are also easy to find.
http://www.dayuse-hotels.com/en/US/

Cosette, you and I have had our disagreements but what I like about you is you quite honestly seem to be both a slut AND a whore.  I appreciate that in a woman.

Your own apartment is one hell of a bad idea. Homes are k as long as the home is in the middle of 2 acre wooded and secluded lot. If you are in a sub division you are asking for trouble and wouldn't touch it.

A very nosy woman who I probably could have fucked. She let me into her apartment after all..
She hardly knew me..  
That confirmed that she didn't know what was up..
Who would let a John into their home?
She actually asked me about handyman shit!

Name the alley, I have an Australian-made camper-trailer* and will travel.  
*I'm interested in things Down-Under LOL

Have seen them in their own apt's, houses, incall apts, hotels....  If she is discrete, it really doesn't matter.  I will say this, if I'm paying premium prices, I would expect a premium environment.

I have provided out of private homes, apartments, condo's & hotels.  As long as your not in the hood, or a sleezy cheap ass hotel that costs $40 you should be ok.

I never set out to help these people.
They were just there.

Unless it's the Andy Gump or a piece of cardboard in the back alley.  That might be an issue.  

Thank you, I am, I'd probably be a slut forever if I hadn't chosen to be an entrepreneur.

got into a similar situ, tho not really the same...

Mid range or five star, I don't really care. I get nervous about her house or apartment. Too much activity could draw interest from neighbors and, subsequently, LE.

When you were just a tiny pup, your Mom used to call you "cutlet," whilst rubbing your fuzzy little Hound ears. I guess it stuck.

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I'd be curious as to what my assistant says hahaha

acceptable area.  The one thing that needs to be avoided is a hotel with exterior corridors which can be watched from the parking lot; too LE friendly.

And make sure your clients are low volume too!  Don't want the neighbors catching on because of those thin walls!

The apartment is a dedicated location, used only for incall.  A couple of my regular go-to providers maintain a small studio (sometimes in partnership with one or two other girls), just for work purposes.  That's ok by me, since the place can be decorated in a more suggestive or lovenest-y sort of way.

When providers entertain in their "real life" living quarters, they just can't avoid the "somebody actually lives here" feeling.  There are odors that just can't be avoided, the hobbyist has to be more aware of doing something that might be perceived as "invading personal space", blah blah…

I don't want to spend time in a girl's real life living quarters.  It's a buzzkill to the fantasy element of the hobby experience, and makes me feel like I'm "involved" with the girl in a manner that makes me feel uncomfortable.

But that's just me.  What do I know?

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