its just a fantasy, right?

There is a reason why this is a taboo on escort board, and the reason is that we ladies are often victims of violent crimes.  

Why do you suppose we SCREEN?  Yes, one of the reasons is to make sure we are not arrested, but another major reason is to make sure we are not raped, robbed or killed.

As for women who indulge in it, they are most likely are either never have been victims of actual violence or lead such "safe" lifestyle that it seems like something exotic to them.

We on another hand face this every time we see new client.

Lina

Perfectly said.  I wouldn't have felt the need to post below if I would have read this first.

Just wondering.  

I'm guessing you have to be EXTRA careful not to have someone screaming 'NO' from your room.

Taboo as it is (for an escort board) there are women out there who indulge in force roleplay as well. Difficult to judge what two consenting adults do for kicks. Personally I think fetishes like golden showers or even shit eating are down right nasty but dont see it as my place to judge on a sex board. Now I will go out on a limb and say anything having to do with kids is just plain fucked up.

A weird, dumb, insulting post by (SHOCK!) an alias.  Usually worded to insult no specific lady but at the same time to insult them all.

on every board you post on. It must be your incontinence. I suggest you see a doctor immediately.

And by that, I mean, some ladies like to have the guy take some sort of excessive control.

Whether the lady likes to be tied up, choked, spanked black and blue, or slapped across the face. Some ladies aren't bashful when they tell a guy 'I want you to do this'...

Myself, I'm not into being an abusive sex partner. I'd much rather alternate fucking and cuddling than smack a lady around cuz it turns her on.

And before any of you wise-asses make any assumptions, the only thing of those choices I did was the choking deal. I was told to, I wasn't comfortable with it and don't see doing it again.

I didn't get that either, but she definitely likes it.

Your incessant alias whining is growing older than your name.

Wasn't it Michael Hutcheons of INXS and David Carradine that hung themselves in the act?

I don't know. Something about the lack of flow of blood to the brain, no oxygen, does it for some people.

You know, I don't mind being blindfolded, spanked and shit like that. But that's all in fun. Tied up, I'd have to really trust the lady.

Being cut. Or choking. Shit like that is brutal and I don't see anything sexy about that.

Maybe I'm old school. But I know what I like.

Thanks, btw...

The OP didn't specify if 'he' wanted to fulfill his rape fantasy, or fulfill his date's.

As a matter of fact, how do we know it wasn't a woman that posted it?

I went back and checked, I'll have you know.

So, you can't deny that some women, as well as some men, have some sort of fetish of either committing or being a victim of rape. Men are victims too, and you know it. Just not as previlent, or as known cuz of the shame factor.

My point is, Lina, what others think of 'rape fantasy' others think 'fetish'. The 'word' rape makes my screen crawl, personally.

But in the same respect, like I said earlier, I know what I like when I'm with a lady. If she wants me to do something I'm not comfortable with I'll say so, after what I've seen.

Sure sounds like the same kinds of drivel:

Too many of you guy are latent Homos or Bi.....  - by Gay_Not_OK!, 10/3/2011

Short Rant - SWALLOW LADIES !!! WTF is wrong with most of you?  - by gag_reflex, 10/2/2011

Of course most those alias guys all look the same to me.

You whine too much and sound like a chick.

Clearly a child lacks the capacity to consent to anything, sexual or otherwise.

Another thing is what two consenting adults who are comfortable with eachother both agree to do.

I agree, screening is an excellent practice that helps to ensure the safety and comfort of all involved.

It's hardly a fantasy reserved for males.

and "school girl" fetishes are also quite common. Adult (although young looking dressed as school girls is one of the most common fetishes out there.

Like it or not, this is an adult fuck board. Most people in society would condemn you for your moral choices, (fucking for money), where do you, or anyone else get off making moral choices for others?

Like Enzo, I find golden showers, scat, rape fantasies and the like distasteful personally, but what I find even more distasteful is the level of hypocrisy and narrow mindedness exhibited by members of a board devoted to hookers and customers of hookers.

Might I suggest a few of you get off of your high fucking horse and quit persecuting others the way that society persecutes you.

Maybe that is because there are aliases like you and AliasBusterBuster posting dumb comments on every board.  Could be.

Personally, I have a difficult time taking any alias at face value.  Others can believe as they wish.  I just pointed out the similarity of the three posts, day after day.

It is profoundly hypocritical for anyone on this board to point their finger and call out "scum!" to anyone else based on their sexuality.  

NEWSFLASH: **TER consists of whores and cheaters**  

The only reason that society doesn't hate us is that we lie to everyone about who we are, yet this board is full of people declaring their righteous indignation over the immoral activities of others.

Role playing doesn't hurt anyone, whether you are role playing rape, incest, pedophilia, or anything else.  That's fine if you don't personally like it, but it does absolutely no harm and there is no reason for condemning it so strongly.

Personally, I'm way more offended, insulted, and frightened by white knights that want to save me from my chosen profession than I am by some innocent role playing.  I'm also way more offended by fake pictures, upselling, NCNS, overstaying your time, and stalking.

It's not that I take the topic of rape lightly.  I, myself, have been raped.  Because of that, I would never indulge in a rape fantasy as it would be extremely difficult for me.  I'm just saying that role playing is the safe and responsible way for people with a fetish to satisfied their needs and we should respect the decisions made by consenting adults in the bedroom.

I agree with the gals cuz Many  have been through or know someone that has been through a scary situations, or worse.
Have respect -
the word Rape should NOT be used.
yes , this board is all things hobby, but we can at least show respect for each other., or at least I can
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When Two or more consenting adults  want to act out a fantasy, do it respectfully, with safe words, and do research and learning prior : there is more info on this in bdsm room -
I heard a while back the words ' Take Me Fantasy" and find that much more appropriate and respectful than the scary sickening word Rape.
I am against many fantasies, and some are down right sickening, so I do NOT mean this post to sound like I condone all fantasies, cuz I do NOT.
I am against a fantasy when all involved are NOT all consenting, underage, or unable to speak or defend themselves.
Have respect for others.

just fantasy play, people.
when i did phone sex, it was one of my most popular roleplays.  now, as a roleplay provider, it's surprising rare.

I was not expecting all this!  Sexformoneyisfun is absolutely right.  How insanely hypocritical and self-righteous is it for people to have such a strong reaction to an (IMO innocent) hypothetical question?

Sorry, but anonymity comes with some strings attached. I have no idea who this girl is, what her background is like or even who to call if she freaks.

This means that providers in general have generally seen me as lowest-common-denominator and vanilla as possible for it still to be called sex.

I'm actually fairly vanilla to start with, but in civie life have often accommodated domination-type fantasies by women -- her pleasure is mine to an extent anyway. But these were women I *knew*.

If an anonymous provider wanted a rape fantasy, she'd have to get it from some other hobbyist because I wouldn't give it to an anonymous woman even if she were paying me.

I am not, btw, arguing that my own personal approach should be universal. That's just MY approach.