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It totally does dude...
SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 1465 reads
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I always got good grades in school and in college, but never really kissed ass. Always completed my assignments on time and did well on the tests. Never really had to do anything more than that. Never really had to "kiss ass' per se to get what I wanted, which was always decent grades...But there were always those handful of guys who kissed every ass they could. Whether they got what they wanted is another story. I never bothered to care. Now looking back, I probably should have...

Fast Forward...10+ yrs after graduating from college, I am working and hobbying and still see these kind of people..

Provider posts AD on the AD board and they are drooling all over themselves - typing with one hand and wiping drool off their chin with another. I am not talking about a guy doing it on one off basis, but a handful of guys doing it consistently with the same girls..

Girls - Do you find this annoying, flattering, or just crossing the line..? Do girls really promote this kind of behavior by offering discounts? What gives..

Boys - I can talk about the boys I grew up with and hang around with.. We never liked the "schmoozer kind' in school, and I am sure there are enough guys on TER that find it extremely annoying..

I consider this as a thinly veiled shill. I am irked by this behavior. Not like Mr. Doo Doo was yesterday, but irked - nonetheless. Just trying to understand this from fellow mongers and the girls too - more so from the girls..

-- Modified on 3/12/2013 10:14:51 AM

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 720 reads
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3 / 47

If I want to praise a woman...her looks, boobs, hair...dress.. what have you...

I always shoot her a PM.

That's just my way of doing things, and I am certainly not imposing my way on others (as I have stopped doing recently), but if you go to AD boards (DC & MD where I play), you will see a pattern of behavior..

-- Modified on 3/12/2013 10:30:39 AM

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 898 reads
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5 / 47

I can see what you are saying. Again, I think that is what regional boards are for, though. Everyone seems to find it tacky and needy if done on the GD, so be happy it stays off of here for the most part. There  have been a lot of complaints about hijacking threads with the back and forth banter, so I've backed off a bit. I do actually care about what some people think, and it does get annoying when every thread turns into a flirt fest or boy's club.

I think there is a difference between "taking up for your bros/hos," and outright ass kissing and shilling. Many of you here are like my extended family, so when some random envelope comes on and talks shit, it is only natural that you want to take up for the same people you talk to on a daily basis. For many of us, TER is not the only time we interact with each other, but also via email and phone.

If ass kissing on here gets you a discount, I guess I will never know, nor will the guys who see me. I've never granted special treatment based on what a guy says about me, or if he takes up for me. I'm a big girl.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 673 reads
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Dr Who revived 280 reads
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9 / 47

This was the last batch in this color you liked...but I can check and see if Oprah will promote the other colors as part of her favorite things as well.

CincyGuy likes the white ones BTW  :D

Oh...and taylorsteele said to say HI...there, that's my shill for the day.

Posted By: Back_In_Black
okay so I think the girl is fake , so maybe I point it out . or maybe the girl is creative and deserves the extra read or 100. or maybe a newbie girl comes along and all is in order "she did her hw so why not. but the fucking weekly stories , yes it annoys me but if the guy is happy wtf who cares . and yes I want a heartattack from the two I wrote to ........ who wouldn't !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

liamdoherty 25 Reviews 1000 reads
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10 / 47

The type that irks you, and I is the one that sucks up, with nothing to back it up....... " Egotistical Blow Hards" they can't stop talking about themselves........need it to boost their "EGO".  These folks are as annoying as hell, but to each his own.....

The other are the friendly type, being considerate and just making a personal connection, nothing else.  Usually these folks are more interested in the other person's well being.  This I find is "The Essence" of being Personable, and Respectful.  
It'd be cool if more of us were this way.

JustAGal See my TER Reviews 927 reads
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11 / 47

If someone wants to say something in PRIVATE message, why announce it in PUBLIC?

Mr.Tennis 1 Reviews 724 reads
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12 / 47

Never heard the term before, but I get what you mean after reading the post.  I was the same as you in school, but can recall many many times when other students attempted such behaviors.  You even reminded me of something my sister told me once.  She had some friends in a few of her university classes, one of them was a well off Russian girl I believe.  This girl was actually buying gifts for her professors before exams and major grades.  According to her, this was actually standard practice where she was from.

I think I usually try to be reasonable when it comes to this type of behavior.  I've come across two girls recently that are just absolute beauties.  One of them is actually the provider I've been trying to book.  (Looks like I have to wait till she's back in town :().  Anyway, I've told both of them that I think they're absolutely gorgeous.  I just think it's a kind thing to do, and girls can always use a compliment once in a while.  They always seem to be more stressed out about things than guys are.  For me, to compliment them on their looks was never about seeking favors or anything.  Hoping to put a smile on their face more than anything :)

Of course, it's not to say I haven't done ANY ass kissing myself.  I'm a webmaster currently specializing with adult themed websites, and I have done a fair bit of promotional work for a certain porn studio.  I loved their girls, big fan of the content they produced, things were good.  Of course, they received and still get a fair bit of negative comments on their forum and other places.  I always tried to be reasonable when defending them, but obviously due to the fact that I am operating a website promoting their material, I'm always hesitant to post in a certain way.  I try not to be too biased, but sometimes it was hard to help myself and I would engage in a bit of ass kissing or over defending some of their mistakes.

