Hi gents & lovely ladies,
I’m curious and wanted to ask something that might help all of us in the community…
For the gentlemen:
Which platforms do you actually prefer using to find providers these days?
Is it Tr*st, P4*1, Er*s, or something else that’s been working better for you?
For the providers:
Which sites have been bringing you the most success lately?
Have you noticed more traffic from Tr*st, P4*1, Er*s, or another platform?
I figured it’d be helpful to hear everyone’s experiences — the landscape keeps changing, and a little insider info never hurts. 😉
Looking forward to your thoughts!
I am a cheap whore so I will slap my likeness on any site that is free. The only thing I pay for regularly is my website which is 24.99 a month. I will cough up change when I am touring for T and P. E is too expensive for my blood. My marketing motto is saturation, not elite specification. All advertising is good advertising.
I can understand that. What free websites you use cause I know none!
Your profile is showing you are in Charlotte, NC. Just google "escorts in Charlotte, NC" and all of the sites will pop up. You may find that some of the free ones will already have a profile of you. (They pull them from other sites, usually tryst). Keep the profile there!! If any info is incorrect or needs to be updated just contact their customer service and let them know what info you want updated. If they have an "about me" section I always put in all of the other ad sites as well as my website so clients can cross reference to confirm I am real. Guys that have been around for awhile are going to know about TER or P411, new guys may not. That is why it is important to google to see the top 3-5 ad sites that pop up and make sure you are listed on them. Even when I tour I don't bother paying for a top tier placement. I just google the location and make sure I am listed on the top 3-5 sites. Some of the sites are trashy, but I never post anything overtly sexual in the ads or my pics. When guys are scanning the sites you want to make sure they see your name and pic listed on all of them. Best of luck!!!
There aren't any ! she's pulling your leg ! Every site up there now, is either done by credit cards ,cash app ,or bitcoin ,to pay for your post . The only website I know is sugar nights in ny but that's already washed up nobody looks at it any more since - Mega personal ,Tr*st,Ter ,p4 ,EM ,rm2go,stay away from EROS, got busted many years ago and feds took it over ,someone said they sold it but I doubt it.The feds need to make their $$$ too ! and its connected with homeland security probably ICE .You can never be to careful !
When you google your location of Denver, CO the first website to pop up is STG, which is free. If you need further help with finding free websites in your area google is the best place to start. Best of luck and take care!
Scarlet
You can post on the photo only board once a day.
You can post an ad once a week on your local buzz board.
You can post visiting ads.
You can cruise the boards and post to communicate with other TER members.
You can get gifted free VIP days from other members.
You can whitelist members you vouch for personally.
* If you do have a VIP membership you can dm members.
I highly recommend paying for a yearly membership it’s still cheaper, than paying premium on any platform.
Duh!!! lol Thanks Bia!! I forgot the most obvious!!!
Thanks for the input. I’ll keep this info in mind. )
I track actual booked dates who supply a deposit and the majority of my bookings come from TER.
My top site that provides solid bookings is TER. The second up is Tr$?-. I pay for premium $175 for Escort + and additional $175 for BDSM.
Many of my TER bookings do not write reviews. They have TER handles and read the reviews, but do not participate in the review culture. I find when I do get a new review my website traffic goes up. My analytics 6,000 hits a month to my website and almost half comes from TER.
Great post. Sharing is caring. I love reading the responses from other working women. I must say I do admire your honesty.
I pay $300 yearly for my premium website & update it daily. I think being affordably priced is what brings the most consistent revenue. What is affordable?
When you consider the cost to do business are you renting a place to work, or a hotel? Where are you located? Do you have to travel to work? Costs. Why do you need a deposit? 😂 Because it costs to be a provider.
I am trying to make friends in real life with other providers. I used to have provider only meet and greets long ago in San Diego. I find sharing what works for you can be helpful. I am meeting another provider to discuss teaching her BDSM because she is tired of FBSM. It’s okay to try something new!
We should meet! I do both bdsm and nuru and everything in between. I have read so many of your posts over the years and always said to myself man she is awesome person. But I agree it’s so difficult to meet people in this business. I would love a good friend in the industry to bounce ideas off of. We have chatted a few times before but not much.
