Do you give a warning to her?

She is doing BBBJ and she asked for a heads up, so to speak.  

.....I'm sure the thrashing, screaming and religious exaltations are a dead giveaway.

It lets me know to NOT change anything I'm doing. Changing up at the critical moment can lead to a dud orgasm, n'est pas?

a heads up would be great.

New meaning for a cum to Jesus session?  

Actually this wkend I was with a young lady I've seen multiple times and we were in 69 and just after she cum on my tongue I let loose of a huge load, it just kept pumping in her mouth and she took it all in and then when she went to spit she heard me laugh and she said you think that's funny and I said I had you pictured with both cheeks poked out it was so much and she laughed and said it damn well was.

To bad you're not a switch hitter.  Have a feeling we're gonna be there for a while and you know what they say about idle hands...

Let's us know not to stop what we're doing...and prepares me to take every drop!  😜

can keep doing what is working oh so well.

she like to lick my balls while i jerk myself off...when i'm about to cum i announce it and she puts me in her mouth and takes the result.

if you are just having intercourse, it might be an interesting tidbit of news but is not necessary.

How many times have a shot a geyser into the just abandoned air space above my little pal. It usually ends up landing on me. More recently, I'm no longer letting loose Peter North worthy shots but that still leaves the more effusive eruptions to miss their mark (CIM).  

Since it's usually BBBJ

Such as for BBBJ when the provider doesn't like CIM, or when she's made it clear she wants it in a specific spot and some repositioning is necessary. Then there's the times we're doing tease and deny, abd I might give a verbal heads-up that I'm close so she can back off.

Ms. West, I am just wondering with respect to your strategies in getting us to resolution how do your approach or modify your plan of attack?  Also during your time as a provider I can imagine that you would have those the frequent you regularly.  With that said, has there been times when they have gotten used to a certain way that you put it on them? If so , are you constantly rethinking your game plan or would you even think to ask how you could do things differently? Also with the nature a scope of my inquiries not that you don't already know but I dare say your strategies would also prove that intercourse is a thinking woman's game.

I tell my ATF I'm close. Then she looks right into my eyes as I unload inside her. Bareback of course. After seeing her for two years it's still Awesome!

Eye to eye contact makes me cumming in missionary soooo much better! I always ask my ATF to look at me and she knows exactly what I mean!

Even if you have agreed to the where you are going to cum prior to getting started, I think it would be polite to give a warning that it is actually cumming.

I like feedback while fucking......ideally I would love to know when my partner is on her way to climax. Moans and gowns are great, but I like verbal cues.

I have a partial spinal cord injury & sometimes I get surprised.  (It always feels good but it feels different than it did before the accident.)

Please tell me when you are going to cum! I love to Enjoy it too! (:

An interesting question. If she doesn't want CIM you would think she would ask you politely not to do it before going to work.  

I agree that it is generally obvious when one is close but I usually give a heads up as that is polite.

To say that there is a "plan of attack" might imply that I have only one routine aimed at arriving at the final destination. Every man is different. Some clients have a VERY specific way of arriving at the station and they don't want to change it. Some want to see what we can do that we haven't done before. The variables make checking-in with you (throughout the session and from one session to the next) an important part of the journey. You may have a new fantasy never expressed before or just "love" that thing I do with my tongue that keeps you coming back for it again and again. A little more to the point are these fine variables, pressure, pace, position (K9 or 69?), depth of stroke (hand, mouth or riding) in addition to  added touches like touching the scrotum or squeezing the balls, tweaking nipples or a prostate massage.