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Its Wonderful with some exceptions.....
HollyExposed 160 reads
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You must brush and rinse prior to kissing as most providers do right before your arrival (vice/versa). Also, in my opinion it is never ok to ask this question over the phone if it is your first time seeing the provider. For me it is a red flag and I will not likely see you.

XO
Holly

I would never discuss anything explicit in a telephone call or email with a provider before a first meeting, but wondor how providers feel about inquires about sensual DFK?  Its perfectly legal conduct, and frankly, its something I enjoy and like to confirm before scheduling an appointment - but if reviews are silent/ambiguous, there's a risk its not available.  Providers - is this something your are willing to discuss?

That's a very harmless question but you should see those details in the juicy part of the review as well.

If you not VIP yet you need to be. It will also be mentioned in a providers profile but you won't know just how hot her kissing is to you read what the gentlemen have to say.

Yep get vip. worth the money and then you don't have to ask questions though I have never heard of a provider not admitting to kissing, because as you stated it's not illegal.

Sorry Haley my love, but there is a thing as too much tongue. Broke up with my last girlfriend for that problem.

GaGambler143 reads

I love to DFK, but I don't enjoy having a tongue stuck halfway down my throat.

Actually, you won't know how hot the kissing is until she's kissing you. Personally, I like the ladies who can kiss like a bilge pump. But that's just me.

Stick with girls that say they are gfe..

Many dont believe in swopping fluids.

lilli204 reads

for some of us kissing is a much more intimate connection than any sexual act, and therefore it's something that we cannot "guarantee" for any and everyone we may meet. you must consider things like chemistry and sensual attraction...i mean, would you really want a DFK from a woman who was just going through the motions, gritting her teeth and bearing it?

so while i would not say that it is a topic that is inappropriate to discuss beforehand, it is a question that is very difficult to answer. i cannot say "yes, i will kiss you" to a man when i have never even met him and have no idea what the physical chemistry will be.

Not to mention the health and breath situation. I really am surprised at guys who think that a lady will kiss any male that walks through the door...even if she has GFE on her website/reviews. The best you can expect is if you are very clean and fresh and do not kiss in a way that grosses her out, you will be the recipient of some lip-locking.

And since there has been a lot about kissing style...why oh why do some men open wide and just poke out the tongue and leave it there in your mouth?

On a very serious note if the gent has a style of DFKing that is beyond reasonable..there is no reason or money that should prevail for a lady to put up with that. I do not go into this job with a grin and bear it attitude. If I have to grin and bear anything I put a complete stop to it...no question about it.

Not being reviewed gives me way more power to keep my boundaries so I never have to put up with anyone or anything and live in fear of a bad review.

If you take care of yourself just as you expect her to take care of herself then your chances are pretty good you'll get DFK if offered.:)

lilli122 reads

that is not the only factor that plays into whether or not i will kiss a man. personally i need to feel some sort of genuine connection as well, i need to LIKE him, and feel that he LIKES me, before i can return a kiss. however when that connection IS there, then i am a very passionate and sensual kisser. but would i ever want a gent to come to me and expect some passionate DFK because he read it in a review or because i advertise as GFE? heck no! it just has to feel right guys, for some of us anyway.

You must brush and rinse prior to kissing as most providers do right before your arrival (vice/versa). Also, in my opinion it is never ok to ask this question over the phone if it is your first time seeing the provider. For me it is a red flag and I will not likely see you.

XO
Holly

juicy details (VIP required) so as not to be disappointed.

However, the assumption is that both the hobbyist and the provider are top shelf with their hygiene.  I wouldn't blame a lady for not kissing a guy (or DFK for that matter) if he was unshaven or had an odor).

I hope you don't mind my input.

First of all, I'd like to say I love kissing and my sessions with providers are so much better and more meaningful if they do kiss with passion.
I always show up fresh and clean, including flossing, brushing my teeth, plus breath mints during the drive, etc.  I've even showed up at a provider's place with a toothbrush and excused myself to the bathroom. I want a win-win situation. I love providers that love to kiss!

The other thing I wanted to suggest is a way to ask without making the provider feel uncomfortable on the phone.  I make it about me.  This is what I say:  "I want to tell you something about myself.  I love passion and kissing."  Then I ask "Do you think we would be a good match?"  That way, I am not asking them a direct specific question like "Do you like to kiss?"  I think making it about me makes for a less defensive situation.

I never knew the human mouth could go so long without swallowing. Whats up with that anyway?? You know, when your chin and cheeks get wet....SWALLOW!!

She may answer yes, but the real deal breaker may come if the gent who is doing the asking has bad breath or kisses like a vacumn cleaner...she will not know that until he gets there.

I will never answer anything like that..I am just setting myself up. It is always a wait and see type thing for me anyway.

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