So a recent post the other day that mentioned the Kevin Smith movie "Chasing Amy" (yes, actually giving credit to ADJ), got me wondering..

and yes, your friend is a hypocrite.

love is brutality, love without truth is hypocrisy."

also like the hardware store owner who runs a purchase/raffle for a new red mini bike. Amazingly your buddy wins it and gives it to your kid.

for two reasons:

While many of you think they are inherently dishonest, I get a lot more honesty out of hookers than I do women who do other things for a living.

As for a book, I know some will find this hard to believe as big a blabbermouth I am here on the boards, but I am way too lazy to write a book, maybe I could have it ghost written. All we would need is several cases of booze, and I could sit and flap my gums all day. Just like I do right here. lol

Prostitute to PhD, and an award winning movie about her past.  While she wasn't my type, again, if I met a former provider I really connected with and had tremendous chemistry, yes I would date her..  The other benefit is that given my Hobbying, I can feel comfortable about my own past being accepted and not being judged.

...she had been an escort.  

"Yeah I'm getting housed, but whose house is it?"
They sounded like words put together in a sentence, but i still have no  idea what they mean to this day.  
Maybe they're a hidden code- like in the Da Vinci code.  
Or you went to the Costanza school of comebacks judging from your two posts.  

You're randomly ornery so much.

Dear Gambler:
I have a new idea for your next book under a psuedonym:  " My life and times with ho's I've known. I am sure that you would have some succulent and serious plot lines and stories regarding your interactions with women of this demimonde.  

I was fine with finding out from a family member who recognized her before me that my SO was a well known PS with a Vivid contract and a single name. Of course she then spilled all the beans. Although she still tells little white lies to protect my ego, which only makes me adore her more.

I like the terminology that's evolved around the activity that has come to be known as the hobby, I really do. It facilitates conversation and clarifies communication.

No need to tell him I was LR, posted on TER for years, and did x, y, and z for x amount. I would simply say at one point in my life I was in the adult entertainment industry to get through grad school. He can take a hike if he has a problem with my PAST.  

I imagine most men would not be comfortable with their gf continuing to provide but obviously some do. At what point in the relationship would you tell the other person? At what point (if ever) does the provider choose to retire?

I chose NOT to date or bother with any men outside of the hobby, for that very reason. I am the type that would cry going down on some dude knowing the love of my life was at home eating Cheetos while his girl was out doing that. No fkin way. If a man did not mind me doing it, I would drop his ass too because he has a screw loose.

The difference between past and present is mathematically impossible to determine (did I begin this sentence in the past? Well, yes and no), but we all know what it means. In the present, it's just infidelity, quaint and simple notion, an doing someone for cash isn't any different than doing someone because they are so exciting it's hard to say no, or so young and handsome. Either way you get something out of it, even if it doesn't add to your net worth on paper.

...To not ask for anything but her.

How would you feel, and what would you do if you found out Mr. Right used to be a hobbiest?

I thing it's a slippery slope once it gets out into the open.
Why did you choose that person?  How many times did you do it?  How much money did you spend?  So did you take her/him to this place?  So how much would I be worth/would you pay me?  Are you going to do it again if you get horney/pissed/fill in your own blank.

If I didn't see GaG or Curly's lips move I would almost think you had a brain of your own! Awesome dude! Lol

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Mall Rats, Dogma, and Jay and Silent Bob strike back were "ok" but Chasing Amy is the shit. I have the collector's edition.

Just like I said he could take a hike, so could I. NO offense but the percentage of men who know and play in this world rarely ever stop for good. It's just too easy to run back to it when I can't fk him for whatever reason, and I don't want to have to worry about that. With me, I only did this shit for the money and trust me... I won't ever be back lol.

Not to tell or not to tell.  Assume you met Ms Right, but learned later a she had previously been an escort.  How would you react?

HOOT!!!! Whatever woodwork you fell out of, you make me giggle on this fine evening.

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If Ms. Right told me she she used to be LR, TS, Courtney, Miss Jones or a few others,  I'd be fine.   I'd be way beyond fine.   At least they would understand my manginic personality.  

Mr. Right (huge, big, humongous..... 'IF' )

to both hobbyists and providers if they are going to turn the page.  Will it work, who knows.  Might it work--of course.

Would your friend be K if his ex fucked 100 of her previous dates?

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Cuz this woman makes sense, yo.

don't 'know' me whatsoever on any level. We'll leave it at that.