JustAGal See my TER Reviews 648 reads
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14 / 47

At least now there is a light in front of the tunnel :)

swingsbothways 721 reads
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15 / 47

If I rim your ass??  

Sorry - low hanging fruit.  Without I've got nothing!

quadseasonal 27 Reviews 658 reads
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16 / 47

Never got a chance to do one of my  teachers in school but I did drool over a couple of them, especially my sixth grade math teacher  . She was hot and divorced .
We called guys that were  teacher ass kissers , brown nosers  . Some of them were flagrant  .
 
 When the basketball coach tried  to recruit me for his team I told him I didn't need to play
basketball to pass his class ,  like his brown nose dribbling boys .  
He hated me after that , I still passed , barely .

  It doesn't bother me how guys reply to ad posts . I don't read them if I don't want to .
Do you become irritated when walking in the library because of all the books that don't interest you ?
Take a clue from me , keep it simple and care free when you can , skip whatever and  whoever  bores or irritates you the most  .  :-D

  If I see a ad post photo from a provider I've never seen , and her photo  stimulates my eyes and libido much more than usual   , I sometimes  send her one complimentary PM .
 It's rare , maybe two or three a year , but that's me , if someone else does things differently I don't care.

 I recently sent a  provider a compliment by PM  on her backside ad photo .
If she received  a hundred compliments on the board , in my opinion she deserved them all , but I wouldn't spend my time reading them all , especially if it irked me .  

I might not read your posts if you weren't a Nat's fan , but I wouldn't call you a brown noser of any degree   .       Hooray Nat's       :-D

 
 
 

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
I always got good grades in school and in college, but never really kissed ass. Always completed my assignments on time and did well on the tests. Never really had to do anything more than that. Never really had to "kiss ass' per se to get what I wanted, which was always decent grades...But there were always those handful of guys who kissed every ass they could. Whether they got what they wanted is another story. I never bothered to care. Now looking back, I probably should have...

Fast Forward...10+ yrs after graduating from college, I am working and hobbying and still see these kind of people..

Provider posts AD on the AD board and they are drooling all over themselves - typing with one hand and wiping drool off their chin with another. I am not talking about a guy doing it on one off basis, but a handful of guys doing it consistently with the same girls..

Girls - Do you find this annoying, flattering, or just crossing the line..? Do girls really promote this kind of behavior by offering discounts? What gives..

Boys - I can talk about the boys I grew up with and hang around with.. We never liked the "schmoozer kind' in school, and I am sure there are enough guys on TER that find it extremely annoying..

I consider this as a thinly veiled shill. I am irked by this behavior. Not like Mr. Doo Doo was yesterday, but irked - nonetheless. Just trying to understand this from fellow mongers and the girls too - more so from the girls..

-- Modified on 3/12/2013 10:14:51 AM

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 585 reads
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17 / 47

the target of my post.

I am talking about involuntary response certain johnnie boys have when certain hookers post..

Almost canned responses..They probably have files on their machine with responses typed up.

Hooker 1....Posts

Response..hobby/TER/Hooker1/drool1.txt

Hooker 2...Posts

Response....hobby/TER/Hooker2/drool2.txt

-- Modified on 3/12/2013 12:42:19 PM

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 787 reads
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18 / 47

So true. I bought gifts all through college, and usually right before finals week or the grading of my Thesis lol. Worked like a charm.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 685 reads
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21 / 47

She was flashing them. Followed by a wink and a nod..Mostly a wink...

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 799 reads
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22 / 47

That form of shilling goes way deeper..
Usually those guys have a review in the hundreds they have that gives her a high score.
There are little girls out there that need reviews from big dudes with lots of them..
In an attempt to gain biz...
Rules get broken. That pisses me off! Mainly because it works. Fuk I hate that!
Not only does it put me at a greater risk.
But the thought some asshole would negotiate a good review...
For whatever... Disgusts me.

It's like a dirty foreigner handling my food..


SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 659 reads
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23 / 47

I will PM you tomorrow.. How about that? :D

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 667 reads
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inicky46 61 Reviews 829 reads
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25 / 47

If it's a time sensitive message and you fear the recipient doesn't check PMs.

swingsbothways 984 reads
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26 / 47

So guys with lots of reviews haggle discounts with new providers because the provider needs his review to help grow her business.  Correct?  I totally missed that part of it but then again my regional board is completely dead.  

My response to LR was because she has mentioned not being into rimming.  I was being a smart ass.  "She will not give a discount for schmoozing but will she for rimming." hahaha...

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 900 reads
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27 / 47

Spell it out for me. So I can understand.
I wasn't talking about you. You know.
Or maybe I was??

jinnimixxx See my TER Reviews 774 reads
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28 / 47

I personally dislike brown-nosers & the like. It's dishonest & deceitful. Usually that person has an agenda and will con their way...instead of deserving the job position or support or whatever it is the schmoozer is after, he or she is rewarded for his/her ability to spin/flatter/lie/cheat those people in the path toward the goal/prize. It's really awful when the deceiver/low life ass kisser destroys people in & on their way.

