I have hobbyed for about 3-4 years mow. I shopped around, and then I was referred to a most wonderful woman who absolutely intoxicates me, and has become my ATF and the ONLY woman I will see for quite a while.  I have seen her 104 times.   I don't know if that is a record, nor am I trying for one. I just wonder how many men  have seen a woman THAT many times?

you must be broke! and she must be real good.

It's whatever definition you want to put on it

...but that sounds pretty regular to me!  Myself, I am not a bean counter...I don't track things by number but by experiences.  I am in a similar situation, I have found my ATF and we have seen each other many times for different lengths of time. It may be hours it may be days. I visit her, she visits me and we visit in other locations on the map as well.  It continues to be a wonderful experience! ...Hope yours continues that way and you have another 104 visits and more.

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I don't think the number of visits constitutes being a regular as much as consistency does. I see one fave about twice a month, the other, who lives 300 miles away, about six times a year. Both consider me to be one of their regulars.

to be a regular with a few ladies I've seen. As it is now, it would cost me more in plane fare than it would for the ladies. Even with the ones closer to home, it's a minimum two hour drive.

I would be a regular is she was closest enough for me to see exclusively.  Heck, I consider myself a regular even if I only see her once a year.  My ATF would be the only one I would ever see if she and I lived in the same place.  Variey may be nice but I'd prefer to see her only if that was possible.  She knows how I feel about her.

then I guess I am a regular. I still see the lady who was my first experience at least once a year, and she's still spetacular.

I will be seeing one favorite in a couple of weeks and we have been seeing each other on average six times a year for the last 20 years.

That is about 120 sessions and counting.

I hope to see her for another twenty.

I don't keep count either, but I do have an ATF that I've been seeing about once or twice a week now for three years.

As for who is a regular and who isn't?  I guess it depends on the provider, however like others have said I have to think that "consistency" is the number 1 factor.

It's your call. 104 sounds great. Keep up the good work.