This is a riff on a post on the Porn Star board.

Obviously, a good client comes on time, is clean and respectful, and leaves on time.  

But we all know there are circumstances when another five or ten minutes can have a huge impact on the total experience, and I personally think a just a tiny bit of flexibility, especially with a premium priced product, is while not required certainly appreciated.  

So given that every provider is different, every client is different, and every session is different, do you guys agree that generally as the price goes up providers tend to me stricter on time?

and it's one of the major reasons I tend to avoid the HDH's

Some $300 hr hookers think their time is invaluable, but many are rather free with their time, not so rigid about scheduling etc etc. The HDH's OTOH tend to guard their time rather jealously and are much more insistent about strict scheduling with out a lot of leeway which makes the experience much more transactional to me.

Of course I am speaking in generalities, obviously not all HDH's are that way, nor are all more modestly priced providers generous with their time, but "in general" I find your statement true. The higher the rate "in general" the stricter the lady becomes with her time.

Now there are two of us who can get flamed. lol

I'm definitely more lenient on time now than when I was lower priced, but I also get a lot more multi hour requests so that it just isn't an issue. I'm always cautious of guys who constantly need an extra 5-10 minutes for a "a huge impact on the total experience", especially when they tend to be the guys who never tip.  

If our session is going so well we go over time, that i don't mind at all. If you're the type who always pushes the appointment a little longer than it should be or doesn't start getting ready to leave until way after our time is up, you might find I return you texts/emails much less or become much more strict about the time and start wrapping up 10 minutes beforehand.

It seems to me it would or should be the opposite, but I am guessing there is a lot of truth in GaG's comments above. It does seem that a lot of the HDHs have that GPS.

I have quite honestly found that most providers I have seen (and that includes ladies across a very wide price range) have been quite generous with their time. I suspect that there are factors other than magnitude of the donation that dictate that willingness to generosity:

I tend to book longer dates. No less than 2 hours; most often extended lunch and dinner dates. I can see that a 1 hour rendezvous might be looked at with less generosity with respect to her time. One wonderful provider (now retired) waited for me for a dinner date for over an hour while I was stuck in traffic... we stayed in touch and she had a beer ready for me at the bar when I arrived (totally stressed out) and our date proceeded with no clock effect. This had nothing to do with her donation (high end).

Are you a regular or a one-timer/first-timer? I suspect that repeat clients a lady has a good relationship with get a little more flexibility with respect to time and other things - regardless of donation.

Are you respectful, clean, fun? I suspect that guys who behave the best and she has fun with get a little more consideration than guys who push limits, are demanding, etc...

Just a few factors to consider in your dollars vs clock debate.

...."we all know there are circumstances when another five or ten minutes can have a huge impact on the total experience, and I personally think a just a tiny bit of flexibility, especially with a premium priced product, is while not required certainly appreciated. ".... is fucking lame. Really?  You need a piddling 5 or 10 extra minutes of her time for free in order for the total experience to ascend to another level. And she owes you that because of her rate. What a loser.

If he finds himself running into this issue frequently (frequently enough to complain about it here), he should start booking 90 minute sessions or 2 hour sessions instead of just an hour.

The offer to pursue your advanced learning at Jack Dunphy University has now been rescinded. I am sorry but the application and your deposit for the Fall Semester is non-refundable.

Had you not posted so stupidly, your major would have taken you to such informative classes as:

"Introduction to OTC: Making Every Minute Count with a Hooker."

Not everyone is Dunphy material. Personally, I think BSU is the place for you.

I can put a word in for you with the Dean, Mr. Fisher, if you would like. All the dorms have water beds and lava lamps so there is that.

It really has little to do with price going up.

It truly depends on the provider and the client.  
 
Seriously, if the provider you are seeing is the equivalent of a salesperson, yes, because they believe if they act up about every minute, they can get paid for a bigger time slot. Ditto for the dopesick (who are counting minutes until they can cop), but it is important to keep in mind everyone has different needs, and there are many clients who prefer a straightforward business model with sleaze, and no friendship or pretense thereof.  
 
Then there are the artists, innamoratas, courtesans and companions- the realization that a rush job can result in a ruined time, or ruined orgasm (not...fun...at all. Unless that's your jam) yes, a couple extra minutes can make a HUGE difference.  
 
