9 times out of 10 the gents i see (who are all regulars/long-time friends) will be fully erect even before i open the door to let them in. i understand it for what it is...the excitement of anticipation, and i appreciate that they still have such a strong and physical reaction to me. however it has no bearing on what we do...we will still do whatever he wishes to do, whenever he wishes to do it, whether that's heading out to lunch, snuggling up and watching a movie, or immediate and vigorous sexual activity.

Can't ... it seems that the "little guy" is always at attention by the time i get to see him

Lina

Ah, the advantages of youth. I remember those days!

Now that I'm older, Mr. Happy needs a little encouragement before he comes out to play.  It doesn't mean, however, that I'm not just as into the lady as I was when I was younger.

But seriously ladies, I hope you realize what a tremendous compliment it is to you that a guy can get fully aroused just seeing you, or even anticipating seeing you.  I can't imagine what it would be like to have that much (positive) power over somebody.

If a woman got moist panties ringing my doorbell, I'd be the happiest man in the world.

It just means she'll be able to get you off in no time flat and get prepared for her next client!.

Just saying!

It's not unusual for me to be leaking precum by the time my shorts come off.

At first I was self-conscious of it, but soon found that ladies were extremely turned on that I was THAT turned on....in fact, most women I've met want to taste it.

I might make a joke about it (not in a poking fun kind of way) like "someone's excited already" etc   Other than him just being there and naked lol seeing him hard before we even begin makes me pretty happy....flattered even.

What session?

What happens if the provider feels like there is no chemistry here? Nothing is going to happen at all, because there is no consent.