I have seen so many come and go from the business but I feel like you are a constant and knowledgeable.
Yes I have paid premium for E*** but I’ve not had an ad in a year. But im considering renewing again. I have lots of clients that use TER but they don’t write reviews and it’s ok.
I also agree on what you said about sharing tips with other providers and be friends, wish more ladies were like this!
I would also recommend an ad once a week on TER, it is free. I think E is overpriced and not as reliable as it used to be, but that is me. In Charlotte, NC per the googles E is coming in as #5 for your area. If you are not on P411 I would recommend getting on there. The basic profile ad is free on there as well. I have lots of guys that see my ad on TER and also see my reviews, so I also include my TER # on my X file, my website, and all of my other ad sites. If you get your name everywhere and market yourself to be different and showcase your personality you will be golden. Find the sweet spot for your rates, your availability, and the services you offer. I have a degree in business with my focus being in marketing and finance. I am going back to get my master's in social work with the focus being addiction counseling, paid fully by sex work!!! If you have any questions let me know!!
Thank you!!! Yes I’m on p411 been on it forever., used to be one of my favorite! Good luck on your studies!
If a guy uses TER to read reviews but does not write reviews he is still participating in review culture. Also, you participate in review culture. You're here every day, posting on this board. You use your reviews for advertising. Kind of odd that you talk shit about reviewers and review culture when you rely on it so much for your business. You said yourself that every time you get a review, you get more web traffic. It sounds like you should encourage more of your clients to write reviews.
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I agree that if a client reads reviews he participate in the review culture, unfortunately some if not most just want to read a couple of review to see if the lady is real but prefer not to leave a review, sometimes for laziness some other times for discretion. And most of my best clients and best sessions don’t get a review which sucks!
Her problem seems to be with some of the assholes on the boards here, not with the culture or reviewers in general.
I don’t like to put words in a person’s mouth and prefer to take their words at face value. Either way I don’t care if she was dissing all of us, just some of us or nobody at all. I’m just pointing out the obvious contradiction. For all her talk and complaints about review culture and this board, she feeds it and participates in it more than any other provider out there. Everyone here on TER is using review culture and review culture pays her bills.
Where did she say she has in issue with review culture? Was this on a different post? Not sure what we are talking about here.
I don't ever remember reading such a post from her either.
Thank you, as always, QueenBia.
I'm curious about the numbers. For those of you who have observed similar patterns, I'm curious how long after a review your website traffic typically gets a "boost" -- and by how much"
...TER from the monger's POV. It does help to be able so sniff out bullshit reviews and avoid bad sessions. There are a few parts of the country that doesn't get much coverage but most of the areas I travel too seem to have plenty to offer for my tastes. The backpg and cl days were kind of fun finding some diamonds in the rough but there was always a higher level of risk involved too.
I use Tr*st to scroll thru potential dates that haven't caught my eye on TER. If someone catches my eye on Tr*st, I check them out on TER.
Or I notice someone on TER and check their reviews.
I have, but rarely use P411.
I start on TER. I need to know that I have a good chance of getting what I like.
Then, I'll follow the links to a personal website or platform, to see photos, communication preferences and the verification process.
I have found some new (for me) ladies on TER although I don't pay much attention to the buzz boards.
A number have come from reposts on X.
I really only look at Tryst, Eros, etc if I discover a lady somewhere and want to see more pictures or info.
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I would say TER is best if you are a member. You can find the highest rated providers in your area, get some general info on them and click the links to their sites.
That beats going to a site like Tryst, seeing someone you are interested in and then looking for their reviews on TER (which may or may not exist).
Don't trust reviews on Private Delights. They are all positive and a lot seem fake. Tried someone on there who had a perfect 5 star rating. She was nice but her service had a lot to be desired. When I went to write a TER review, I found out she was delisted. Lesson learned.
Ts*escorts seems to work really well. Just cross reference numbers on here.
that is really all you need imo
have seen some great ladies that way
tryst is good as well, but many of the ladies on their are not reviewed and i get a strong scammer vibe from the profiles
the tryst filters are also very robust
i am speaking as a newbie so i only know this world, not the “old way”