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exit9 1343 reads
posted
1 / 23
If you see this is a review does it hurt or hel the provider?

It really doesn't matter who the provider is... but..

There is someone on my radar.. I have seen her already.. She has a review and the review goes into detail about unprotected sex with her.. we all know it goes on.. I really don't want to know if a provider allows this..  
My immediate response is to never see her again.. and move on.... so, as a general question.. I'm wondering if this information in a review helps or hurts a provider..I would expect BBFS to drive away business rather than encourage it. of course, each to their own.. but I find this sort of thing to be pretty destructive and negative.. each to their own I suppose.. but really?

TERrificSinCity 219 reads
posted
2 / 23
It hurts, unless you're a hobbyist hoping to get STD/STI's! eom

Posted By: exit9
It really doesn't matter who the provider is... but..  
   
 There is someone on my radar.. I have seen her already.. She has a review and the review goes into detail about unprotected sex with her.. we all know it goes on.. I really don't want to know if a provider allows this..  
 My immediate response is to never see her again.. and move on.... so, as a general question.. I'm wondering if this information in a review helps or hurts a provider..I would expect BBFS to drive away business rather than encourage it. of course, each to their own.. but I find this sort of thing to be pretty destructive and negative.. each to their own I suppose.. but really?

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 316 reads
posted
3 / 23
I think that in general, it's a negative.

But there are those guys out there who are looking for that.  I know that every time I get a new review that doesn't mention a condom was used, I'll get a few dates who are disappointed when I pull one out.  

Some will even mention that "your reviews don't say you use that!".  I then have to explain that plenty of review writers neglect to mention that detail mostly because they think it goes without saying.  

So yeah, the BBFS seekers will go flocking to that provider, but others will probably hold off for awhile or just pass.  

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NOONER: (noun) A sexual encounter during lunch hour, especially one that is illicit

doncord 42 Reviews 147 reads
posted
4 / 23
Should definitely hurt biz..-e-

Posted By: exit9
It really doesn't matter who the provider is... but..  
   
 There is someone on my radar.. I have seen her already.. She has a review and the review goes into detail about unprotected sex with her.. we all know it goes on.. I really don't want to know if a provider allows this..  
 My immediate response is to never see her again.. and move on.... so, as a general question.. I'm wondering if this information in a review helps or hurts a provider..I would expect BBFS to drive away business rather than encourage it. of course, each to their own.. but I find this sort of thing to be pretty destructive and negative.. each to their own I suppose.. but really?

exit9 320 reads
posted
5 / 23
would you be angry if a review specifically said

That BBFS occurred ?  
I understand that some idiots may seek this out.. I am at a loss to understand why a girl might provide this..
I see a regular who offered it to me as an upsell.. I have seen her at least 8 times.. She then proceeded to tell me that she did not use birth control "because of the health risks".. Hello?  

I know way too many of the names on the AIDS quilt as people.. a face and experience behind the name.. Of course, now.. that specter has been reduced.. but to ignore the exposure is nuts. The easily resolved other STD's would also be a hassle to resolve below the radar..  

I'm not nuts about condoms either.. no one really is.. but the alternative is so easily avoided.. and the knowledge that someone I am seeing is exposed is more than I can ignore..  
So to the question posed in my subject line.. if BBFS happened.. and if it was specifically stated as a great thing in a review, would you be angry with the client or pleased at the great review.. ?

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 205 reads
posted
6 / 23
It will drive most men away

However,  there will still be a few who thrive on danger.

Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 257 reads
posted
7 / 23
To whom are you addressing this question?

Posted By: exit9
That BBFS occurred ?
Posted By: exit9

 So to the question posed in my subject line.. if BBFS happened.. and if it was specifically stated as a great thing in a review, would you be angry with the client or pleased at the great review.. ?
If you're asking providers, please don't expect a real response, as you'll be hard-pressed to find one who openly admits to doing that with clients.  

Yes, we all know it goes on but it's usually something that doesn't get noised about by the provider herself....... so NO, she most likely would not be happy that someone wrote it in a review for all to see.  ;smh:

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NOONER: (noun) A sexual encounter during lunch hour, especially one that is illicit.

MILFCARESSA See my TER Reviews 363 reads
posted
8 / 23
Overall a negative...

Not only from the stand point of protection, but one of boundaries. Questions arise.. Does she generally do that?  Does she do that with only a "special" friend...how special is he if he is posting that?  

 I would assume she will have men who flock towards her feeling they have the "right" on the "menu" to insist on this.  That already happens, but to have a review that pushes for that would be overwhleming at best.

This is really a moment for safety emotionally and physcially that TER should take down the review.  We have all assumed the the hobbiest is even being honest...how many of you post regularly that you feel the reviews are embellished etc!!!?  Perhaps the reviewer is somehow attempting to hurt her...
Related Link: http://caressa.naughtynsexy.com

ComradeM 46 Reviews 136 reads
posted
9 / 23
Would put her on the no-fly list for me

If she's that reckless about protection, what other common sense items is she ignoring?  Screening?  Contact privacy?  Low-profile hotel stays?

This hobby is dangerous enough without seeing someone who just doesn't seem to care.

bocabuster 19 Reviews 271 reads
posted
10 / 23
BBFS in review

It would stop me from seeing her.  
I sounded like Mr Gloom n Doom on another thread when I outlined two common permanent STDs not protected by condoms.  
If I was that cautious IRL I wouldn't have volunteered for two combat deployments.  
But senseless exposure in situations like this and considering that a couple of girls on my radar mentioned in their blogs they enjoy swingers clubs with clients, make you a complete idiot for pursuing BBFS.

bigguy30 161 reads
posted
11 / 23
I would not see a provider that does this either.

