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SingleGuy246 12 Reviews 3363 reads
posted
1 / 13

In advertisements and websites, I repeatedly see a provider who is described (or describes herself) as open minded.

What do providers think this means when they see/use this term, and what do most hobbyists think it means when it is used?  Is there any disconnect between the two interpretations?

I am very cautious when I see this decription unless the VIP review section indicates that the provider is indeed open minded.  I would guess it applies most frequently to anal or oral, but maybe others think of role playing or fetishes,

All relevant comments are welcome.  Thanks.

femaleartist See my TER Reviews 843 reads
posted
2 / 13

After all "Open minded" could mean a world of different things to different people. Some it could have to do with simular meanings as to what you mention. Others it may not have anything to do with the hobby at all. Take for instance (no I do not advertise myself as "open minded") I do feel I am relatively "open minded about a number of things. I am open to learning about other points of view in politics, religion, lifestyles, and so much more. I am open to the idea that not all hobbiest are healthy 35 to 50 yr old guys who work in white color jobs, other ages, blue color jobs, some are handicapped, others are ladies. The gentlemen come from all sorts of cultral backgrounds and job fields. Married, single, involved, differend educational backgrounds and looks good looking (a few I have met could be called drop dead georgous) or the average to plain john. To me being open minded means I look at the individual and remain willing to learn something new every day

xxbabegirl See my TER Reviews 1642 reads
posted
3 / 13

I always thought openminded meant open bottom(anal);-) kisses from sarahxoxo

Captain Midnight 35 Reviews 1033 reads
posted
4 / 13

That said, however, I think it's usually intended to imply that she's willing to at least listen to requests for something other than "BJ, CG, CFS".  No guarantee that she'll actually *comply* with those requests, but you can certainly bring it up. It's doubtful that you'll make the weirdest request she's ever heard.

Some requests might be things like letting you shoot on her face/chest, or wearing a particular outfit, or roleplay, or anal play, or some mild BDSM activity, or some degree of fetish-friendliness.  However, if what really rings your bell is basting her in mustard and sodomizing her while she's wearing a cheerleader uniform on the altar of a church at midnight, while thirteen acolytes in black robes stand in a circle around you chanting in Latin and masturbating furiously... you'd better look for something more than just "openminded", my friend.  ;)

Lex Luethor 24 Reviews 1213 reads
posted
5 / 13

...when you tilt your head a certain way all your thoughts fall out.

That's why I can't remember anything -- I'm too open-minded.

VonRyan 15 Reviews 933 reads
posted
6 / 13

Drain plug required...

Keep a plunger nearby...

and be prepared to pay extra for plumboinking services.

...and away your troubles go down the drain.


Cheers!

The Caped Conundrum 993 reads
posted
7 / 13

Just like;
"For a limited time only!!!!!",
"Red tag sale!!!",
"Huge blowout savings!!!"

Depending on the lady "open minded" could mean anything from she'll consider BBBJ to going to Greece and bringing along a goat, a rope, ball gag, and a medical speculum.

dickus 2146 reads
posted
8 / 13

That's what I always understood, but, as they say in the "Monk" theme--"I could be wrong now, but I don't think so!"

Jasinda See my TER Reviews 1914 reads
posted
9 / 13

I consider myself very open-minded in "civvie" life (how could I not be? Look at one of the ways I make my living), which to me, means I am not quick to judge what sane, mature adults do.

On the other hand, I do not advertise myself as an open-minded provider because I think that will possibly cause me to get requests to do some things I'm not quite ready to do yet and I hate to have to tell the requestor no.

luv_women 28 Reviews 935 reads
posted
10 / 13

A nurse may say "no" to a sexual request, but she will never say "Ewwww".

Open-minded OTOH means that she is more likely to say "yes", and will probably never say "ewww"

JORGE818 1 Reviews 443 reads
posted
11 / 13

you must have been an altar boy TOO!  cheerleader on the altar  ........brings back fond memories

JORGE818 1 Reviews 1241 reads
posted
12 / 13
SingleGuy246 12 Reviews 876 reads
posted
13 / 13

Thanks to all who responded.

In particular, thanks to the ladies who gave their take on open minded.  The insights were very helpful.

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