So I've been noticing that a lot of my current hobbyists whom have passed through my door try to request CIM (Cum in Mouth) or COF (Cum on face) When its stated on my profile that Im not into it.... I've been struggling on deciding to change my menu a bit & add CIM to my services....  I really do not enjoy CIM or the taste of cum... I'm also sorta OCD so worries of catching STDs from semen is worrisome as well... (I get tested monthly since I've started this current career path)........ COF is absolutely off the menu... I take time to get all dolled up to get it ruined by an hour appt-NO WAY!!!! My make-up is expensive I don't purchase it at the locale drugstore...lol

CIM but spit it out...either back on his cock...or all over the floor...that is HOT.   You then get off the bed and wash your mouth out.   The taste is GONE.....think about how many more clients you will have and more referrals.   If I were a provider...I would.  :     In fact, I've tasted my own CUM it's NOT that bad

But you should only do what you are comfortable doing. There are enough hobbyists out there, that you should have no problem finding clients either way. Why compromise your own values for business?

I like providers to do what turns them on. I dont have a checklist of requirements. If you dont like CIM..dont do it.  I know others will disagree.  But it is alot more fun when you can naturally enjoy things.

I'm not much for cumming on a woman's face. I think it's degrading. That's just me.

While I prefer the option it is not a dealbreaker although I am finding more Providers do offer it

I do agree about CIF....I've never done that to any women...Maybe by mistake...It's NOT a turn on.   I also agree with whatever turns you on...DO.   If it's something that doesn't make you wet then don't do it.

However recently a few providers literally "Blew" me away...

o CIM, I pass. Having said that, if I were you I wouldn't do it. Number one -  You don't like it. Number two - since you don't like it that will make itself known somehow.

Some of us are thoughtful and want to taste good for you.  But do what you are comfortable with.

As related to a Pm just now.... It's not like its never happened in a session.... Things heat up & with the right client the sessions so intense it naturally happened couple times...  

Because being a quality provider means that you are enjoying what you do also. I allow CIM because I like it and after I did extensive research, any activity that you do carries risk and you should be able to be smart and minimize the risk. There are tons of articles online written by medical professionals that will aid your decision whether you move forward with it or not.

and as others have stated, I wouldn't recommend you do anything that your not completely comfortable with

I prefer CIM, although some of my favorite ladies do not do it.  But I tend to prefer ladies that list it on ads/websites.
COF has never been a big deal for me, however, during a HJ a lady held me so I would hit her cheeks and chin.  Then she used her tongue to clean up what she could, then wiped the rest off with her finger and then sucked her finger.  And she maintained eye contact while doing it.
I gotta admit I found that very hot.

It's one of the first things I look for. The orgasm is out of this world. CIM not COF.

http://www.murdzplace.com/cnn/

I would tell you not to do it if your not comfortable with it. CIM is must for me whether she spits or swallows is immaterial, it's got to somewhere, but if she doesn't do it then I'll pass, but there should be enough guys that don't care for the girl to make the money she wants. If you were to do with a client try a regular that like enough to let them do it, and will be understanding enough that it could well be a trial/one time thing. But again if your not comfortable with it and you do it, it will make him uncomfortable and then the mood will be killed at least IMO that's how it would blow over.

Can't help making a light hearted joke, not meant to be snarky !! A provider who does not do CIM could stand out from all the GFE ads by saying she provides JLY

who one day grabbed me, took me to the champagne room and literally gave me the BBBJ of my life and she swallowed like she was dying of thirst and this was the only thing that would save her... that said, other ladies have provided BJ's some swallow, some spit out, and some pull away when I'm ready to pop...  

my ATF last spring and Mr. Happy went from between her breasts up to her mouth while she laid on the bed. I fucked her mouth and she swallowed every drop (always has regardless of position). After we were finished, she said "that was really hot".

I allow both CIM and COF, but damned if I am swallowing that crap.

http://www.snopes.com/inboxer/hoaxes/fellatio.asp

http://www.yourtango.com/experts/professor-kimberly-resnick-anderson/10-health-benefits-semen

Okay, I've searched for JLYW and can't find it. Translate, please?

...from time to time if I know they offer it. But it's not a deal breaker for me I see ladies that don't offer it because I enjoy them and all the things they do offer.