Evidence is everywhere. I've always believed I should earn my rewards even if others don't have to. And one doesn't have to lie to pay a compliment to someone (the "mark" could be Gollum & I could honestly say, "I admire your persistence" -but you cannot have the ring I'm thinking lol) but what separates flattery from schmoozing is intent & truth.

Schmoozers lie & deceive and often try to cheat their way to their goal. They often leave a path of broken people in their wake, who realize how they helped the schmoozer get "one up". By then , it's usually too late. The brown noser has triumphed.

Competent people tend to "rest on their laurels" and flatter as a social grace if necessary, but don't lie, cheat, deceive or destroy to accomplish their goals. Their actions show they're deserving (of promotion, position, etc. ). Often overlooked, perhaps, buts that's because the one(s) who make the decisions usually prefer bullshit to bluntness (or are nincompoops themselves). But that's another story :)

xxx
Jinni



swingsbothways 672 reads
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29 / 47

I thought you were responding to me, but you did not.  You were responding to LR.

It was my bad - not yours.

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 635 reads
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30 / 47

More people are starting fights, and getting confused..
It is because of the way the "tree" grows.
Sometimes long threads can get very confusing.
Especially if you are browsing on a smartphone.

Food for thought.

simontheman 8 Reviews 660 reads
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31 / 47

I hate schmoozers, butt kissers, politically correct douche bags, and the like.
The worst part about these types, is that they think if they schmooze louder and more frequently they will become more believable. Wrong.
It is like the 10/10 review crowd. Eventually any reasonable guy looking at her reviews begins asking the question, 'is this woman really perfect, as her minions would have me believe, or is there some serious BS going on?'.  I have meet very few perfect women, and none were in the hobby. So I look at such scenarios as bullshit.
I saw a post recently stating a girl was using some well known fashion model's pictures in her ads. Some douche had the nerve to state that he found it hard to believe cause he has seen her and she's beautiful. What? Yeh, keep schmoozing louder and more frequently, maybe she'll turn into that model because you think she should.
Sorry to have candy coated my opinion.

-- Modified on 3/12/2013 11:12:24 AM

bluepillman 633 reads
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swingsbothways 792 reads
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33 / 47

I will read a post with lots of trees and then go back to post under one branch of it and invariably click on the wrong thing.  But it's my fault for not paying closer attention.  

With me you should always assume there was confusion involved.  Not really interested in pissing matches.

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 631 reads
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34 / 47

Just kidding.
I getcha! :D

That's a joke.  Get it?

sensuality64 20 Reviews 803 reads
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sensuality64 20 Reviews 263 reads
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37 / 47

if you're going to speak in tongues. There seems to be some extra letters that S64 doesn't get.

1192967 45 Reviews 761 reads
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38 / 47

you really can't tell what reply goes to what.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 704 reads
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39 / 47

Posted By: swingsbothways
So guys with lots of reviews haggle discounts with new providers because the provider needs his review to help grow her business.  Correct?  I totally missed that part of it but then again my regional board is completely dead.  

My response to LR was because she has mentioned not being into rimming.  I was being a smart ass.  "She will not give a discount for schmoozing but will she for rimming." hahaha...

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 819 reads
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Ok fine, but it was only ONE professor and the others were "tutors." Grrrr....

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 630 reads
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Dr Who revived 697 reads
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I hate when restaurants in ChiTown have that on the menu as lobster...showing "market price".  That's total bullshit since it's only Gulf crawfish.

And the assholes here are willing to pay a premium for that shit.

Went for a tour last year in Boston on the USS Constitution and they babbled that the crew ate lobster as it was cheap and not a delicacy back then.

Best lobster is in Portland Maine...I sat on the wharf and watched them pull them out of the bay...ate them on the spot.  And prices are reasonable.  Last year in Boston went to Union..thought it would be good but the hype was better than the lobster.  But the drinks and company made up for the lobster.  Oh well...maybe later this year on my trip back to Boston.

Crawfish...whatever  LOL

MagicMedic 5 Reviews 296 reads
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46 / 47

For about 5 years, went out to eat for my birthday and saw "New Orleans style crawfish,  market price"
I was dumb enough to ask, the waitress told me $1.00 each. Now let me explain, I get a pound for $2.50... I told her they are crazy. Damn Yankees

MM

jinnimixxx See my TER Reviews 978 reads
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47 / 47

Looking forward to some crawfish in May...

Making me an offer I can't refuse lol

xxx
Jinni

Posted By: London Rayne
Posted By: swingsbothways
So guys with lots of reviews haggle discounts with new providers because the provider needs his review to help grow her business.  Correct?  I totally missed that part of it but then again my regional board is completely dead.  

My response to LR was because she has mentioned not being into rimming.  I was being a smart ass.  "She will not give a discount for schmoozing but will she for rimming." hahaha...

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