But, us ladies do keep in mind, there are many clients who by their very nature, will see how much they can push limits, and it's not about pleasure but seeing how much they can get out of you. Because, if you budge once, you will budge more, and again.  And a lot of us do not put up with that shit- 5 minutes is one thing, but I don't care if your ass in the air, if you are rude and manipulative and trying to stretch things out just to be controlling, I will put you in your fucking place, and not in a way you'll like. (one thing people don't realize is submissive men can be just as pushy & manipulative, if not more so.)  

Many of us ARE aware of hedgetime. To believe a session will be done at exactly "X" time is ludicrous, especially in my side of the game. And if someones really cool, we click, and they are a gentleman, I'm probably gonna hook them up with extra time if needed to make them feel appreciated. And I find most other providers are the same way.

But don't take this as gospel- when I go out to eat, I know what a medium bowl of Pho will cost, and I'm not going to pretend otherwise. I know if I get the right person, they'l hook me up with a large, but it would be idiotic to expect it every time; but when it happens I surely appreciate it. Hope that analogy reads.

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... I have gotten more OTC sex than you can ever hope to get. I would be willing to join the JDU faculty and teach the course on how to achieve that but you are a cheap bastard. Plus I don't like the fact that there are cameras in the bathrooms.

And just to be clear, the cameras are only in the ladies room. Is that the gender you now associate with?

...you are a fucking pisser!

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He's a pissant.
But he is funny.

In my experience ladies on the high end tend to be far more liberal with their time.

Every provider is different and each is unique with their time in their own way.  I have seen every scale, and level in the spectrum.  I have seen BP ladies who have willingly extended OTC time and high end ladies where I felt super rushed and ripped off after our encounter.  To be straight to the point, I think it is a YMMV thing.  Do prices dictate time difference or patience with time? Not so much.  In my opinion, I think that has more to do with the individual lady, whether or not she is on tour, her review history, how many times you have seen her, your manners, how long you take, your decorum, etc.  You can tell a lot about a ladies schedule and get a hint at how she will be with her time by looking at her reviews.  I saw a provider in Dallas last year sometime, lovely lady, open menu, the whole 9.  It's almost a year later and she only has been reviewed by 2 additional guys.  I can gather from our encounter and her review history that she is very lenient with her time because she was when I visited her for the first time.  

Another lady I saw, well traveled, stacked, open menu as well, by the time I submitted my review 5 other guys had submitted theirs as well.  Not that she was in a rush during our session, but we got 2 pops out of the way before I could take my pants off.  Adding two and two together, being that she is constantly on tour and noticing that my review might be somewhere on the 20th page by now, I would suppose that while she isn't going to throw hints that its time to go, she very well isn't going to entertain smores and hot chocolate OTC when their is another client waiting to punch the clock.  

To Cspatz: Calling someone a lame for asking a question shows more about your lameness than it does about the person asking the question.  And I'm sure everyone who liked your response is either 1) A jaded provider who, while making $600 plus a session, whines and cries about and extra 5 or 10 minutes because time is money and another monger is waiting or 2) A clandestine monger who copies and pastes mentions of providers from the RO board in order to brown nose for brownie points.  It comes off a bit ass-kissish.  

Bottom line, as a client you should know your role and respect the ladies time.  Asking for a shower with 5 minutes left is not the way to do business.  I keep track of the time so that there isn't that awkward moment when she is hinting that its time to go and I am kicked back relaxing thinking everything is hunky dory.  Do your research, reading reviews can tell you a lot about a providers atmosphere and leniency.  

Once you're a regular, meaning at least a couple of sessions a month for a few months, there is more time flexibility at ALL price points.  Providers want to keep their regulars happy.  

I have had the clock run out, and the provider told me not to leave yet, so I stayed.  Sometimes long enough for a second cup, but usually just a little chit chat, making out a little more, or lingering DFK as I dress and head for the door.  I would say average time over is about 10-15 minutes, but have had it go much longer.  On extended sessions of 2-4 hours, you are more likely to see some flexibility on the clock than on one-hour appointments.  

If you're doing strictly one-hour appointments, and not repeating regularly, then I think your observation is correct.. . . .  time adherence gets stricter as the price point moves up.  

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are ymmv big time.
No specific reasons but if she likes you.

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