I know some women pick up and leave this hobby frequently. And I'm sure that you guys actually prefer those that are consistent, but if you don't hear from your favorite lady, do you ever look for her or wonder she went? Have you ever messaged her, asking where did she go, and when will she return?  Ladies do you ever reach out to that favorite visitor? Just wondering...

anyone I've had some rapport with, I wonder where she went, how's she doing, is she well...

Yeah, I've gotten messages from people that just want I chat or are checking up on me if they are out of town, I just wanted to know if there is a general thought or rule behind that.

Ideally, the whole point of this endeavor is that it's a "secret world" that we can enter and exit at our convenience without real-life repercussions. I've had a few instances of favorites disappearing and reappearing, and the reasons why are none of my business. I'm just grateful I get to see them again!

That's awesome! It is kind of secret, isn't it? Lol

here are gals I've known that have come and gone, and I never thought to keep up with them.  However I have also known some other gals who I believed I was quite close to, having done many overnights, met their friends and family, and in general known for a many years.

Asking if I was ok. Its nice to know I'm missed. One contact is fine, not stalkerish at all. Multiple...that gets uncomfortable...

There was a lady I was seeing for about 3yrs. Maybe once every 3 months or so.We became very comfortable with  each other and even met otc on a few occasions for a drink or two. She had been to my home and I had been to hers. One nite we went out for a few drinks and when I was takiing her home she said she was feeling silly and suggested a quick car date.I got to tell you it was silly,but it was fun and erotic and we would laugh about it on occasion. She would always text me to see how I was doing and vice versa.All of a sudden the communication stopped completely.I was worried something might have happened to her because we promised each other if there was ever a reason one of us couldn't continu the relationship we would  give each othet the courtesy of letting the other one know. I texted her on maybe 3-4 occasions asking about her well being and to please get back to me to let me know she was ok. Went as far as sending her a Christmas card with a  short note asking her to get in touch.Still haven't heard anything .Stopped texting and reaching out to her because I did start to feel like a stalker. I hope she is well and safe, but I guess a little closure would have been nice.

Absolutely.  If you get to know someone it is an investment in time on both sides.  I had one drop off the radaar earlier this year. I still don't know where she ended up.

They never officially retired, just went off the grid for awhile.  When they came back, they have always reached back when they felt it was appropriate.  I generally leave remaining in contact to be at their discretion unless I am seeking to make an appointment, which I won't do unless I know they're active.