It's no way in hell, I am taking any chances with my life seeing a BBFS provider!

Posted By: exit9
It really doesn't matter who the provider is... but..  
   
 There is someone on my radar.. I have seen her already.. She has a review and the review goes into detail about unprotected sex with her.. we all know it goes on.. I really don't want to know if a provider allows this..  
 My immediate response is to never see her again.. and move on.... so, as a general question.. I'm wondering if this information in a review helps or hurts a provider..I would expect BBFS to drive away business rather than encourage it. of course, each to their own.. but I find this sort of thing to be pretty destructive and negative.. each to their own I suppose.. but really?

LondonBay See my TER Reviews 178 reads
posted
12 / 23
Re: Would put her on the no-fly list for me

I heard the high end girls that charge 1000 for an hour offer it.If someone were to offer bbfs at least be expensive about it right?Still not smart though.There was this girl in Chicago with 3 reviews.She charged bbfs for only 40.That's what her reviews said.People can be so petty

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 208 reads
posted
13 / 23
Her phone is probably blowing up now.....

Believe it or not, there's s certain sector of guys who love that shit, BBFS. They lurk the boards just for this kinda gal and thread. Yes it's reckless and some will even show up with their STD testing report ( yeah how fucking lame is that) but it's what turns them on. They may not chime in or comment but they're salivating as we speak. There's some "old timers" where this sort of thing is what they seek, it was normal back in the day.....But as the present community says now, "Hell no I won't go".

YoMaMaDo 172 reads
posted
14 / 23
I am always amazed by this type of question.

Maybe it is that I am just old or maybe I am surprised by those who think their "time" with a provider happens in a vacuum. Although I very much enjoy any provider who has oral fixations that turn her into a vacuum, but I digress.

I am working on the assumption that people on this site are over 18, I am also working on the assumption that all of the people "here" have had sexual relations with other humans.

Now those of us who seek service in most cases are having unprotected sex with someone in our lives and most who provide either are or have had unprotected sex with someone in their personal lives as well. (please read the word "most" before some of you jump my shit for generalizing).

So the question at hand is does advertised BBFS help or hurt. Those who run away from a provider who does BBFS for their reasons are counterbalanced by those who would run toward that same provider for their reasons.

The reality is that we engage in a risk/reward activity. Those of us mongers who swear off a BBFS provider have no idea that our SO has possibly found out about our little "outside activity" and are have BBFS with the pool boy or the guy next door or her co-worker. And those who rest under the false blanket that since their chosen provider always uses protection are just as silly. That provider has , in most cases, a SO as well who may be doing the very things our SO might be.

We are all human and all susceptible to infections and complications. Get tested, I advise to use protection and have fun. You can ruin anything by overanalyzing anything.

If it floats, flys , fucks or drills...rent it don't buy it...right?

mongo19621954 23 Reviews 126 reads
posted
15 / 23
No effect - you can't believe everything you read. EOM


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exit9 127 reads
posted
16 / 23
Re: No effect - you can't believe everything you read. EOM

Good point..

harborview 10 Reviews 148 reads
posted
17 / 23
I admit that I didn't always mention the condom

especially if she was very good at applying it so there was no break in the action.  In most cases she put it on with her mouth & I had to check to see that she had berfore we went further...   I will be more careful in my future reviews.  (If you take it OFF, it had to be put on prior!)

PenleyDuke See my TER Reviews 132 reads
posted
18 / 23
If it's false it will be edited or pulled eom


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ROGM 224 reads
posted
19 / 23
Provider Review About Going BBFS.

Most guys claim that they would never go BBFS with a Provider. My guess is that most guys would like to go BBFS with a Provider. But are too scared to actually go for it. They can talk the talk. But can't walk the walk.  

My ATF never had any BBFS session reviews. How did I go BBFSCIP with her? I just asked her and she said OK.  

You don't want to go BBFS, then use a cover. Why would you dismiss a provider because she does BBFS? Just use a cover.

Afro-desiac 155 reads
posted
20 / 23
ROG, are you aware a condom does not provide total protection from STDs?

Perhaps you should learn more about condoms and STDs before you give advice here.

Oldtimemonger 166 reads
posted
21 / 23
Re: ROG, are you aware a condom does not provide total protection from STDs?

Posted By: Afro-desiac
Perhaps you should learn more about condoms and STDs before you give advice here.
Even if she does BBFS, the condom will protect you against the diseases condoms normally protect against. Every girl is doing BBFS with somebody. Regulars are often called sugar daddies. Then there are boyfriends, husbands etc.

Afro-desiac 147 reads
posted
22 / 23
I guess you've never heard of the Center of Disease Control. Condoms DO NOT provide 100% protection

It's as simple as that.  Please don't be angry with me for pointing out you are wrong.  Again.

Related Link: http://www.cdc.gov/condomeffectiveness/brief.html

Oldtimemonger 165 reads
posted
23 / 23
Re: I guess you've never heard of the Center of Disease Control. Condoms DO NOT provide 100% protec

Posted By: Afro-desiac
It's as simple as that.  Please don't be angry with me for pointing out you are wrong.  Again.
That's exactly what I was trying to say! :) Some people think condoms are 100% effective for all STIs.

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