Thank you. At least my ex didn't short me in that department.

jlyw

my wife use to cim each time we make love, but after 23 years, she does not cim anymore.

"Just Like Your Wife".  Closely related to JLMW.  TER, please add to the Newbie FAQs, thank you.

I'm Lucky my Provider does either one. Sometimes when I decide to CIM, she Swallows. That's so Awesome. I didn't select her based on just this. Would I see her even if she didn't do this? 99.9% Yes. If you don't enjoy CIM, then at least offer COF. Make Up is Expensive. But what you'll make offering COF will more than make up for the cost.

I'll ask her. I'll take her lead at the moment. She's surprised me, said no thanks.... but at that point, I'm cumming & obviously pretty happy at that point. Actually been many years since I CIM with a provider. Not a deal breaker with me, but I get that it's a preference for some. Either way.

From the CDC: In 2009 (the most recent year numbers are available)—

It's really hard to do a good BBBJ but somehow not allow him to CUM without spoiling his O.  I don't care what she does with it after BUT SHE needs to keep going until the gentleman is drained.   There are all sorts of ways to handle it without swallowing but acting like it's TOXIC WASTE is a huge turn off for me.  
I do look for gals who Do CIM...  

... if there is not CIM, there is often a tentativeness/pulling away that makes the BBBJ not as good as it would otherwise be

in regards to it naturally happening while sharing time with a gent.

Was just talking with another provider about the queen of blowjobs. While talking about how amazingly energetic she was, and how she jumps on the guy, I went on about how I like to feel the guy out first. She jumped in, "Girl, I'm not going to be able to do anything but MY style. I'm not this girl and that girl. And I keep my clients because they like my style." Good word... She said it better, but it reminded me that I, nor anyone else, can truly compare themselves to another escort.  

not a deal breaker for me.  that said, the best BBBJs do end with CIM.  one of my favorite providers is really in to giving BJs and prefers going to the finish (including swallow).  always reminds me that she did not spill a drop. of  course, good tip is always included for this service

This is a team sport....I would not want a lady to do something she was uncomfortable with. Things are much better for me if both of us enjoy our time together.

i know quite a few ladies who have transitioned from spitting to swallowing..it is merely an acquired taste..

By 'team sport' you mean she cuts her donation in half due to your mutual satisfaction?

It's pretty much a deal breaker for me. THAT said, one of my ATF's wouldn't allow CIM much less swallow for 3-4 months. Then one dawn, on an 11th floor beach condo balcony. She went bbbjnqns with mini facial. Never badgered her over it she she just wanted to deliver on her terms. We picked up months ago a hot waitress who had the hots for my ATF and vice versa. They got to know each other personally after some E communications and after 4 months we all hooked up. After lots of daty, 69, bbbj etc the waitress proclaimed "I need to finish you off." The bbbjdtnqns commenced. She didn't stop until I exploded (hadn't in 5 days) didn't miss a drop never dropping eye contact. Despite my sensitivity, she wouldn't 'let go' for a good five minutes post climax. Wow. My ATF was furious lol she didn't share. Moral of the story? Give a lady time, the right place, good company and eventually she'll turn into a true cumwhore!

My fav is anal; but I'll often see a lady who swallows if she doesn't otherwise offer anal.  
CBJ, or no swallow and no anal? Don't even waste my research time.

reminds me of my favorite part of a hot duo..after blowing a load in the lucky girl's mouth..jus watching them spit and share the love juice between them..a complete turn on worthy of any porn movie ever made..i love to watch cum swapping 101..

But I am not too interested in COF.  

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I would have needed a jolly rancher already in my mouth to do that shit or maybe some Halls.  Bluck! Keep your damn seed bwahahaha. I will roll it around in my mouth, play with it, let it roll from chin to chest, but if you want me to swallow it, you better have a blender and some protein mix by the bed, because it aint happening without a chaser.

I dnt mind the taste, cuz I gotta watch the look on the guys face when he has reached that extreme pleasure point, then I like teasing a little more till he jus can't take the tickle sinsation anymore........
 

By the bed? I'll have it in my hand and pass it to you as soon as my eyes roll back into their normal.................wait a minute, by the bed is prolly for the best! Jolly Ranchers, Halls, Altoids, whatever you need baby!

Skyler you are MY KIND of woman!

so I can search the database for ladies who spit/swallow.