Hi gents & lovely ladies,

I am a cheap whore so I will slap my likeness on any site that is free. The only thing I pay for regularly is my website which is 24.99 a month. I will cough up change when I am touring for T and P. E is too expensive for my blood. My marketing motto is saturation, not elite specification. All advertising is good advertising.

I track actual booked dates who supply a deposit and the majority of my bookings come from TER.  

We should meet! I do both bdsm and nuru and everything in between. I have read so many of your posts over the years and always said to myself man she is awesome person. But I agree it’s so difficult to meet people in this business. I would love a good friend in the industry to bounce ideas off of. We have chatted a few times before but not much.  

...TER from the monger's POV.  It does help to be able so sniff out bullshit reviews and avoid bad sessions.  There are a few parts of the country that doesn't get much coverage but most of the areas I travel too seem to have plenty to offer for my tastes.  The backpg and cl days were kind of fun finding some diamonds in the rough but there was always a higher level of risk involved too.  

I can understand that. What free websites you use cause I know none!

Yes I have paid premium for E*** but I’ve not had an ad in a year. But im considering renewing again. I have lots of clients that use TER but they don’t write reviews and it’s ok.  
I also agree on what you said about sharing tips with other providers and be friends, wish more ladies were like this!

Your profile is showing you are in Charlotte, NC.  Just google "escorts in Charlotte, NC" and all of the sites will pop up. You may find that some of the free ones will already have a profile of you. (They pull them from other sites, usually tryst). Keep the profile there!! If any info is incorrect or needs to be updated just contact their customer service and let them know what info you want updated. If they have an "about me" section I always put in all of the other ad sites as well as my website so clients can cross reference to confirm I am real. Guys that have been around for awhile are going to know about TER or P411, new guys may not. That is why it is important to google to see the top 3-5 ad sites that pop up and make sure you are listed on them. Even when I tour I don't bother paying for a top tier placement. I just google the location and make sure I am listed on the top 3-5 sites. Some of the sites are trashy, but I never post anything overtly sexual in the ads or my pics.  When guys are scanning the sites you want to make sure they see your name and pic listed on all of them. Best of luck!!!

I use Tr*st to scroll thru potential dates that haven't caught my eye on TER.  If someone catches my eye on Tr*st, I check them out on TER.  
Or I notice someone on TER and check their reviews.  

I start on TER.  I need to know that I have a good chance of getting what I like.

If a guy uses TER to read reviews but does not write reviews he is still participating in review culture. Also, you participate in review culture. You're here every day, posting on this board. You use your reviews for advertising. Kind of odd that you talk shit about reviewers and review culture when you rely on it so much for your business. You said yourself that every time you get a review, you get more web traffic. It sounds like you should encourage more of your clients to write reviews.

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I would also recommend an ad once a week on TER, it is free. I think E is overpriced and not as reliable as it used to be, but that is me. In Charlotte, NC per the googles E is coming in as #5 for your area. If you are not on P411 I would recommend getting on there. The basic profile ad is free on there as well. I have lots of guys that see my ad on TER and also see my reviews, so I also include my TER # on my X file, my website, and all of my other ad sites. If you get your name everywhere and market yourself to be different and showcase your personality you will be golden. Find the sweet spot for your rates, your availability, and the services you offer. I have a degree in business with my focus being in marketing and finance. I am going back to get my master's in social work with the focus being addiction counseling, paid fully by sex work!!! If you have any questions let me know!!

Thank you!!! Yes I’m on p411 been on it forever., used to be one of my favorite!  Good luck on your studies!

I agree that if a client reads reviews he participate in the review culture, unfortunately some if not most just want to read a couple of review to see if the lady is real but prefer not to leave a review, sometimes for laziness some other times for discretion. And most of my best clients and best sessions don’t get a review which sucks!

Her problem seems to be with some of the assholes on the boards here, not with the culture or reviewers in general.

I have found some new (for me) ladies on TER although I don't pay much attention to the buzz boards.  

I would say TER is best if you are a member.  You can find the highest rated providers in your area, get some general info on them and click the links to their sites.  

Where did she say she has in issue with review culture? Was this on a different post? Not sure what we are talking about here.

I don’t like to put words in a person’s mouth and prefer to take their words at face value. Either way I don’t care if she was dissing all of us, just some of us or nobody at all. I’m just pointing out the obvious contradiction. For all her talk and complaints about review culture and this board, she feeds it and participates in it more than any other provider out there. Everyone here on TER is using review culture and review culture pays her bills.

I don't ever remember reading such a post from her either.

There aren't any ! she's pulling your leg !  Every site up there now, is either done by credit cards ,cash app ,or bitcoin ,to pay for your post .  The only website I know is sugar nights in ny but that's already washed up nobody looks at it any more since - Mega personal ,Tr*st,Ter ,p4 ,EM ,rm2go,stay away from EROS, got busted many years ago and feds took it over ,someone said they sold it but I doubt it.The feds need to make their $$$  too ! and its connected with homeland security probably ICE .You can never be to careful !

When you google your location of Denver, CO the first website to pop up is STG, which is free. If you need further help with finding free websites in your area google is the best place to start. Best of luck and take care!

Ts*escorts seems to work really well. Just cross reference numbers on here.

You can post on the photo only board once a day.

Duh!!! lol Thanks Bia!! I forgot the most obvious!!!

Thanks for the input. I’ll keep this info in mind. )

Thank you, as always, QueenBia.  

that is really all you need imo