God, who knows what makes us click more with some than with others?  For women, well at least me, it hasn't been a matter of looks really... it's the guy's personality, the way he handles himself (and me! I might add!!)... perhaps it's his self-confidence and very importantly his humor (especially if he's not Mr. Suav-o... like the Woodman himself).  You know.. it's how interesting he is (to himself as well as others).  But sometimes I think it's just good ole lust... and in that case, none of the above matters!  So... that help?  xoxo Faye Desiree